Very New Cuckold

[Sandy Row]

So I read her texts again and she texted him thst night and said "well I finally told him he sucks at sex". About time was his reply. So at thst point I didn't know what to do so I confronted her about the texts.

The next day I confronted her by saying. So I see you have been talking to Matt. She got quiet and said yes. I said I see you miss sex with him. Do you want to fuck him? I laid it out there. I needed to know. And she said well I do miss the sex. It was amazing. I said I guess he is bigger than me too. Oh yeah she said. It's about 8 inches. I was floored. A little under 4 inches bigger than mine. I asked her if she was going to leave me. She looked surprised and said no I love you baby. You know thst. But it's just thst I get nothing out of sex with you.

Sounds like she's being upfront and honest with you,it's not like she had any previous emotional attachment to him ,it was purely sexual gratification.

I'd give her the green light with the proviso she keeps you involved whether it be by text,or you actually in the room or videos that you can share with us on here

Good luck and keep us updated.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Oh they already have. This is the story of how it happened. I'm getting to it.

This story still has a missing element. Since you're saying your wife fucked her previous lover, but you're "getting to how it happened," suppose you finish your account....

 

[New cuck NB]

So then the discussion began. Do you want a divorce? She absolutely said no, no divorce. So I said then what? She said she loves me and loves that I take care of her financially, and emotionally but she needs sex. Good sex. Not 40 second sex. So i said then go fuck Matt then if you want good sex. I said it kind of sarcastically but at the same time with some excitement. She said is that an option?

 

[Custer Laststand]

So then, the discussion began. Do you want a divorce? [My wife] said no, absolutely not, no divorce.

That was a plus....

So I said, then what? She said she loves me and loves that I take care of her financially....

Ah.... here, it's hard not to suspect your wife has cut to the chase. She might have expanded slightly: "she loves that you will take care of her and any children she might have financially...." (but. at least she said "she loves you" first).

.... and emotionally, but she needs sex. Good sex. Not 40 second sex.

Your wife was honest with you. There's a lot to be said for that. (Her description of you as a "quickshooter" that you found on her phone, left over from a call to her former lover Matt, was pretty good.)

So I said, go fuck Matt then if you want good sex. I said it kind of sarcastically....

Always a risky thing to say to one's wife, whether sarcastically or otherwise (unless one actually means it).

... but, at the same time, with some excitement.

That would not have been lost on your wife.....

My wife said, is that an option?

But, she decided to verify your suggestion explicitly, so she asked you directly. As a form of marital negotiation, that seems better than her smiling sweetly, saying "See you later, Quickshot," then striding out the door with her high heels clicking and her hips swinging.

But, obviously there's more to come. Please continue....

 

[New cuck NB]

She asked, so is that an option? Can I fuck Matt? I was silent for a minute. I had to let that process and I had to answer her. So I said Baby, you love me right? And won't leave me? She nodded her said and said yes I Love you. I said ok, then fuck Matt. Her eyes widened at that and I could tell she was happy with that. She started texting right away. I knew it was him. She came out to me later and asked if Matt could come over? I said What? Here? He wants to come here?

 

[New cuck NB]

es, she said. He wants to come over and meet you. Um, ok I said not knowing what else to say. So that evening comes and the doorbell rings and I answer it. Standing there is this huge guy. A big dude. I said are you Matt? He said yeah. I held out my hand and he shook it with a very hard grip. He came in and immediately hugged my wife. The look in her eyes said it all. She said Matt this is Mike, my husband. He said yup, I know all about you. I think I began to blush because I knew he knew about my sexual inadequacy. So we had dinner and after Matt said well, can we go in the bedroom? I just looked at them and she said yes lets do this. Matt turned to me and said Don't interrupt us.

 

[New cuck NB]

That night was torture and amazing all at once. I heard my wife make noises I have never heard her make before and they must have had sex 3 times during the night. each time I knew she was having multiple orgasms. Of course Listening to that I got horny and needed release so I did what I do best. I jerked off. That evening our lives changed forever. She was much happier and Matt became our Bull. He comes over whenever she needs it. Which is often!

 

[Custer Laststand]

Yes, she said. [Matt] wants to come over and meet you. Um, ok, I said, not knowing what else to say. So that evening comes and the doorbell rings and I answer it. Standing there is this huge guy. A big dude. I said, are you Matt? He said, yeah.

Interesting. Although Matt had been your wife's lover prior to her deciding to marry you, evidently you had never met him....

I held out my hand and he shook it with a very hard grip.

A New Brunswick fisherman, perhaps...? Men who work with their hands usually have heavily-callused hands. You would have noticed that immediately on shaking hands with him. And, commercial fishermen tend to have a lot of upper body and arm strength.

He came in and immediately hugged my wife. The look in her eyes said it all. She said Matt, this is Mike, my husband. He said, Yup — I know all about you.

I think I began to blush, because I knew he knew about my sexual inadequacy. So, we had dinner. Afterwards, Matt said: Well, can we go in the bedroom?

He isn't given to beating around the bush....

I just looked at them. My wife said: Yes. Lets do this. Matt turned to me, and said: Don't interrupt us.

And your wife wasn't either. You had your marching orders.

Do you and your wife have a spare bedroom you could use, or did you have to spend the night on your living-room couch...?

 

[Custer Laststand]

That night was torture and amazing all at once. I heard my wife make noises I have never heard her make before....

Good for your wife...

They must have had sex 3 times during the night. Each time I knew she was having multiple orgasms.

And, good for both of them....

Of course, listening to all that I got horny and needed release, so I did what I do best: I jerked off.

Very good. It's totally appropriate for you, as your wife's cuckold, to beat your weenie while listening to the erotic sounds of your wife fucking her big-cock lover in her marital boudoir....

That evening, our lives changed forever. She is much happier and Matt became our Bull. He comes over whenever my wife needs him, which is often!

Yes, I would think so. You have made your wife a happy woman.

Since you are unable to satisfy your wife at all with penetrative intercourse, you should realize it's time to make the transition many cuckolds have made, which is to become your wife's oral lover (if you aren't doing this already).

That is, after Matt has fucked your wife and has departed, it would be totally appropriate for you to lie down on your back, in the nude, on your marital bed, while your wife squats on your face and queens you, while you lick Matt's cum from her pussy. Your wife should continue queening you (i.e., riding your face) in this way until she has another orgasm (if possible).

In this position, you should also be able to kiss your wife's ass and give her analingus for as long as she desires. Some women can have satisfying orgasms from analingus. Perhaps you will find your wife is among them. Also, if Matt has fucked your wife anally with his big cock (which your wife might also find very satisfying), you should lick and swallow his cum from her anus while she rides your face.

The mere fact you have a small cock and are a "minuteman" does not mean you cannot add to your wife's pleasure, orally, after she has fucked her lover.

 

[gatorrdw]

While I am not on the same page with Custer, you must continue to show your wife that you truly love her. For my wife and I we had on two different occasions had big cocked lovers of hers live with us and shared her and the household expenses as if they were her husband also. We were both getting what we wanted with her being satisfied sexually and me enjoying watching, listening and sometimes participating and I could always have sloppy seconds if I wanted to and I almost always did want to. So let her have her big cock and watch her smile more all he time. GTR

 

[jeanswatcher]

An excellent write up on the slide into cuckoldry I would however try to put in place an agreement, right now she can continue to fuck him but you need to know when this is going to happen and as a result of this agreement she needs to show her love towards you by stopping texting him continuously. If she and you are happy with this arrangement she shouldn't need to text him all the time. Cuckoldry is a dangerous game emotions are easily formed during heavy sex sessions and if she continues running to him and constantly texting him when really she should be talking to you her husband there is a major risk here. Make sure she involves you in this too perhaps not physically but in some form that you like or you will find this is all about them and no longer you. To me that's not cuckoldry that's just using you...be careful.
Good luck.... Tractorman 30 years a happy cuck

 

[SquirmingSub]

While I would agree with @jeanswatcher in general terms, I tend to have more questions in line with @Custer Laststand

It is good to have open honest communication with a clear understanding of expectations each of you should be put on the table. Some will call this understanding of expectations as an agreement. As we all know, cuckoldry can be dangerous yet it can also be equally rewarding if everyone involved understands their respective roles. Some women can separate the sexual chemistry/connection from the emotional side while others require some level of an emotional connection for the sexual connection to evolve into truly satisfying sex.

It is concerning that your wife would be constantly texting her lover although as you have said, her lover (Matt) is a man from her past and what you are experiencing may be something that drops off over a period of time. They may have a great sexual connection although may not have what it would take to be in a deeper relationship hence why she is now with you and NOT him. Based on your post, Matt is clearly a much more dominate/Alpha type guy which is clear to you in and outside of the bedroom. It is also clear that your wife has shared a good bit of information about your marriage with Matt and it would seem that he knows that he is now involved in your relationship from a sexual aspect, as a result of your sexual inadequacy as you have described it.

With one of my prior relationships (marriage), my than wife was fully involved within the lifestyle as a hotwife and she was very much attracted to the much more dominate/Alpha type guys outside of the marriage while she had me at home as the more caring, loving husband, a sexually beta type cuckold. During that time, she had two (2) lovers which she would text continuously although I would say that the texting was more in line with what you would see from very close friends, in our cases Friends with Benefits (FwB). I knew both of the guys very well, one of them was my than boss and the other was a mutual friend of sorts that my than wife and I had known for many years. Of this two (2) lovers, the one that was of the biggest concern was the mutual friend that we had known nearly as long as we had known each other. This was a guy that she had previously indicated that she had no interest in although over the years she was drawn to him sexual as he was that dominate/Alpha type guy. As they worked up to seeing each other, they did text continuously. In our situation, over the course of about six months it went from a generalized hotwifing to my than wife becoming more so intercourse exclusive to the alpha guy which were you have to be more concerned about the emotions becoming deeper as there was talk about transitioning from being a hotwife to being more of a Poly with a cuckold twist per say.

So I can see the risk others have mentioned as many husbands would not be able to hand such a transition to a poly, as they would see the emotional connection as a threat. So always be very careful of opening the door unless you are prepared to accept what walks through it. You indicated that you told your wife that it was ok for her to have sex with Matt (her former boyfriend) and since then your lives have changed forever. Sure your wife is happy, she has Matt for great sex and she has her caring, loving husband for all other needs. As Custer mentioned in his post, “Since you are unable to satisfy your wife at all with penetrative intercourse, you should realize it's time to make the transition many cuckolds have made, which is to become your wife's oral lover (if you aren't doing this already). The mere fact you have a small cock and are a "minuteman" does not mean you cannot add to your wife's pleasure, orally, after she has fucked her lover.”

Do you spend time in the spare bedroom when Matt is visiting?