When I first found out my wife was cheating on me with other men it was initially a feeling of hurt...however once I found the pictures she was sending to other men and the messages she had with them I was incredibly turned on...she was completely different...extremely sexual, flirtatious, and naughty, you could tell she was longing for the sex, needed it..this was in contrast to us having sex maybe once a week. I let this continue for close to a year without her knowing I knew. Everytime she left I would get so turned on knowing she was leaving to be fucked and wanted it so bad. This is when I knew I had changed
Her progression from wife to slut
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I've never been married to or had a girlfriend that I didn't give complete sexual freedom to. Not that they needed my permission, but just to be clear, I always made sure to tell them they could fuck anybody at any time.
All I've ever asked for in return is to share it with me. I'd prefer to watch, but if they don't want to do it in front of me, they needed to tell me everything, every time. I had no problem with them going on a date or going out with the girls, but I wanted to know what time they thought they may be home, so let me know if you were going to a guy's house for the night.
Most of them tried to hide it at first, but eventually would flaunt it, not caring if I knew or not.
And, yeah, knowing she is cheating is very exciting, even when some hurt feelings exist. Your mind recalls some of the best times of having sex with your wife, and are ****** to think about another man making her feel that same passion and pleasure. Perhaps more than you knew she was capable of.
You have to fantasize about all the different positions, how long/how many times, has he fucked her in the ass, has she sucked him off and swallowed his cum, does she take cum in her pussy, and a thousand other thoughts. And the next thing you know, your cock is very stiff, and you are jacking off furiously thinking of all these things just racing through your mind, and your cum just explodes when you shoot.
Then you decide that it felt good and want to replicate that feeling. And the only way to do that is start fantasizing about her getting strange cock, and the cycle above starts all over again.
All I've ever asked for in return is to share it with me. I'd prefer to watch, but if they don't want to do it in front of me, they needed to tell me everything, every time. I had no problem with them going on a date or going out with the girls, but I wanted to know what time they thought they may be home, so let me know if you were going to a guy's house for the night.
Most of them tried to hide it at first, but eventually would flaunt it, not caring if I knew or not.
And, yeah, knowing she is cheating is very exciting, even when some hurt feelings exist. Your mind recalls some of the best times of having sex with your wife, and are ****** to think about another man making her feel that same passion and pleasure. Perhaps more than you knew she was capable of.
You have to fantasize about all the different positions, how long/how many times, has he fucked her in the ass, has she sucked him off and swallowed his cum, does she take cum in her pussy, and a thousand other thoughts. And the next thing you know, your cock is very stiff, and you are jacking off furiously thinking of all these things just racing through your mind, and your cum just explodes when you shoot.
Then you decide that it felt good and want to replicate that feeling. And the only way to do that is start fantasizing about her getting strange cock, and the cycle above starts all over again.
lawyerwife said:
Your male ego was crushed, no doubt....
lawyerwife said:
For the first time, you saw the power of your wife's sexuality and couldn't resist responding....
lawyerwife said:
Good for your wife....
lawyerwife said:
If you were working full-time and your wife wasn't.... or, even if she was working.... once a week ain't much.
lawyerwife said:
You had the right attitude. What happened after a year of not telling your wife you knew about her erotic secret (I suppose I should say, attempted secret) life...?
Custer Laststand said:
I actually just started talking dirtier while we were having sex...asking her who the best shes ever had was, who was the biggest, what was the dirtiest thing shes ever done..initially she would not answer or make it sound like it was me but eventually when she was really horny she started talking...
The thing that's missing with our permission is the feeling of being naughty and doing something that they're not supposed to be doing. Without that the endorphins are not as strong so even though they know we're ok with it they have to cheat. My wife does it too.
Absolutely, By all accounts my wife has always cheated, she was married when I met her & I fucked her that night & she was seeing a couple of other guys at that time! I know of at least 5 guys she's been with since we've been married & I'm sure there's more. Nevertheless she always denies cheating and has made it very clear she's not into hotwifing.openhub said:
lawyerwife said:
Sounds like you never did tell your wife you're aware she fucks other men, and that actually turns you on and thus you encouraged her to continue (or something along those lines). I can see where that might have been counterproductive, though, if she had responded by (e.g.) making sure you no longer had access to her phone.
But, indirectly it sounds like you managed to bring out more of her inner slut in your day-to-day married life — if that's what "when she was really horny she started talking..." means. If what you mean is, "she started talking..." about what she was actually doing, then that's great — so much the better.
Custer Laststand said:
She didnt actually admit that she was cheating...I didnt really want her to. First of all I thought it would be weird that I would have to bring up me wanting her to continue, and deep down I didnt want her to stop either or bring up something that might make it stop. Instead she talked about her "past" and stories and guys from it...
I also love when she is getting ready to head out...watching her put on a really tight skirt and tight silk blouse, dress, heels, etc..knowing that shes wearing it to make someone else want to fuck her...makes me hard instantly
are you worried that her cheating might turn into an emotion affair that endangers your marriage? Has she ever gone through periods where everything you do annoys her (i.e. she is infatuated with someone else and she feels, at that moment, that you are holding her back)? If so, I'm sure these were temporary as the NRE wore off, and they broke it off. Just curious if that has happened over the last year.
If you come clean that you know, and that your OK with it, then you both can share in her fun. The result might be you guys being closer together. You obviously know your relationship the best, so make the choice that you believe will work best for you. I'm just offering an alternative to think about.
Regardless of how you take this moving forward..... enjoy the ride, and please continue to let us share in your adventure!!
All the best...
Wingman
If you come clean that you know, and that your OK with it, then you both can share in her fun. The result might be you guys being closer together. You obviously know your relationship the best, so make the choice that you believe will work best for you. I'm just offering an alternative to think about.
Regardless of how you take this moving forward..... enjoy the ride, and please continue to let us share in your adventure!!
All the best...
Wingman
lawyerwife said:
Good. You have the right attitude.
Also, it sounds like your marriage is an optimal compromise. Your wife is sexually-satisfied (although not by you), and so are you (although indirectly, by erotic thoughts of what your wife might be doing with her lovers).
As one cuckold put it elsewhere on the web: "When my wife goes out, it gives me a break from salads — I have a steak for dinner. As an added plus, I don't have to worry about entertaining her — other men do that."
Custer Laststand said:
Yes, it has been great so far....a few of my friends knew her before we met and she was a "slut" perhaps she tamed it down for a few years but knowing she is heading back to that mindframe is so sexy...I love it. She is constantly working around men and VERY flirtatious..im sure this is just the beginning. she is only 30
lawyerwife said:A pic of her...she likes wearing bras like this without any padding
Excellent. Your wife has a very nice figure and is well-stacked. So much the better.
Given your role as your wife's turned-on cuckold, and your wife's role as your secretive cuckoldress who pretends she has not made you her cuckold, and you do not know she fucks other men (with abandon) — if you had the ability to bring about what you most desire to improve your relationship with your wife... i.e., your marriage... what would that be?
Custer Laststand said:
It would be for her to explore her sexuality to the limits with her knowing that I know. She told me a story when I was prodding her about her past. When she was in her early 20's working in a high end martini bar that she was sleeping with the owner for almost 2 years, he was in his mid 50's. She also said that quite frequently it was in his office at the bar after her shift and after a few drinks. They were ****** to wear short skin tight skirts and heels behind the bar. He was married and had a daughter close to her age. She said he wasn't attractive in a classical sense but he was the first guy she'd been with that was bigger than average...much much bigger. She said she wasn't interested in him at all but once she would get horny or have a few drinks all she wanted was to be fucked by his thickness. She said it got to a point where it was just about being fucked and she would just walk in and fuck him right away. She also said that everyone else knew they were fucking and it turned her on....me too
