How Many Men?

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We've been in an open relationship for five years. My wife had since then experience with 8 men (two of who are her regulars). I am urging her to have more lovers but she's very choosy. I wonder how how active are your wives, how many men they had sex with while in marriage or permanent relationship?
 
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Most woman are choosey about who they let into their pussy. It's not a numbers game. Quality trumps quantity every time.
 
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My wife is about the quality of the lover, not about the quantity of lovers. Consider yourself lucky that she has found two regulars that she has found a connection with that is satisfying to her and ideally you both.
 
My wife also was choosy for most of our relationship - only 8 or 9 the first few years. But last year we both agreed there was something very erotic about quantity too. So this past year we made a lot of effort to give her away more. We added 17 men that had their cock inside her. I have to say, it turns me on to no end - I honestly wish it was double. And while at first she was uncertain, after about the 5 or 6th random stranger, she started to really get off on it. Giving her pussy away so easily and often.
 
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So She has started to love the situation that SHE is Your ( and others ) SLUT.! And love the feeling when there is always NEW cock in HER pussy.
 
Would be interesting to know if hotwives in general have more men due to swinging or non-swinging activities...
 
We've never bothered to keep count but during the last 18 years it has to be a lot.

Until recently Karen never wanted to be tied down, particularly when we had a young family, because she saw it as important to spend quality time with me and the kids. She was never shy about owning up to the fact that she was not interested in love, romance or commitment when she met up with Black guys and that all she wanted was good sex.
 
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I was with 32 guys before my first marriage, 4 guys during my first marriage (including preset hubby) and 5 during my 2nd (& present marriage) I think that makes 41 in total.
 
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RobCuckToKaren said:
We've never bothered to keep count but during the last 18 years it has to be a lot.

Until recently Karen never wanted to be tied down, particularly when we had a young family, because she saw it as important to spend quality time with me and the kids. She was never shy about own, ing up to the fact that she was not interested in love, romance or commitment when she met up with Black guys and that all she wanted was good sex.

Has your now-adult daughter, who is 27 or 28 but still lives at home with you and your hotwife Karen, followed in her mother's footsteps? That is, does she have a preference for black lovers and does she bring them home to fuck them...?
 
Custer, I'm interested in the answer to your question also. As to the original thread my wife enjoyed the efforts of many, many men. Over the years she had some long term lovers, but she always loved trying out something new. GTR
 
Custer Laststand said:
Has your now-adult daughter, who is 27 or 28 but still lives at home with you and your hotwife Karen, followed in her mother's footsteps? That is, does she have a preference for black lovers and does she bring them home to fuck them...?

She's just turned 27 and moved out to live with her current boyfriend last year. She has much the same outlook as her mother but started without knowing that she was in fact following in Karen's footsteps, because we didn't tell our family and friends about our lifestyle choice until much later. Since her school days Emma's boyfriends have been always been black and as was the case with her mother none of them seemed to hand around for very long. For safety reasons she has always been allowed to bring boy here and we have always made sure that she was safe.

Even though she is living with one of them now she wants marry an older white guy when she is ready to settle down and have a family but before they marry he would have to agree be a cuckold once she has had their kids. When she told us about this some years ago both Karen and I doubted that anyone would agree to sign on the dotted line but over the last 7 years we've come to the conclusion that I can't be the only pervert who would be happy to wank while thinking about the black guys who are fucking his wife.
 
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I think many of the members would happily sign up for that
 
Thanks for your reply, cuckold Rob.

RobCuckToKaren said:
[Our daughter] just turned 27 and moved out to live with her current boyfriend last year.

Is your current daughter's boyfriend black or white....?

RobCuckToKaren said:
She has much the same outlook as her mother, but started without knowing that she was in fact following in Karen's footsteps, because we didn't tell our family and friends about our lifestyle choice until much later. Since her school days Emma's boyfriends have been always been black. As was the case with her mother, none of them seemed to hand around for very long.

Interesting....

RobCuckToKaren said:
For safety reasons, she has always been allowed to bring [her boyfriends] here [to our home,] and we have always made sure that she was safe.

That's good....

RobCuckToKaren said:
Even though she is living with one of them now, she wants to marry an older white guy when she is ready to settle down and have a family. But, before they marry he would have to agree be a cuckold once she has had their kids.

That sounds like a difficult combination to bring about. Emma might have better luck if she were to advertise online in suitable forums, specifying the kind of man she's looking for, other than looking in the usual places (among co-workers, at church [if she goes to church], in bars, in recreational settings, etc.).

RobCuckToKaren said:
When she told us about this some years ago, both Karen and I doubted that anyone would agree to sign on the dotted line [for that]. But, over the last 7 years we've come to the conclusion that I can't be the only pervert who would be happy to wank while thinking about the black guys who are fucking his wife.

Wank, you say...? You're keeping in mind that your hotwife keeps you in a cock cage, right....?
Anyway — Emma might keep her biological clock in mind. When it gets close to running out, she may find it increasingly difficult to find a marriage partner, be he white, black, or otherwise. (That is, given that the most basic purpose of marriage is to protect children — so if a man and a woman can't have a child [or children], there isn't much point in getting married.)
 
Yes - he's black - all of her boyfriends have been black - as far as I'm aware she has never done it with a white guy

As far as I know she has not thought it through yet other than it should be someone older, who has an established career. When she told us about her plan I had in mind a mummies boy - still living at home - career nerd who does not have time for women - someone who is under pressure from his mother to find a wife and have the grandchildren she craves. At the moment she is in no hurry because she think she is still too young and wont be ready to settle down to start a family until she's turned thirty

We do go to Church and when Emma and her boyfriend are here they come with us

I've only been locked up 24/7 since last November when she stopped making Obi wear a condom, before that she just used it as occasional punishment. Since then I'm only let out when Karen is having her period and then I'm free to wank
 
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RobCuckToKaren said:
Yes - he's black - all of her boyfriends have been black - as far as I'm aware she has never done it with a white guy.

Hm.... well.... maybe Emma should look for a black man to be her marriage partner. I mean, if that's what she prefers, why not...?

RobCuckToKaren said:
As far as I know she has not thought it through yet other than it should be someone older, who has an established career.

If Emma were to "establish a career" herself, she would have more flexibility. Lots of women do that now. It isn't illegal or anything....

RobCuckToKaren said:
When she told us about her plan I had in mind a mummies boy - still living at home - career nerd who does not have time for women - someone who is under pressure from his mother to find a wife and have the grandchildren she craves. At the moment she is in no hurry because she think she is still too young and wont be ready to settle down to start a family until she's turned thirty.

The kind of person a daughter (or son) marries often has little to do with the kind of person their parents think they should marry....

RobCuckToKaren said:
.We do go to Church and when Emma and her boyfriend are here they come with us.

Hey, there's nothing wrong with that. Lots of people go to church....

RobCuckToKaren said:
I've only been locked up 24/7 since last November when she stopped making Obi wear a condom, before that she just used it as occasional punishment. Since then I'm only let out when Karen is having her period and then I'm free to walk.

I'm not sure I see the connection, but whatever your sexy wife Karen wants, so be it.

Some married women consider it so advantageous to keep their husband's cock locked up that they require that of him, and insist on being his sole key holder, even though they aren't hotwives.
 
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Hm.... well.... maybe Emma should look for a black man to be her marriage partner. I mean, if that's what she prefers, why not...?

If Emma were to "establish a career" herself, she would have more flexibility. Lots of women do that now. It isn't illegal or anything....

The kind of person a daughter (or son) marries often has little to do with the kind of person their parents think they should marry....

Hey, there's nothing wrong with that. Lots of people go to church....

I'm not sure I see the connection, but whatever your sexy wife Karen wants, so be it.

Some married women consider it so advantageous to keep their husband's cock locked up that they require that of him, and insist on being his sole key holder, even though they aren't hotwives.

She is and has always been free to choose for herself - like any women she is also free to change her mind - at the moment her preference is to find a white guy to cuckold rather than a black guy to marry

She works as a veterinary nurse, it's not a profession where she is likely to be a "high flying business woman" - given the choice her preference is to be a housewife, not a working mother

It was my understanding of what she was looking for - it was not mine or Karen's choice for her

Exactly - you asked the question - I confirmed that we were Church goers

At the moment Karen is happy to let Obi decide and he has both keys to the lock - since we don't and haven't had sex for more than twenty years it is symbolic but according to her it turns him on to be my key-holder and have that control.
 
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Re. your daughter Emma: Fair enough.

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RobCuckToKaren said:
At the moment Karen is happy to let Obi decide and he has both keys to the lock - since we don't and haven't had sex for more than twenty years it is symbolic but according to her it turns him on to be my key-holder and have that control.

It's easy to see that your hotwife Karen's (black) lover finds it a turn-on to be your key-holder....
 
My wife was slow,only 2(her ex & me).She told me she only let her Ex fuck her mouth since she was young & afraid to be pregnant but with the condom on then cum out side on her tits.I'm sure she told the true since her pussy came out some blood at her first sex with me them I took her to the doctor & the doctor confirmed to me it was her first fuck.So I guess I'm lucky.
 
Lucky?

1st wife had 1 guy once before me.
2nd wife had hundreds before.

I'd take #2 anytime.
 
Custer Laststand said:
Re. your daughter Emma: Fair enough.

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It's easy to see that your hotwife Karen's (black) lover finds it a turn-on to be your key-holder....

He's only 21 and was nervous when I first met him but Obi gradually became more confident and dominant during the last year and it was not a complete surprise when he insisted on doing it bare and wanted me to watch him fuck my wife. I did not know that Karen had told him about the cage until he told me to drop my trousers and shorts and put it on.

I could see from Karen's face that she was enjoying the situation and as soon as I'd handed over the keys I had my first experience of being locked up while he fucked my wife. I had expected him to let me out so I could wank afterwards but he enjoyed telling me that he was going to keep the key and that I would only be let out when Karen was having her period.

I would do anything to ensure my wife is happy and I see this as a small price to pay because Karen says it is so much more exciting now that he's not using a condom. It is frustrating for me and a little painful when I watch them do it but it is an everyday reminder of my sexual inadequacy and it makes wanking more special when he does let me out.
 
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