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Husband Or Wife?

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@RobCuckToKaren it is good to hear that you, Karen and Obi are all doing well. Good luck :)
 
Thanks, good luck is what we need at the moment.

I'd never given much thought to one of them breeding with my wife until a few months ago when Karen broke her golden rule and let Obi do it without a condom but now it has become an obsession for all of us.

If Karen had been younger it would have been easier but the fact that she is still having occasional periods is encouraging. On the positive side I think that if they did manage to have one, at her age it would show a clear sign of intent and that no one will think it was an accident.
 
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Neither of us did..... She was fucking several different men when we met and continued fucking them throughout our relationship. She never hid or denied it and I never asked her to stop. Instead, I encouraged her to continue. After we married, it just continued.
 
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RobCuckToKaren said:
After we'd had our kids, [my wife] Karen told me that since we didn't want any more, there was no need for her to do it with me again....

Ouch....

RobCuckToKaren said:
.... then, she showed me an advert she'd put in a contact magazine. I could see the naked photo was her....

Your wife was unusually straightforward with you....

RobCuckToKaren said:
After I read she was a married women looking for black guys to have sex with, I knew she must have found my hidden porn stash.

The saying, "Be careful what you wish for, you might get it" comes to mind. (In any case, you should have known a married woman always knows what's going on in her own home.)

RobCuckToKaren said:
[My wife] told me that looking at my IR and cuckold magazines and videos had made [her] obsessed with the idea of doing it with black guys. Since I seemed to be too shy to talk about my fantasy, she decided to take matters into her own hands....

.... or pussy, one might say. In either case, that's perfect. I like it.

RobCuckToKaren said:
To be honest....

Here in the U.S., there's another homily: "Honesty is the best policy." It may be the most widely-scorned folk-wisdom nation-wide, as evidenced by the election (or so we're told) of our current president.

RobCuckToKaren said:
....it suited me perfectly, because I'd found it humiliating to always have a premature ejaculation. Even though my wife told me not to worry, I knew she must not be enjoying it. It was something I was too embarrassed to talk about. So, for Karen to force my hand was the best thing that could have happened. As much as I liked the porn, knowing that [my] own wife is being fucked by black guys and being occasionally allowed to watch it is much more exciting. It's something I never tire of thinking about when I wank.

Very good. Beating your weenie.... or wanking, as you call it in the U.K. .... while thinking about what your sexy wife Karen might be doing with her hot young black lovers.... is totally appropriate for you, in your marital role as her cuckold. That is, when Ms. Karen is kind enough to unlock your chastity device before going out on a date.
 
Custer Laststand said:
Ouch....

Your wife was unusually straightforward with you....

The saying, "Be careful what you wish for, you might get it" comes to mind. (In any case, you should have known a married woman always knows what's going on in her own home.)

.... or pussy, one might say. In either case, that's perfect. I like it.

Here in the U.S., there's another homily: "Honesty is the best policy." It may be the most widely-scorned folk-wisdom nation-wide, as evidenced by the election (or so we're told) of our current president.

Very good. Beating your weenie.... or wanking, as you call it in the U.K. .... while thinking about what your sexy wife Karen might be doing with her hot young black lovers.... is totally appropriate for you, in your marital role as her cuckold. That is, when Ms. Karen is kind enough to unlock your chastity device before going out on a date.

Despite or perhaps because of my failings in the bedroom department we were and still are very much in love and devoted to each other. At the time she told me that she did not want us to break up but that she would like to have a better and more exciting sex life which was why she thought that exploiting my interest in IR and cuckold relationships might be an acceptable way forward that would suit us both.

Since then she's told me that he decision to advertise in Rendezvous was quite deliberate. She had seen the magazine on the top shelf at our local news stand and having brought a copy at another store she decided it was the perfect way to find guys to do it with. As she told me at the time she was looking for good sex and not a love or romance and advertising in a magazine where everyone else was doing the same seemed preferable to going out in the hope of meeting up with a guys because she could make her intentions clear in the advert. It also had the benefit of being an arms length search because the only way to contact her was to pay the magazine owners to forward their letter so no one would know it was her unless she decided to contact them.

Although it might seem to have been a fate accomplice she did make it clear that if I was unhappy or objected to her doing it she would not go through with it and since then she has told me that she has always been prepared to give it up if she thought it was damaging our relationship.

It is not just in the USA that politicians tell the voters what they want to hear.

lol - I was already beating my weenie - I just didn't think she knew ! She has always found the fact that I wank so often as both comforting and reassuring. It is not only a signal that I enjoy knowing that young black guys fuck her but because she knows I did it so often she knew that I didn't have another woman hidden away somewhere.

I was locked up when she went out on a date - she stopped advertising in Rendezvous when the Internet got underway and switched to meet guys through the AOL chat rooms. Because we'd not told our family and friends at that point she chose to meet guys who were making business trips to London because they would have a hotel room they could do it in. Although she didn't promise to have sex with them before they met up it was accepted by everyone that that would happen once they had met face to face and for safety reasons we would go to the guys hotel together. with her to the guys hotel while our baby-sitter took care of the kids. If he wanted me to watch him do it with my wife - which sadly not very often - I would stay for a while but mostly I would leave when they went to the elevator to go up to his room. In any even she would stay over night while I went to let our baby-sitter get off home. She always got home before the kids got up for school and so she would have time to tell me about her night out and after my breaking my promise not to wank until she got back she eventually decided that locking me up was the only way she could make sure I could show my appreciation when she got back.

Thinking about it now - those were the days - I use to have a towel ready by the side of our bed and after she'd unlocked me I would sit on it and rest my head back onto the bed - she would stand astride of my thighs - and when she bent forward it was like a vision of heaven - after letting me see how pink her pussy and ass were she would sit on my face and tell me about her night out - having my face deep between her ass cheeks always excited me and when my nose, lips and tongue had done their work she allowed me to touch myself. She often told me that seeing my tiny weenie wiggle with excitement always reminded her how luck she was to have such a wonderful and understanding husband and she knew from how quickly I would cum that I found her cuckolding me exciting too.

So it was when she went out on a date that I was locked up.
 
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Cuckold Rob,

RobCuckToKaren said:
Despite or perhaps because of my failings in the bedroom we were and still are very much in love and devoted to each other. ..... etc .....

Thanks for your comprehensive and interesting comments on your cuckold husband / hotwife marriage with your sexy wife Karen, and how it started — which many on this forum may find it helpful.

—Custer
 
We had discussed the subject of her "dating" other men (she brought it up one night) shortly after we were married and we had decided that if the moment and man were right for her she could go ahead, but she clearly stated that she wanted me to be present or close by. She started at a New Years Eve party and I did get to watch. I didn't find out until months later that she had been involved with (sexually), the divorced next door neighbor beside her home before and after we were married. She also admitted at that time that she wanted to make sure I was OK with sharing her before telling me about the neighbor. GTR
 
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gatorrdw said:
..... [My wife] started, [or so I thought,] at a New Years Eve party and I did get to watch. I didn't find out until months later that she had been sexually involved with the divorced next door neighbor beside her home before and after we were married. ..... —GTR

That's perfect. Maybe after some more time has passed, your wife will admit she fucked her neighbor on your wedding day. Gotta' watch out for those divorced guys — especially when they live next door to you and your wife (or your soon-to-be wife)....
 
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Custer, you're close she did finally admit that she had went over to his place during the night before the day of the wedding and that he had given her a real good pounding and that he was trying one more time to get her pregnant before she got married. He didn't know at that point that she was already pregnant and we've never known if the baby was his or mine because he and I had both been fucking her and no tests were ever done for paternity. She told me that her mother was setting in the kitchen waiting on her when she got back that night and told her that she needed to clean herself out so that she didn't ruin her dress or panties. She also admitted that about a week after we were married she was getting it from him again. GTR
 
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I learned for the first time my wife had been unfaithful almost 20 years ago. I'm ashamed to admit how badly I took it. I was the classic jealous husband. All I can say is I was a lot younger and a lot more insecure. I made a HUGE deal of it. Sorry, Honey.:oops:
So...a couple of years later Deb was VERY upset when she admitted to me that she was attracted to her then boss. Nothing had happened yet, but he had taken her to lunch several times and was hitting on her regularly at work. I was surprised, but I had secretly been fantasizing about her and her former lover when we made love for years!
I asked her straight out: "Do you want to leave me for him?" She replied, "No! I just don't know what to do! I don't want to quit this job and it's getting harder to tell him no!"
I said, "Well...let's stay together and you just see where it goes with him." You should have seen her face!:D
Long story short, Deb began going out to dinner with her then boss after work, instead of coming straight home, once or twice a week. Deb was VERY nervous about the situation, especially after they began going to a motel after dinner to sleep together:), but was thrilled by all the attention!
It was sometimes nine or ten before she got home from "work";). The first night the kids were out of the house, I met her at the door, gave her a big kiss, and led her to our bedroom. "Let me get a quick shower!" she said. "I've been with him..."
"I know..." I said and blocked her from leaving the room. Knowing what she had just done with another man drove me wild! It was maybe the best sex of my life! Afterwards, lying in bed with her, Deb said "I can't believe I slept with both of you in one night!":D We were hooked! Both of us!
 
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I suggested it, wife said hell no not interested
 
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iLuvDeb said:
I learned for the first time my wife had been unfaithful almost 20 years ago. I'm ashamed to admit how badly I took it. I was the classic jealous husband. All I can say is I was a lot younger and a lot more insecure. I made a HUGE deal of it. Sorry, Honey.:oops:
So...a couple of years later Deb was VERY upset when she admitted to me that she was attracted to her then boss. Nothing had happened yet, but he had taken her to lunch several times and was hitting on her regularly at work. I was surprised, but I had secretly been fantasizing about her and her former lover when we made love for years!
I asked her straight out: "Do you want to leave me for him?" She replied, "No! I just don't know what to do! I don't want to quit this job and it's getting harder to tell him no!"
I said, "Well...let's stay together and you just see where it goes with him." You should have seen her face!:D
Long story short, Deb began going out to dinner with her then boss after work, instead of coming straight home, once or twice a week. Deb was VERY nervous about the situation, especially after they began going to a motel after dinner to sleep together:), but was thrilled by al the attention!
It was sometimes nine or ten before she got home from "work";). The first night the kids were out of the house, I met her at the door, gave her a big kiss, and led her to our bedroom. "Let me get a quick shower!" she said. "I've been with him..."
"I know..." I said and blocked her from leaving the room. Knowing what she had just done with another man drove me wild! It was maybe the best sex of my life! Afterwards, lying in bed with her, Deb said "I can't believe I slept with both of you in one night!":D We were hooked! Both of us!

Fantastic, I'm so pleased that you stayed together and that you have lovingly accepted and allowed your Wife to flourish, I'm envious, and would too have blocked the door so powerfully desiring to experience what you did, splendid, and thank you so much for sharing :)
 
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"Custer, you're close, [my wife] did finally admit she had gone to [her lover's] place the night before the day of [our] wedding and he had given her a real good pounding."

Very good.... I like it. Your sexy wife started her marriage to you off on the right foot.

"He was trying one more time to get her pregnant before she got married. He didn't know, at that point, that [my fiance] was already pregnant. We've never known whether the baby was his or mine, because he and I had both been fucking her. No tests were ever done for paternity."

You're a good sport, GTR....

"[My wife] told me her mother was sitting in the kitcnen waiting for her when she got back that night, and told her she needed to clean herself out so she didn't ruin her [wedding] dress or panties."

A little motherly advice....

"[My wife] also admitted that about a week after we were married, she was getting it from [her lover] again." —GTR

Excellent.... good for your wife. It's hard to imagine a more convenient arrangement for a married woman with cuckoldress tendencies than having a lover who lives near, or next door to, her mother (who understands such arrangements). I mean, how can a husband object to his wife going to "visit her mother"....?
 
GaryCaste said:
Fantastic, I'm so pleased that you stayed together and that you have lovingly accepted and allowed your Wife to flourish, I'm envious, and would too have blocked the door so powerfully desiring to experience what you did, splendid, and thank you so much for sharing :)
Thank you! It's refreshing and encouraging to share with people who understand!:)
 
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Custer as we have been discussing in the MIL knows thread, I was terribly naïve back then. I wasn't being a "good sport" at the time I just had no idea at the time that anyone else was fucking her. I didn't find out about any of this until the following February after she started with Willie. It took me awhile to realize that my wife had me just the way she wanted me and I was loving it and her. GTR
 
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