Interested To Hear Thoughts On What Was Seemingly An Innocent Message To My Wife

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  1. handsomedevil

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    My wife had a guy friend in college that was never an official boyfriend but they fucked all the time for long time. I have met this guy at a wedding for a mutual college friend of theirs. We said hello, shook hands, my wife and he chatted less than five min to catch up. He was not aware when I met him that I knew every single detail that she could recall of all their sexual encounters. I knew exactly who he was and how they fucked and where, etc. from the second I met him. After the wedding a number of years had gone by with no contact. Both my wife and the old fuckbuddy got married during that time.

    One day my wife posted a question about something random (a good book to read or something) and this guy out of the blue suggested a book in a private message and my wife just says thanks and thinks nothing of it. A couple of months later it was my wifes birthday and like most on social media many happy bdays send her way for all to see. I don't have FB or anything like that but I even know its the norm. The catch is that the ex long time fuckbuddy (who was average Joe, slightly overweight) wished her a simple happy bday again in a private message.

    My wife didn't think it was a big deal but wondered why it was a private message. It was three words "Happy Birthday, name" She decided to check his profile to see how he was doing and noticed that he was now divorced and also in very good physical shape. My wife tells me everything but this was not even mention worthy in her mind, it just happened to come up in a conversation and she filled me in on these details. She said he looked way better than he did in college and she felt bad that he got divorced. He was just probably shy so that is the reason for the private messages.

    I thought it was obvious what he was doing. It clearly shows she is married so he was not aggressive or suggestive in any way. He had now contacted her twice. Both after he was divorced, both after he got in shape, both times they were vague simple private messages. I told her he was throwing spaghetti at the wall. The vague private messages come off unassuming but standout since they are private. Nothing aggressive or inappropriate, he just wanted her to notice his new marital status and his new bod and see where she went with it. My guess is he was hoping to start a private back and forth conversation and see what happens.

    What do you think? Is he a shy guy that prefers PMs or is he trying to put the ball in her court to start a conversation that would hopefully land him back in the promise land that is my wife's perfect pussy


    Unrelated side note not relevant to the post but I couldn't possibly leave it out. So fuckbuddys best friend also attends the same college and that lived nearby to my wifes apartment at that timewife. Fuckbudy had to head home for a few days and made my wife promise only one thing, that she would not sleep with his best friend. They were not exclusive but just not him. So my wife was fucking the best friend before fuckbuddy even started his car. She swears it wasn't her intention but happened right away and the best friend has by far the biggest cock she has ever had. She said the best friend was hot and athletic, the big man on campus but his cock was so big she was useless. Couldn't fit it in her mouth at all, ass no way, killed her pussy which is probably equally impressive in tightness as he was in size...unfortunate combo. She got the job done the first time because she would not leave this hot guy unsatisfied. A trooper but she couldn't handle it again so the angel she is, for the rest of the days that the fuckbuddy was away she brought her hot friend over of help out with getting the best friend off. Good girls.
     
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  2. redback

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    My take on it, just old friend catching up. Wife doesnt seem overly interested.
    BUT, has wife answered an if so ,How?
    Is there more wife not telling?
     
  3. redback

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    One more question, which way do you want it to go?
     
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  4. Stlcuck50

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    She is probing!
     
  5. Stlcuck50

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    Meant He is probing her interest
     
  6. sissylinda4

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    I'm interested in how she replied. Has she replied? If she decided that he should fuck her how would you feel?
     
  7. Enigma632

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    I guess that some of you wife's FB friends would know about what went on in the past, so the fact that he used a PM means that he's sounding her out for some discrete fun - It's what I would do :)
     
  8. slinger137

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    common thing trying to probe if an old fuck partner would be interested or available.
     
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  9. ObedientPet

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    If he doesn't live too far away, why don't you suggest she catch up him one evening and then see how things pan out? With any luck she'll come home with either a hot story or messy knickers, perhaps both!
     
  10. Nazareth

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    I'd have no doubt he is trying to gauge her interest. i think it's a pretty common way for long-ago friends to contact each other, and see if there is any chemistry or spark between them.
    PM's are used when either the sender or recipient doesn't want it seen on the same pages other fiends/family read.
    It doesn't necessarily mean there are sinister plans afoot, but I hope she is open and honest with you about their communications. There's really no reason for it not to be.
     
  11. 2wheel

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    My wife had been in contact with an old friend/beau some time ago. Not sure who initiated the contact. I don't remember the circumstance under which she told me but told me she did.

    I asked if she DID hook-up with him, she said no. I asked if she was going to hook-up with him, she said she was thinking of it. I told her it would be OK, but there's 2 rules: 1-she must tell him I'm OK with it, 2-she must tell me about it afterwards.

    To the best of my knowledge she never followed through.
     
  12. tinykimbal

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    but she still might. have faith
     
  13. ObedientPet

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    I'd love to know how she reacted to your suggestion!
     
  14. 2wheel

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    Dry. No response.

    Would have loved for her to say "OK, I can do that. Can you, will you take me to meet him tomorrow"?
     
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  15. okdeacon

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    Hell yes it's simple, he wants to fuck her again. I have done things like on numerous occasions in my pussy hunting efforts. For if I was not actually fucking some lady at that very minute, I was hunting one to fuck. This is not a wasted effort, for it she gets curious enough, he gets some fine married pussy. If he never hears from her then it was not totally wasted for he tried. I have used every idea I could come up with to get some good pussy and a lot of times I failed miserably. But friends you would not believe me on how many of the smallest efforts turned into some fine fucking. So he is trying to get her interest and believe me no effort goes unnoticed. Even small ones such as this. Women are wonderful sexy and curious creatures and believe me they know when we want to fuck them. Sometimes out of the compassion in their hearts and the tingle between their legs that call will come, it be when they get ready. So remember not even this small signal will be go totally wasted. For all you can do is plant the seed and see if the flower grows. So for sure he wants to fuck your wife, Again. okdeacon
     
  16. handsomedevil

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    Oh he is definitely throwing a line out there hoping she will bite. My wife get so excited just talking about it, she loves attention. I am not sure how we will handle this particular situation (if she is not doing something already) but I was thinking of e-mailing this guy directly. I will send some of my fav photos in hopes that he might have some photos to share from back when they were hanging out in college. I am also not sure if he ever found out that she slept with his best friend back then or not. I think he knows but I don't want to cause an issue 15+ years later but if ol Big Dick has some photos that this guy can help obtain it will be worth it.

    I have been on the hunt for any photos or if I ever hit the jackpot a video of her in college. Say she slept with 75 people, one of them must have taken a photo or video even without cell phones. Right? I'll check in with this guy and keep my fingers crossed.
     
  17. gatorrdw

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    So, handsomedevil, do you want your wife to pursue this or not. Would she be interested in having a go with him and/or the old roommate? GTR
     
  18. SquirmingSub

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    @handsomedevil

    So would you like for your wife to to take this prior FwB as a renewed lover?
     

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