My wife had a guy friend in college that was never an official boyfriend but they fucked all the time for long time. I have met this guy at a wedding for a mutual college friend of theirs. We said hello, shook hands, my wife and he chatted less than five min to catch up. He was not aware when I met him that I knew every single detail that she could recall of all their sexual encounters. I knew exactly who he was and how they fucked and where, etc. from the second I met him. After the wedding a number of years had gone by with no contact. Both my wife and the old fuckbuddy got married during that time. One day my wife posted a question about something random (a good book to read or something) and this guy out of the blue suggested a book in a private message and my wife just says thanks and thinks nothing of it. A couple of months later it was my wifes birthday and like most on social media many happy bdays send her way for all to see. I don't have FB or anything like that but I even know its the norm. The catch is that the ex long time fuckbuddy (who was average Joe, slightly overweight) wished her a simple happy bday again in a private message. My wife didn't think it was a big deal but wondered why it was a private message. It was three words "Happy Birthday, name" She decided to check his profile to see how he was doing and noticed that he was now divorced and also in very good physical shape. My wife tells me everything but this was not even mention worthy in her mind, it just happened to come up in a conversation and she filled me in on these details. She said he looked way better than he did in college and she felt bad that he got divorced. He was just probably shy so that is the reason for the private messages. I thought it was obvious what he was doing. It clearly shows she is married so he was not aggressive or suggestive in any way. He had now contacted her twice. Both after he was divorced, both after he got in shape, both times they were vague simple private messages. I told her he was throwing spaghetti at the wall. The vague private messages come off unassuming but standout since they are private. Nothing aggressive or inappropriate, he just wanted her to notice his new marital status and his new bod and see where she went with it. My guess is he was hoping to start a private back and forth conversation and see what happens. What do you think? Is he a shy guy that prefers PMs or is he trying to put the ball in her court to start a conversation that would hopefully land him back in the promise land that is my wife's perfect pussy Unrelated side note not relevant to the post but I couldn't possibly leave it out. So fuckbuddys best friend also attends the same college and that lived nearby to my wifes apartment at that timewife. Fuckbudy had to head home for a few days and made my wife promise only one thing, that she would not sleep with his best friend. They were not exclusive but just not him. So my wife was fucking the best friend before fuckbuddy even started his car. She swears it wasn't her intention but happened right away and the best friend has by far the biggest cock she has ever had. She said the best friend was hot and athletic, the big man on campus but his cock was so big she was useless. Couldn't fit it in her mouth at all, ass no way, killed her pussy which is probably equally impressive in tightness as he was in size...unfortunate combo. She got the job done the first time because she would not leave this hot guy unsatisfied. A trooper but she couldn't handle it again so the angel she is, for the rest of the days that the fuckbuddy was away she brought her hot friend over of help out with getting the best friend off. Good girls.