Thoughts On Teaching Daughter

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  1. ObedientPet

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    Having read another person's post on here I have realized that I have a responsibility to my daughter.

    As a loving father I of course want my little girl to be everything she can in life and most of all to be happy. Knowing the happiness and freedoms that a women can enjoy in a relationship with a submissive male makes me want to make her aware of how to handle men and how to filter out the non-compliant early in her life so that she finds a suitable partner.

    I enjoy a close relationship with my daughter and hope this will always be the case so that we speak frankly to one another about sex and relationships when the time comes.

    My immediate thoughts would be to help her understand that while she gets horny for one type of guy - that type of guy often isn't the best candidate for a relationship. Those guys are perfect for getting your rocks off but that's all. In a relationship you need a sensitive and caring man who can provide for you and will support you in all of your desires. The ideal situation therefore is to find 'Mr sensitive' first test him and make sure he's the right candidate, then you can start to enjoy 'Mr wrong'. Even if she doesn't end up staying with her potential 'Mr right' forever, at least she will have learned about the dynamics and will help her avoid getting a reputation when enjoying all the 'Mr wrongs'.

    What are your thoughts on this?

    What should be said?
    At what age?

    I'd also particularly like to here from anyone who has experience with this or is planning to do so.
     
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  2. my_slut

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    i hope this is made up ....sort your head out jesus
     
  3. zippless

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    This is crap.
    If she is over 11
    If you really have a daughter you will know she will not listen to you about most subjects let alone any advice on her love life.
    Training... Haaaaaaaaah.....good luck with that.
    And if she is under 11
    This is sick.
     
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  4. Custer Laststand

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    How old is your daughter? Are you and her mother married, and are both of you raising your daughter?

    If not, are you your daughter's only parent? Or, does your daughter have a mother who, although separated from you, your daughter also sees with some regularity?

    These questions are relevant, because (it's my impression that) daughters are considerably more heavily-influenced by their mothers than by their fathers.
     
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  5. All-In

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    So lets see, you have started posts about your daughter, your father, her father visiting, outfits at work.....like so many other fantasy posts, these will go nowhere because they are purely fantasy.

    Further more, like so many other posts on this forum....the element of objectifying people....that being middle aged white men
    looking at wives, daughters, black people and other well hung men as objects to manipulate, and use to fulfill their fantasies is rampant.

    Good day
     
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  6. ObedientPet

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    Thanks for the replies although they are profoundly negative.

    Here are my thoughts in reply to the responses so far:

    Recognizing that a cuckold relationship is extremely positive for a female and wanting other women in my life to benefit in this way is the opposite to objectification. Bonus points for trying to use big words though All-in, maybe pick up a dictionary first though next time?

    Teaching your child about sex and relationships is a responsibility as their parent, it is not sick.

    For the record, I have no particular interest in black people or hung men. Anyone who'd read my posts would know that my wife's fantasies are focused on white guys.
     
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  7. 2wheel

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    "Teaching your child about sex and relationships is a responsibility as their parent, it is not sick."

    I don't think the comments are negative regarding this normal and responsible activity. I think the negativity is about teaching 'alternative' lifestyles.
     
  8. ObedientPet

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    If that is the case then that just makes them hypocrites.
    "The cuckolding lifestyle is the one for me, but you better follow the rest of the herd like a sheep even though it'll probably make you unhappy".
    How about being honest with your child about your thoughts and views?
     
  9. tinykimbal

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    You have got people polarised here with your post.
    How will you move forward with things?
     
  10. SquirmingSub

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    @ObedientPet

    My thoughts on the issues is as I have posted else were in the past. Each couple and each family unit approach relationships and sexuality in very different ways. I would say in general terms it is the responsibility of the parents to provide their children with educational information as those children approach and of reach a level of maturity were they are going to begin exploring on their own. There is a fine line beyond being informational in a positive manner as opposed to going the other direction with it. As another poster said these topics can be polarizing and unfortunately you contributed to that by not providing more information up front during your initial post.

    With that said, step through the questions that was presented by Custer Laststand

    - How old is your daughter? Are you and her mother married, and are both of you raising your daughter?
    - If not, are you your daughter's only parent? Or, does your daughter have a mother who, although separated from you, your daughter also sees with some regularity?
    - These questions are relevant, because (it's my impression that) daughters are considerably more heavily-influenced by their mothers than by their fathers.

    I for one have known many couples which hid their alternative lifestyle from their teenage children and I have also known many couples which were open about the alternative lifestyle choices. In the case of those couple which were more open about the alternative lifestyle choices with their teenage as well as with their adult age children seemed to be much happier people overall. Again this the lifestyle is not for everyone and sharing it openly with those within our circles of family and friends is also not for everyone. Everyone's relationship/family structure is different, none of us should judge you on what you post UNLESS those post endanger others.

    In my case, my teenage and adult children are fully aware that my wife and I have a Female Led Relationship/Marriage (FLR/M). The older ones are also aware of the various lifestyle options which are available to them and that we will pass no-judgment on them for their respective choices. So I would say each to their own preferences.
     
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  11. ObedientPet

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    Thanks for the more considered responses.

    SquirmingSub - I appreciate your thoughts on this. One line in particular struck accord with me: "In my case, my teenage and adult children are fully aware that my wife and I have a Female Led Relationship/Marriage (FLR/M)"

    Made me realise that in hindsight this particular question may have been better suited to an FLR site or forum, rather than one predominantly geared up towards the sexual gratification of this lifestyle.

    I will now answer Custer LastStand's questions (sorry for the delay: I got incensed by the hate mail).

    - My Daughter is currently too young to discuss this subject with. One of the things I wanted advise on and had asked in my initial post was what is the right age? Maybe I have to figure that out.

    - Her mother and I are married to one another and live an FLR

    My own experience so far is that my daughter is equally close to her mother and I but that she confides in me more.
     
  12. SquirmingSub

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    @ObedientPet Thank you for the clarification, makes more since now.
     
  13. Custer Laststand

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    If your daughter is old enough to have asked if Santa Claus is really you and her mother (or been told that), or that the Easter Bunny is really just imaginary, she's old enough to be told that babies aren't really brought by storks — and how they really originate. If you and your wife aren't sure how to do that, you should be able to find a good age-appropriate book on sex in a library.

    A good age to talk with her about what kind of relationships with boys to look for and what kind to avoid would be sometime well before she first starts dating. (I don't know what age that would be; it seems to be getting progressively younger.)

    Good. You and your boss-wife should, of course, come to agreement about when and where to talk with your daughter about sex and relationships. One strategy would be for the two of you to take her on a drive somewhere with no cell phones or hand-held games in the car. That way, you'll be able to talk with her in a continuous and undistracted way, without your daughter's phone ringing and her announcing (e.g.) she has to rush off somewhere and meet a friend.

    My impression is, it will tend to be most positive if you and your boss-wife both talk with your daughter about sex and relationships, rather than one of you individually talking with her (unless your daughter asks one of you individually). I suggest this because then, your daughter will realize the two of you are in agreement on these subjects.
     
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  14. ObedientPet

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    I think you're right about talking to her together, it makes alot of sense. Thanks.
     
  15. SquirmingSub

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    @ObedientPet Custer is on point about you and your wife talking to her together when the time is right. You will find that as a family you will you all will be happier as you and your wife will no have to hide the lifestyle as many do and your older daughter will not suspect or think mom is having an affair and she will also know that she will have more options when it reaches maturity. Keeps you all on the up and up per say.
     
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