How Do I Tell My Wife I Want Her To Fuck Other Men

Paul Ramsey

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I need some help. I am 54, my wife 51, and she is still very hot. We have been married 25 years. Does anyone have any idea on how I can raise this with her in a way that won't leave me cringing in shame (or her thinking I am insane) if she reacts very negatively. I have fantasizing about this for years, but really am going nuts about it in the last year or so.

Any thoughts would be very gratefully received.
 
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well blurting it out might not help. get movies that include cuckolding - softcore ect. maybe an erotic book that contains stories like that. in case you watch porn together a selection of a few cuckolding movies helps.
just mix it in...
if she comments in a shrugging off-way say that you think its nasty naughty but hot. just play that subtile again and again.. yet give her the feeling you want her - encourage her to flirt. maybe surprise her with more revealing outfits..new heels...
dont give her the feeling you wanna get rid of her
 
Do the pair of you do fantasy scenarios to liven-up your sex life?
If so then introduce, e.g., the fit young waiter when you are on holiday - "You liked him didn't you?" Imagine him kissing your neck... (or whatever turns your wife on)
Then use this type of scenario of her with another man more and more
 
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Thank you. Our sex life has gotten very boring. My wife actually told me over the weekend that we need to liven things up. I think I will suggest we read some porn stories together on the web, and at some point pick a cuckold story. Perhaps that will start the conversation.
 
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good idea. and a pluspoint is that she is open to try new things. pick it slow.
 
There's your opening. Something us guys want so badly, cause we're men, we're heavy handed.
 
Pillow talk aslo works when making love things like wispering in her ear talking about a cleb she may like ect to break the ice a bit
 
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Did you introduce your wife into cuckolding?
 
Paul, How is the progress?