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oaf2015

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So my fantasy is to see my wife with someone else (girl or guy). She has always said that she would not share me. I have told her that I would not mind sharing her. Throughout the years I have managed to come out of her comfort zone. She is naturally open minded and extremely kinky. We have role played at a bar (pick up scenario). It was originally intended to give others the opportunity to hit on her. Only two older unattractive to her men hit on her. I "picked her up" and took her to the hotel. The latest and most recent experience, was to go to a swinger's on premise club. She reiterated that she would not share me and would only get freaky with me. She was all about it. We went to a wine bar then went to the club. She had to use the restroom and went in unafraid by herself while I paid. She was not weirded out at all. In fact, we ended sitting in one of the tables by the dance floor area had some drinks and played a little. Sadly it was almost closing time but she wanted to use the black light room. We didnt leave the door open as it was our firat time but we got it on and it was a fun experience. What should I plan for next?
 
Try a repeat as this seems to be a comfortable environment for her but try going a bit further and get there earlier, but don't give up the earlier wine as lubricant effort.
 
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2wheel said:
Try a repeat as this seems to be a comfortable environment for her but try going a bit further and get there earlier, but don't give up the earlier wine as lubricant effort.
Yea I figured next time go to the wine bar earlier in the afternoon to be at the club earlier as well. Also, planning to leave the door of whatever room opened to give others a show and to test her to see how much she enjoys that. I am hoping that since it will be earlier, giving others a show will open her up into interacting with others.
 
I hate to disagree, but there is no such thing as a recipe to turn your wife into a hot wife. The only recipe for success is communication, honesty, and authenticity.

It sounds as if you have an amazing woman. I would be open and honest about what you want. One of her primary objections seems to be that she thinks you're using this scenario to fuck other women. Assuming that is not the case, I would keep emphasizing the point that you have no interest in other women at all. Reassure her.

Have you asked her point blank what she would need in order to feel comfortable having sex with someone else? I would start there and see what she says.

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