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Wife finally admitted
Hi folks, PLEESCUCK writing to you all... Bear with me, it's a long but nice story...
Please don't be so hard on my grammar, English is not my native language.
I have been lurking around here and the old forum (cuckold forum) for some time. Reading experiences, reading some advice, just wondering if my wife would ever do it.
First, some input about us. We've been together for 10 years, we married after 7 years together. We both are college graduates, steady jobs, love each other. We have normal arguments as a couple, 1 beautiful daughter steady and growing marriage. I am a regular 35yr old guy, confident, very analytic (engineering major) I'm not on the geek scale, high sex drive, support wife with home duties, ambitious... all a lady can ask for (I'm humble yeah!). Wife is 30yrs, born and raised in a conservative family, lovely personality, also engineering major, very ambitious, and I mean VERY ambitious, the best mother a child can ask for.
Sex between us has been up and down through the relationship. At first we were like rabbits, she fall for my pussy eating skills (love doing it). Penis is 5.5' rock hard, and can make her orgasm 90% of the time from clitoral stimulation only.
We had some years of long distance relationship. One time during that period I found some text messages with one guy telling she was thinking about him with her wet pussy and stuff like that. I confronted her, told me that was only for ego reasons and that contact ended immediately. She was really sorry about it, and I believed her. That event ignited my cuckolding desires. I just imagined sex between her and another guy, and boy, that was hot as hell. It was not an obsession, really confused me that I imagined her with other man and make me horny. This was the turning point.
Sex after that event was reignited. One time she suggested a dildo fantasy. I bought a pair of 7' dongs that we still play with. She loves them and I know that as a fact because she penetrates her pussy "balls deep" and cums harder than clitoral only. Size has not been an issue between us, but some suggestions, remarks and dildo play make me believe she prefers bigger: "Baby that penis looks so small, that’s cute" to my soft cock; “Its not large, but I like your girth"; “honey you should trim those pubes it will be cleaner, sexy and look bigger"; "I have to see who has a big cock for me to choose a man" talking to her girlfriends (she denies telling this); "wow, how can she take that cock and not feel pain? It’s huge" watching some porn together. So friends, Is this a sign of big cock curiosity? She denies it.
2 years before marriage I "grew some balls" and suggested a MFM threesome. She was quiet all the time I was speaking, her answer "I have to think about it". I talked about the idea when having sex, that made her horny but not seriously "into" the fantasy. One time she told me that there was a coworker that was hitting on her, I suggested to go for it....her definitive answer: NO.
Fast forward, 2 years after marriage sex became less frequent, 1 or 2 times a month, no kinky stuff, no dildo play, no fantasies involved… in one word boring. When we had sex was missionary and her on top. My fantasies grew in intensity, maybe because I needing sex. We love each other and jumped that hurdle as a couple successfully. One time I got fuzzy with some beers and told her my desire to see her with another man, if she wanted a big cock, etc. As a part of that session she said yes. Some days later she told me that we should speak about it. She asked me not to bring the conversation with alcohol involved. She asked some questions: Why would I want that? If she does it will I use it against her during an argument?, Are you gay or bi?, etc. I answered all her questions, assured her that I truly love her and made sure that this was not swinging. I suggested that if we stick only on roleplaying that would be fine as long as she enjoys the fantasy. She told me that she had to think about actually doing it, but that she could try playing with the fantasy (obviously she was doing it for me).
Comes March 2013, after some sex discussions with a female friend of her, which we have a great level of confidence, I “came out” about this fantasy. My wife was shocked, to say the least, that I spoke about it in front of someone outside our relationship. And then she dropped the bomb “Well I want you to know that I’m looking for some guy to make it happen” BOOM!!! I could not believe it, maybe she was telling that because we were in front of her friend, maybe she was only teasing me, who knew…
The following week we were at home chatting about random stuff and told me that her girlfriend asked her if she was serious about sex with another man, she answered “Maybe, I’m curious”, her friend could not believe it, and asked her to be cautious.
We went to bed, I had that phrase “I’m curious” in my head banging like a church bell. We got naked, started rubbing her clit, I told her that the thought of her with another man was so fucking intense…
She: ”Yes I’m curious, and think about it”
Me: “I would love to see your face, eyes closed, arched back, receiving another cock”
…SILENCE (kissing her body, rubbing and fingering her pussy)…
She: “…..I’ll do it”
Me: “Do what?”
Her: “Sex with another man while you watch”
Me: “Look at me I’m so hard”
Her: “That’s why I’m so wet baby”
Me: “Can I eat you?”
She: “No, fuck me”
Me: “We have no condoms and you are not taking pills. Do you want me to bring the dildo? Or, clit rub is ok?”
Her: “No, please bring the dildo”
She had a hard orgasm, long time shivering. All the time I was telling her that if she liked that cock, if she wanted it, etc… I came big time, lots of semen all over the place, she asked me to finish on her tits. Cum covered her from bellybutton to neck.
So folks that is my story so far… We are in a process of mutual acceptance and laying the rules before taking the big step.
I just can say to all the “wannabe cuckolds” like me (It’s no official yet). Patience is your best allied, you have to embrace patience. Don't push your woman. Search for some potential and exploit those signs. As I said, my wife is VERY ambitious and she loves to be the center of attention, I approached from that angle. Communicate ALL the time and plant the seed. Show her your love, and fuck her. Do things for her. Make her trust you and be sure that you will be ok with ANY decision she makes and learn to take a NO for an answer, and a maybe as a maybe. If she is willing "just play" the fantasy enjoy it. I can tell you that hearing my wife admit she was curious was all I wanted.
What I told you is is 100% real. Is not a “how to” manual, but you can take my word if you find it useful. I came across many fraudulent web pages. I know for sure that everybody is eager for a fool proof method to make this happen but every woman is different, you know your wife better than any other man (I hope so).
Sorry if I extended, but wow, I'm so exited that this will finally happen.
Want to see some advice of the experienced cucks and all related comments.
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Wow! Thanks for sharing - how about a couple pics to help with the imagination?
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old1.JPG heres one for starters one of Amandas favs
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So sorry man posted my pic in wrong thread sorry
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Excellent story - not too long and thanks for sharing the details, it adds a lot of background. It sounds like you are on the path to get there, just stay with it. A couple of bits of advice, when she does do it, (and it sounds like she will) be prepared for major remorse on her part. She might be pissed that you got her to do it, she will have mixed feelings that she won't know how to deal with. Be patient at that point. After my wife's first, she said it would never happen again, what have you gotten me into and all of that stuff. I didn't press it and reassured her that I love her and she is hot. By the next weekend she wanted to go out again.
Secondly, be prepared for flops. We have a fantasy of a super hung stud taking our wives to new highs. She might have to kiss a bunch of frogs to find him. Some guys talk a good game then can't even get it up or really suck in bed. Or worse, talk a good game then never show up for the real action. Be ready to handle that and know it is his problem not yours. Women if they lack any self confidence will start blaming themselves. He wasn't attracted to me, I am fat, I am ugly, I am old , you know the drill. Don't let that side track her from the prize. Because once she does find that mythical bull stud, she will be hooked. My wife as addicted right away.
Finally, it sounds like you have her thinking about it. Let it happen don't force it too much. Set ups are a lot of pressure on everyone especially if she is not experiened. If she knows you approve, maybe her first step out might be when you are not there. I know you want to see it but it might be easier for her to step to the wild side and taste forbidden fruit without you. Maybe not, and if you get to watch the first one, as I did, you are lucky. Just be cautious about making it too mechanical or set up. Let it flow and happen more naturally. If she knows you want it, and support her, and she is looking for it, it can happen when least expected.
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No worries guy - you can post Amanda on my thread anyday! :-)
Originally Posted by danny60
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