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Scintillating Cuckold Taboo

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Hi all. From what I have been able to understand of the cuckold world and cuckolding in general is the multitude of roles and/or forms that can be played out and all under this fetish or lifestyle. (Is it a fetish?)

For me to play the part of a cuckoldress is more appealing than say a hotwife because of the 'taboo' factor that I have learnt to associate with cuckolding more than Hotwifery because it is most likely derivative of the what cuckolding was in the traditional sense. An adulterous wife of an unwitting cuckold husband who falls pregnant to another man.

I feel that hotwifing is not only an agreement for wife to fuck other men but also for her to do so more openly (I'm not sure I am making sense here but I shall persist anyways).

What I'm saying is I don't want to be a swinger who sleeps with groups of men and women and that groups of us get together and between groups of people it's all out in the open nor do I want to be a hotwife that comes and goes as she pleases and liberal with her lovers at large in public so I don't want a hall way pass to engage in extra martial sex while husband is at home doing the stock market or out golfing or fishing and is not turned on by my liberty with other men. Nor do I want an open relationship

I much prefer the sickly erotic, every muscle fibre in his (Hubby) being turned on knowing that no matter where we are out in public with no hint of anything to do with the lifestyle lays barely covered beneath the surface a cuckoldress in waiting at every second of the day and at every turn but never openly reveals the secret that lays between her and her husband.
A cordial manner is maintain with sometimes a subtle sign here and there but never confirmed. Always maintaining an expressionless face that never gives away the game while a casual innocent flirt here and there.
Maybe more daring while on holidays but always with a manner of composure that stokes the fires of the cuckold who knows that given the perfect opportunity to entice a young lover into her fold behind closed doors is going to be the most erotic endearing sexual experience he is going to enjoy when he witnesses like so many times before the transition in me as I alter my personality from demure Ms innocent flirt to a cum and cock loving bitch slut wife who capacity to guides a younger lover to her with the grace and control of a mature in control experienced older women is skilled. Persuading and entrapping her latest concubine with grace and tact while letting the young buck know everything is as it should be and removing any and all doubts about my husbands status.
Instilling confidence into her magnificent young lover. The kind that brings out the beast in young hormones especially when made to believe their own superiority in front of the husband.

I don't want people not knowing our business for discretionary reasons alone. I also want people not knowing because it adds to the taboo the element of still sneaking around.
It's complicated to explain so I hope you can bear with me and not get confused but I want people to be perplex by what they maybe be seeing out in public between me and my husband and possibly a potential or even a lover but not necessarily the third person needs to be present. Just me and hubby is find with me being revealing in a light flirty manner though not totally undeniable but that nothing in the manner of our expression gives us away.

I guess I want people to know but not know that there could be something unusual going on between my husband and I because neither of us are confirming anything other than a perplexed misunderstanding if questioned or a casual not understanding but that behind closed doors
I'll give my husband the full treatment of a unsatisfied hot horny wife who needs a constant steady flow of young bucks to enter into our lives, bedroom and of course his wife to bring satisfaction to me to our dynamic but also to the relationship in general.

Sorry if I have rattled on trying to explain how I feel about this but there you go

xxxJulia
 
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Hi Julia,

If there's one thing that forums such as this have shown me is that different people have different ideas as to what cuckolding is and what the cuckolding lifestyle entails.

My read on the "traditional" definition was that the husband was ******* of his wife's antics, although many others in the town / village may have been. When his wife had produced a child fathered by another man then those "in the know" would parade him around town with a pair of horns on his head to signify that he had been cuckolded and was a sign of derision.

Modern cuckoldry seems to involve and in many cases be instigated by the husband.

So, what I would say to you is enjoy the taboo nature of your couplings with young lovers, there's certainly no reason why anyone you don't want to know about your private fun needs to know about it at all. Likewise even your husband need only know as much or as little as you want him to know, in fact for hims suspecting but not knowing might be the most intriguing.

E
 
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Hi Enigma632 and thank you for the like and post

I like the debaucherous taboo nature of married wife stepping outside marriage. I like hubby knowing. I will always include him first over any man I sleep with and no plans will ever be made between me and another man that he doesn't know about first. I may want to cuckold my husband in the most obscene way because I have more potent orgasms in the role of a wanton debaucherous wife. But I also want him to know there is love between us. Without a love connection I don't think the potent orgasms are achievable.

Now one thing I want to do with my husband's full knowledge is invite a college student or exchange student to stay with us where by I flirt and seduce this young man into being my lover and having his way with me when ever husband is not around.

Of course my husband will know everything and play along as a unsuspecting husband but it will be my young lover who will be duped into thinking the cheating aspect of our affair is real. My husband and I will enjoy the way the dynamic grows in our young lodger and whether he becomes brazen towards my play pretending unsuspecting husband especially when I whisper to my lover that my husband doesn't satisfy me like his young virile cock and if it is big he will know that a well.

Again without being obvious maybe family, friends and neighbours may suspect something between us and the young boarder. The constant flow of cars to our drive way but nothing from us is confirmed nor do we give our position away but there in lays the 'Scintillating Cuckold Taboo' - Their suspicion that I may be fucking around on my husband adds fuel to my flames
 
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From Miariam-Webster

Simple Definition of cuckold
  • : a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery
From Urban Dictionary (2 of many)
  • A husband whose wife chooses to have lovers.
  • A word used to describe a married man who's wife is sleeping with other men.
Hotwife
Obviously nothing from mainstream sources
From Urban Dictionary (1 of many)
  • A married woman who has sexual relations with other men, with the husbands approval.
Based upon these definitions, the only difference is that in a cuckold relationship may or may not know. In a hotwife relationship he does know. Therefore a hotwife is a cuckoldress, but a cuckoldress is not necessarily a hotwife.
 
I believe the real life version can mean many things to many people but that the general consensus may disagree with the dictionary version
 
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Julia,

Whatever you do, enjoy it - we've only got one life (unless, of course your religion involves cyclical re-incarnation...)

E
 
BigCockLovingMarried said:
I believe the real life version can mean many things to many people but that the general consensus may disagree with the dictionary version
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There are many facets of it and maybe a core definition helps the ones who are getting into - tho in my opinion it is always defined by the likes and dislikes of the ones involved and what satisfies them.

each mind has it's own twists and when the right ones meet it may be like this for a while and later change by dynamics.
my gf has fantasies of being cuckolded herself... now who am i to deny her wish if she wants that for real...
her cuckolding me turned me on a lot. would like to explore it more but we will see
 
Hi Slinger137. Hi LEGGY SLUT. Yes this phenomena as I think of it seems to be a alternative to the norm( is commonly known now) but has a wide appealing variety of interests that caters for all individual couple pairs and can be personalised to suit each relationship from a mild forms to out and out wild.
As you mentioned LEGGY SLUT love in any style of relationship in integral and a cuckold relationship is no different in the regard. However I believe that for those who get it, love can serve to enhance the cuckold aspect when you factor in it being accompanied by some kind of betrayal or unsatisfactory perform by the male scenario - I.e 'Honey I love you but you don't satisfy me' cuts to the core but under the consensual influence of partaking in the cuckold lifestyle doesn't subtract from the over all love for another in spirit and intellectually but serves to heighten the physical sexual nature and experience of the cuckold lifestyle because of that love.
If you are not connected then you might as well be watching porn or go hire a ****** to perform for you and I guarantee it won't look or feel the same because the Dynamic is not the same.

That said my thing regards the scintillation is when those around you have a suspicion that the wife is stepping out on the naive but loved husband but nothing of anything is confirmed or denied by both husband or wife but a simple 'I don't know what you are talking abou't or some other nonchalant response while continuing in the role as subtle as you like in view of others in public but never taking it to a place where it leaves no doubt. So by keeping people guessing and in some cases in suspense it's almost like inviting them in to 'your' like cuckold sanctuary to walk through and breath in but they never being part of the talks or see anything other than what their fertile minds can conjure up for themselves is scintillation and tiltillating for the wife and cuckold husband.
Adds another dimension to the dynamic all in the name of fun joy pleasure entertainment and even the orgasm. The bubbling sexual energy that's ever present in everyday life just beneath the surface but us always there giving one that extra spring in their step

NB of course when away on holiday where no on knows you well you may flip the script a little and turn it up a notch - There can be no doubt!

Another one is bringing a young female into the sanctity of our home as a boarder where by the dynamic will be she really can;t say a thing because who would believe such a thing so with that so her that behind closed walls of our home from the prying public eye I do indeed cheat on my husband and flaunt it in front of her while asking her to keep the knowledge from my 'play pretending none the wiser' husband. It's like sharing my dirty little secret with someone else knowing there is nothing she can say to people. Knowing that when we are at the dinner table she knows my husband is a cuckold in denial (play pretending to be)

I just love the dynamic of cuckolding more that just being given a hall way pass to engage in extra marital sex
 
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.... I like the debaucherous taboo nature of a married woman stepping outside her marriage. I like hubby knowing. ....

Again without being obvious maybe family, friends and neighbours may suspect something between us and our [so far hypothetical] young boarder. The constant flow of cars to our drive way, but nothing from us is confirmed, nor do we give our position away. But, therein lies the 'Scintillating Cuckold Taboo' - Their suspicion that I may be fucking around on my husband adds fuel to my flames.
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Hi Ms. Julie,

Thank you for posting your reasons, which are very clear, for preferring to be your husband's cuckoldress (not his hotwife). Wishing to view yourself in that way is entirely reasonable and appropriate. And, I think your plan to take in an attractive young man as a boarder you can fuck is an excellent idea.

—Custer
 
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