The First Time My Wife Did It, By Newly Cucked Hubby

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Sound like a very hot situation!
 
WOW!, I just found this thread, it is SOO Hot!
There hasten been any updates since June 17th, I hope all is still going well.
Don't let anyone get you down about not posting pics. I totally understand your not wanting your wife's pics all over the internet.
I'll be looking for further updates.
 
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Thanks wannabe. I hadn't updated as I didn't think anyone would be interested.
Yes lot has happened since my last update. Sharon and Paul meet up a lot now. It is like they are now officially lovers and almost 'normal' for them that their relationship has developed like this.
Its approximately ten weeks since we 'made love' and again over the weeks it has been made clear to me that she is now off limits to me sexually. I even have to wank myself off now, she won't do it, as Paul doesn't like it. She freely tells me all the things they do and will go into detail if I ask enough. Its so surreal that we don't have sex yet she will happily tell me how often they do it, what she wears, where they go, what he does and how good he is at making her cum!
Paul is taking her away for the night for her birthday and I'm paying for the room to top it all
I have very mixed feelings about it all still. More recently I have been questioning what the hell I am doing allowing this, but I also get very excited on other occasions too. One of the members from here has been messaging me a lot, helping explaining my feelings and what Sharon and Paul are doing in great detail, which has helped me enormously as well as arousing me more than I thought possible!
Please let me know what you'd like me to share with you and I'll report back
Thanks
 
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From what you have written it sounds like you haven't gotten to watch again since the first time. Do you think that really was their first time? From what you wrote it sounded like they might have had some practice before they put it on display for you.

Would love to hear more detail about the stories Sharon has been telling you. Your living the wannabe cuckold's dream.

From the beginning of your story you encouraged Sharon to flirt with Paul. Did you want to be cuckolded from the start, or did you think it wouldn't go that far? Now that it has gone to full cuckolding it sound like your OK and excited by it. Although you have times when you think you must be nuts.

Other than Paul having Sharon cut you off from an sexual contact with her, have either of them made any attempt or suggestions to dominate you? Such as chastity, cross dress, or servitude to them.
 
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This thread continues to be interesting - @lincs male UK your updates are good to read.
 
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Thanks squirming sub.
It is interesting at the moment as Paul has gone away on holiday with his wife and kids, which has really annoyed Sharon for some reason. It is a week since they last had sex and another week until he is back for her birthday and she is quite irritable. Is this normal behaviour for wives???
I have offered my services but this was dismissed instantly. My small cock and skinny physique don't compare well to Paul's obviously.
Should I expect more irritability until Paul is back to satisfy her eager pussy?
 
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lincs male UK said:
Thanks squirming sub.
It is interesting at the moment as Paul has gone away on holiday with his wife and kids, which has really annoyed Sharon for some reason. It is a week since they last had sex and another week until he is back for her birthday and she is quite irritable. Is this normal behaviour for wives???
I have offered my services but this was dismissed instantly. My small cock and skinny physique don't compare well to Paul's obviously.
Should I expect more irritability until Paul is back to satisfy her eager pussy?


I have read about other wives with similar expressions/feelings as you described with your wife. Prior to my current wife which is more alpha, I was previously marred to a submissive woman that was a bit on the jealous side when it come to her more long term lovers which would lead to her being really annoyed at times. While she did have some prior playmates which were married she preferred them to be unattached (single/divorced, etc) allowing them to have more available time. The one that caused her the most annoyance was when she was dating a married man with his wife’s knowledge and approval. Some husbands prefer the wives sleeping with married men thinking the risk is reduced although I have found that while some woman also prefer married NSA sex with married men, there are also a large number of women which also prefer the guys they play with to be single/divorced so that scheduling, commitments, and time is not an issue. I am not sure if you could say that the behavior was normal or not so normal considering the lifestyle some couples live. With that said, some woman need a good connection with their lovers to enjoy the sexual side. Your wife may have some poly tendencies and not even know it. She may continue to become even more irritable until her lover returns home to satisfy her sexual needs.
 
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I'm not sure whether to be massively turned on at being in a similar situation, or scared that it might happen if I go through with watching her. I guess time will tell. Thanks for posting
 
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I expect she can't wait until her lover returns, and will be wanting to spend as much time with him as possible. exciting she is shaving her pussy for him, and am sure she has done things with and for him sexually she has not and would n0t do for you. I suggest you show how you support her by getting her some very sexy/slutty lingerie for her to wear for him
 
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Hi, sorry I haven't posted for a while, but was reading this recently and realised how many supporting and understanding replies I got, it made me want to share my update with you all.
I don't have anyone that I can tell about this and was feeling the need to unburden myself again.
Sharon is still seeing Paul. It has become almost "normal" now that my pretty wife meets her lover for her "me time". I haven' had full sex with my wife for months and months now. I have finally accepted that I lost her sexually some time ago. She will occasionally wank me off as she tells me about her sex life with him and I am also allowed to masturbate myself as she tells me too. She prefers me not to touch her body sexually now, yet otherwise our relationship is strong. In fact if anything she is even more loving and affectionate, particularly if we are out with friends. No one would ever suspect that my sweet little wife could ever be unfaithful. To everyone else she is a perfect wife and mummy....and only me and Sharon know the truth.
It has been an absolute roller coaster of emotions to get here and I have gone from being totally distraught and crying to the opposite extreme and revelling in my humiliation, wanting or trying to make myself a wimp of a cuckold. I still fluctuate but think I pretty much resign myself to accepting what she does now.
Since I last wrote Sharon has been away with Paul a few times, stopping over. He has even fucked her in her wedding dress one night and did this thing where he physically cut off her bridal panties with scissors to symbolise her cutting her sexual ties to me and him having her in her wedding dress somehow made her "his wife".
I have even spoken with Paul on the phone a few times. This was something I asked for and he took great pleasure explaining in detail the tings he has done to her, what she wears, where they have done it and how much she loves it. He told me that I had to play with myself as he told me ( something I gladly did) and would wank myself stupid as he told me. He thought it highly amusing to hear me cumming as he told me things and then would call me something pretty derogatory before hanging up. I would then be left feeling humiliated and stupid covered in my own cum. Twice this happened when I was in my car (alone obviously) with no tissues to even clean myself up.
Paul got bored of this though and hasn't done it for ages.
The biggest revelation though came a few weeks ago when she confessed that she had let Paul's friend join them too. She said it was a one off but was something she had fantasised about for years and wanted to do. She said she had spent virtually all her life being a "Good girl" refusing several offers and advances from men over the years, because she was married, even though she really wanted to. Now she is enjoying also being a "naughty girl" and loved her one night of being a slut for two hunky men.

If I've missed anything I will let you know or if you'd like more detail please let me know or pm me
Thanks
 
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lincs male UK said:
Hi, sorry I haven't posted for a while, but was reading this recently and realised how many supporting and understanding replies I got, it made me want to share my update with you all.
I don't have anyone that I can tell about this and was feeling the need to unburden myself again.
Sharon is still seeing Paul. It has become almost "normal" now that my pretty wife meets her lover for her "me time". I haven' had full sex with my wife for months and months now. I have finally accepted that I lost her sexually some time ago. She will occasionally wank me off as she tells me about her sex life with him and I am also allowed to masturbate myself as she tells me too. She prefers me not to touch her body sexually now, yet otherwise our relationship is strong. In fact if anything she is even more loving and affectionate, particularly if we are out with friends. No one would ever suspect that my sweet little wife could ever be unfaithful. To everyone else she is a perfect wife and mummy....and only me and Sharon know the truth.
It has been an absolute roller coaster of emotions to get here and I have gone from being totally distraught and crying to the opposite extreme and revelling in my humiliation, wanting or trying to make myself a wimp of a cuckold. I still fluctuate but think I pretty much resign myself to accepting what she does now.
Since I last wrote Sharon has been away with Paul a few times, stopping over. He has even fucked her in her wedding dress one night and did this thing where he physically cut off her bridal panties with scissors to symbolise her cutting her sexual ties to me and him having her in her wedding dress somehow made her "his wife".
I have even spoken with Paul on the phone a few times. This was something I asked for and he took great pleasure explaining in detail the tings he has done to her, what she wears, where they have done it and how much she loves it. He told me that I had to play with myself as he told me ( something I gladly did) and would wank myself stupid as he told me. He thought it highly amusing to hear me cumming as he told me things and then would call me something pretty derogatory before hanging up. I would then be left feeling humiliated and stupid covered in my own cum. Twice this happened when I was in my car (alone obviously) with no tissues to even clean myself up.
Paul got bored of this though and hasn't done it for ages.
The biggest revelation though came a few weeks ago when she confessed that she had let Paul's friend join them too. She said it was a one off but was something she had fantasised about for years and wanted to do. She said she had spent virtually all her life being a "Good girl" refusing several offers and advances from men over the years, because she was married, even though she really wanted to. Now she is enjoying also being a "naughty girl" and loved her one night of being a slut for two hunky men.

If I've missed anything I will let you know or if you'd like more detail please let me know or pm me
Thanks
Great story, I am glad it is working out for you , too bad she doesn't have you clean her up, she would love it and it could be one more orgasm for her.
 
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Amazing, thanks for sharing
 
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lincs male UK said:
Hi, sorry I haven't posted for a while, but was reading this recently and realised how many supporting and understanding replies I got, it made me want to share my update with you all.
I don't have anyone that I can tell about this and was feeling the need to unburden myself again.
Sharon is still seeing Paul. It has become almost "normal" now that my pretty wife meets her lover for her "me time". I haven' had full sex with my wife for months and months now. I have finally accepted that I lost her sexually some time ago. She will occasionally wank me off as she tells me about her sex life with him and I am also allowed to masturbate myself as she tells me too. She prefers me not to touch her body sexually now, yet otherwise our relationship is strong. In fact if anything she is even more loving and affectionate, particularly if we are out with friends. No one would ever suspect that my sweet little wife could ever be unfaithful. To everyone else she is a perfect wife and mummy....and only me and Sharon know the truth.
It has been an absolute roller coaster of emotions to get here and I have gone from being totally distraught and crying to the opposite extreme and revelling in my humiliation, wanting or trying to make myself a wimp of a cuckold. I still fluctuate but think I pretty much resign myself to accepting what she does now.
Since I last wrote Sharon has been away with Paul a few times, stopping over. He has even fucked her in her wedding dress one night and did this thing where he physically cut off her bridal panties with scissors to symbolise her cutting her sexual ties to me and him having her in her wedding dress somehow made her "his wife".
I have even spoken with Paul on the phone a few times. This was something I asked for and he took great pleasure explaining in detail the tings he has done to her, what she wears, where they have done it and how much she loves it. He told me that I had to play with myself as he told me ( something I gladly did) and would wank myself stupid as he told me. He thought it highly amusing to hear me cumming as he told me things and then would call me something pretty derogatory before hanging up. I would then be left feeling humiliated and stupid covered in my own cum. Twice this happened when I was in my car (alone obviously) with no tissues to even clean myself up.
Paul got bored of this though and hasn't done it for ages.
The biggest revelation though came a few weeks ago when she confessed that she had let Paul's friend join them too. She said it was a one off but was something she had fantasised about for years and wanted to do. She said she had spent virtually all her life being a "Good girl" refusing several offers and advances from men over the years, because she was married, even though she really wanted to. Now she is enjoying also being a "naughty girl" and loved her one night of being a slut for two hunky men.

If I've missed anything I will let you know or if you'd like more detail please let me know or pm me
Thanks


Hi lincs male UK,



Well, that is some story.

First a little about myself, I am a very dow to earth guy, who likes to analyse situations.
I must say, I find yours very interesting, but also worrying. I will not say I have everything right, but I do hope you respond to this in other to correct my analysis and assumptions.

So, my first analisys is that you realy do not like this situation.
You've come to accept it, but it is not something you realy want.
Look realy deep into your hart, is this the life you want? Do you realy like being sexualy ignored by your wife?
Do you realy like not to have sex with your wife, and only allowed to wank, and then only when she approves it?
As I've read your story, I think deep down you do not want this.

Maybe you wanted to spice up your sexlife a little, so maybe she would fuck another guy once in a while.
But I think you never planned to be fully denied.

So if this is true (and I think it is), then you need to do something about it.
Why? It is your life too. You are allowed to have fun and enjoy life too. That is not only for her.
You are allowed to enjoy sex as well, that is not only her privilage.
So, now what. Well there are a lot of possibility's. From very hard to mild, but all leading to you having sex with a woman again.
Yes, I said woman, not your wife. That woman could be your wife, but does not have to be.

It would not be smart to start with the hardest one, because that would be divorce. I do not think you want that.
The mildest is to talk to her again. In that talk, do not let her touch your dick. It has to be a non-sexual talk, so all business.
Tell her you do not like the current situation. Tell her you do not want to be denied. Tell het you want to have intimate sex with her.
Tell her that you would be okay if she cotinues to see Paul, and have sex with him, but the sex count with you and her should be higher than her with Paul, just because you are her husband.
Tell her you do not want to be left out. Tell her you understand that she want to have fun, but that doesn't mean it should ruin your life.
This is the mildest one. And don't let her turn you around. Stick with your demands. If you get into a fight, fine, then fight.
Remember, you have only one lifetime, use it well.

Okay, that was very mild. You can also let her 'feel' that you are not okay with the situation. First it can be rather harmless.
Buy some womans parfume, not the one your wife uses. Tell your wife that she needs to be home at a certain evening, you have to attand at something, or you that you go out
with friends, or something like that. When you go home, spray some of the womans parfume on you clothes, just enough that she can smell it at some point.
If she does not smell it the first evening, then you will have to repeat it some times. The point would be that she notices it and start ask questions.
It could be that she will get very mad, she will demand an explanation. Your only answer would be "If you are allowed to have fun, so am I.".
Two things can happen, she will get very mad, or she is okay with it. If she gets very mad, just tell her she has no real reason to get mad,
she is fucking another man already for a long time. Do not bulge, in anyway, just stick to this. Do not give in, just say "I want to have a lot of sex with a woman again,
if you do not want it to be with another woman, than it must be you, that would be fine with me. If you would have a lot of sex with me again, then I will quit with the other.".
Here again, it is your life, you can only live it once. Make the most of it, do not deny your own pleasure.

So, that was a little bolder, and playing on her emotions. Advantage in that is you instantly know what she thinks about you with other woman.
Next step, turning up a notch. It is almost as above, but now actualy search for a woman/girlfriend. Go out, place online ads, search. Or even go to a ********** if you have to.
Point is, have real sex with a woman. Your wife will notice at some point, she will needs to be home when you go out. If she ask where you going, just first
say going out with friends. Later you can tell you are going to see a woman. See how her reaction is and act accordingly, try to bounce everything back at her, she is
doing the same, so it is obvious you can do the same. If she says that you lied to her, you can pass that back as well, she lied with what would happen on the first date with
Paul, you thought it would only be wanking, but they knew it would be sex, and she had wanked Paul a week earlier which she did not mention to you. So she lies to you too.

That was another level, but at least you enjoyd having sex with a woman.
You can step it up even a little further. Not only see other woman, or have a girlfriend, but also pay no more attention to her. Just the normal family stuf.
No more questions about Paul, no more interest in her sexlife. Be at home for the kids, but other than that, be away as much as possible. If she asks if she looks great in
something, just a "yeah" or "yeah fine" will do, but not enthausiastic, more like you are reading something interesting and you did not pay realy any attention what she was saying.
She will notice at some point something is not alright anymore. A discusion of anysort will come.

If you would dare to step up even further, then this will get her attention, but also is very very dangerous.
Get some information from a divorce lawyer, have it send to your home, addressed to you. Leave the envelope closed on a table for a while. This can only be done if the
envelope clearly shows it is from a lawyer, prevered a divorce lawyer. That will certainly get her attention.
It can also mean she does not want to fight and agrees right away. On the other hand, if that is the case, then you know for sure she was planning on doing that anyway, just
not so soon. If she does not agree, then she will get very mad, but that is okay, you then just tell her that this is not what you want. You want to have sex too.
You want to enjoy life as well. That can be with her, if not, then it will be without her. It is hard, very hard and not for wimps. You have to be strong doing this.
And of course take into account that it could lead to a real divorce.

Then the top one. Could it go any further, yes it can. Where this would lead to, well, no one knows. This could get real ugly, big chance it would lead to divorce, plus
a lot of people would be angry at you. Only do this if you are realy strong, and it would be the last thing you could do.
Get in contact with Pauls wife. Tell her Paul is fucking your wife. Tells you want to prove it to her, you know when and where they meet so she can catch them in the act.
Or better, set something up at your home, let them have the idea they can use your house, then also invite Pauls wife. She will ring on the doorbell when they are very busy,
you let her in and let her see what they are doing. Then get out of the house, hell will break lose, you do not want to be there.
There is also another way. If you know she and Paul are going somewhere where you can take pictures, then let your wife believe your at work, then just follow them and take
pictures. Send tose pictures, printed, in an envelope (posted from another city then your, prefered not close by) to Pauls wife.
Of course your wife will suspect you, but you were at work. But there is a big chance she will find out eventually.


So, that was a long text with possibilitys. Best is to do the first one. Try to communicate with her. If that doesn't work, then you can plan the next step.
I think you realy need to do this for yourself, I realy think you are not happy with the situation.
I know there are a lot of people who are congratulate you on this big achievement, but those people realy want this kind of life themselves.
In your story I read you do not realy want this. Yes, you want your wife to be happy, but you also deserve to be happy, and as I read it, you are not happy right now.
You just accepted the situation, that does not sound as if you wanted this. Yes, you maybe wanted to see your wife fucked by another man, but not be denied for a long time.
You were at the step of seeing her wank another guy, instead you saw them fuck. You were played as you said it, I call it a big lie from her end. She already knew she
was going to fuck Paul, she did not tell you, she told you something else. That is just lying, nothing else.

Did you know about the chemical bond between man and woman? If a man cums in a woman, they get a chemical connection through the sperm and the femal juices. The woman bonds
with the man. You haven't cum in your wife for a while now, that bond with you is gone, that is for sure. Guess who she has a bond with now. Right, with Paul.
I think those two are very much in love with eachother. It would be of no surprise to me if they are talking about divorce, she from you, and Paul from his wife.
They just want to pick the right time. Of course, this is al guessing from my end, but it would not surprise me.
The reason I mention this because I have an expierience with this. Not as a cuck, but as a 'bull'. In short, the woman was all loving to her husband, telling all kind of
reassuring stuff, but bedroomtalk with me was that she wanted to leave him for me. She did not expected that I would tell him......

Hope you managed to read all this.
I am very curious about your reaction to this.
Also a lot of people would reply to this, all telling you are doing fine and that you are in a good situation.
Thruth is, only you can tell that, and be realy realy true to yourself, no matter how hard it is.
Remember, you have only one life, do not let it be ruined by something you do not want.
One more thing, if she trhreatens you with divorce, then you know they are already planning something. If she threaten you with this, you know she doesn't love you anymore.

Best regards,
Marco.
 
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Thanks Marco,
A lot to take in there but in summary you are mostly correct in what you say.
It isn't how I ever imagined it to be or truly what I wanted. Yes I would like to have sex again definitely and I will take your advice to try and change this. I am not a strong person so it will be the very weakest option of talking.
I appreciate your point of them leaving, but I genuinely don't think this is the case. Sharon has a great set up and is enjoying herself and I don't believe she would break up our family, when she is getting what she wants.
Also as much as I accept the situation, I have to admit it that I get incredibly excited when she tells me about Paul fucking her sweet pussy. Just typing those words has made me so hard....... knowing that my pretty little wife dresses up in her sexy lingerie to meet her lover is so arousing and I love masturbating myself (particularly when alone) thinking of Paul taking her panties off and making love to her as she needs.... I love my wife but I also have to admit that I love her having this slutty side to her 'outer respectable sweet' personality

I hope that makes sense. It is hard to ever fully explain it in a few words. Maybe I am somewhere in the middle so will try and reclaim a sex life !
 
lincs male UK said:
Thanks Marco,
A lot to take in there but in summary you are mostly correct in what you say.
It isn't how I ever imagined it to be or truly what I wanted. Yes I would like to have sex again definitely and I will take your advice to try and change this. I am not a strong person so it will be the very weakest option of talking.
I appreciate your point of them leaving, but I genuinely don't think this is the case. Sharon has a great set up and is enjoying herself and I don't believe she would break up our family, when she is getting what she wants.
Also as much as I accept the situation, I have to admit it that I get incredibly excited when she tells me about Paul fucking her sweet pussy. Just typing those words has made me so hard....... knowing that my pretty little wife dresses up in her sexy lingerie to meet her lover is so arousing and I love masturbating myself (particularly when alone) thinking of Paul taking her panties off and making love to her as she needs.... I love my wife but I also have to admit that I love her having this slutty side to her 'outer respectable sweet' personality

I hope that makes sense. It is hard to ever fully explain it in a few words. Maybe I am somewhere in the middle so will try and reclaim a sex life !

Hi Lincs male UK,


Thank you for your honest response.


Yes it is a lot to take in, but on the other hand it is very simple. Think about yourself, what do you want.

You just made a very good and strong point : "It isn't how I ever imagined it to be or truly what I wanted." And it is followed by another good and strong point : "Yes I would like to have sex again definitely".
Those are your baseline now, that is what needs to be addressed and worked upon.

So the target is very clear now. That is very good. With this 'we' can work.
If you want and like, I think I can help you a little with this, I will help you talking to your wife.

You say you are not a strong person. I think you are stronger then you think. Why I thinkt that? Because the 'weaknesses' in your story were not realy weaknesses, those can be explained easily. The first one was at the date when you were there. You were expecting that she would wank him, but instead they went fucking. Well, first of all, this was a big surprise for you, you needed process that. While you were processing, they went on. You managed to say that you thought it would only be wanking, they told you she

already did that a week ago. Bam, new information to process, while they just continued. Thousands of thoughts were running through your mind, "what is happening","she wanked him last week?", "did they all plan this", "did she lie to me?".
Your mind was racing, producing a ton of hormones, so it is not strange you were not able to do much.

Ever heard of people freezing when something happens? Like when they see something fast moving towards them and they just stand while they should move away? That is al work of hormones, all human nature.

So when you think you were not strong there, then think again, nature was against you. The knew that, they had this al planned, they knew what was going to happen, so they both ‘played’ you. You had no chance at all. So in the end, you cannot blame yourself for that. This had nothing to do with not being strong.

Second point. The time you talked to her, telling you actually wanted it to stop.
Almost the same thing. You said you were not strong because she had you saying you wanted this to continue. Well think again, this was also NOT a sign of you not being strong.
Simple explanation, what was she doing when talking to you? Yes, wanking you. Well that releases a lot of hormones as well. You were not able to really think straight. You just wanted to have that nice feeling of her wanking you, so you would agree to almost anything. She knew that, that why she did it. So again, human nature was against you. Nothing to do with not being strong.

So please get that thought out of your mind. At least understand the points I’ve just written, you could not do anything about both of them. If Sharon ever mention “but you agreed that I needed this” or “but you said you wanted it too”, then just tell her it was not under fair circumstances, and that she knew that.

The reason why you want to start with talking to her is not because you are not strong, it is because it is logical and the smartest thing to do. All the others are there for if talking doesn’t get you anywhere. The last few are only there if all is useless and divorce would be the only option.
There is even one more option, if all is lost and divorce would be the last option. That is contact Sharon’s employer and tell she has a sexual relationship with a customer, you can do the same with Paul’s employer, tell them he has a sexual relation with someone at Sharon’s company. Again, only when things are getting ugly. I assume that talking will to the trick and you will not need all the others.

So rule number one when you have the talk. I think you know what that one is. Do not let her wank you while you talk. Do not talk during sex. Do not drink before or during the talk. You need to be very clear minded. Only talk with her when she is wearing normal clothes, nothing sexy, you need to be focused. Write everything down what you want to say. Some see that as a weakness, but most people see that as being prepared, being accurate. Look at CEO’s or world leaders, you see them talking with a paper in front of them. Are they weak? Of course not.
Tell her you want to tell her something and that she doesn’t need to react right away, tell her you want to talk to her again in one or two weeks and would like to hear her reply. This way she can think about it. This way you play it fair, you had no time to think it over when they started fucking, you were full of hormones when she wanked you, all not really fair. But you do play it fair (for now).

What do you tell? Well that is simple. Tell her you want your sexlife back, you want to fuck again, not only once a month, but normal, like every week or multiple times a week. Not with a condom, but bare, as husband and wife should. Tell that you are very sad now, that you are really really really not happy. Maybe even mention that you are thinking you are heading for a depression.
Say that you really do not want this situation anymore.
Then say you want her to be happy. So that you know she ALSO needs Paul for now. Say that you can allow her to see him, but only if you also have a good sexlife, being intercourse with her.
Say that you really really really love her and you do not want to lose her, but that this cannot continue this way, you cannot take it anymore, you feel that you are at the beginning of a nervous breakdown.

Well, maybe not completely true, but it will be if you do not act on this situation.
And it is okay to lie a little, they lied to get what they wanted, so why can’t you.

I know you get aroused thinking of Paul fucking your wife, that can continue if you want. Because that is not the point, the point is for you to have sex again, preferred with your wife.
The goal is not to get rid of Paul (that would be easy), but to have a happy wife, which has also a lot of sex with you.

Remember, she deserves to be happy, but so are you. You have one live, spend it well.
If you want, we can continue in private, but I’m not allowed to send private messages yet

This is also a lot to take in, and I am curious what you think of it.
Like mentioned before, if you want, I will help you further with the preparation of talking to Sharon.


Take care.


Marco.
 
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Thanks Marco. I will talk to her and see how it goes
 
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lincs male UK said:
Thanks Marco. I will talk to her and see how it goes

Great to hear that lincs.

I hope you prepare well, that you consider all possible turn the talk could go.
Like Sharon totally agrees with you (best possible outcome ), to Sharon will get very mad at you.
One more thing, if you let Sharon think about it, then do not be surprised if she talks to Paul about this, with the possibility that Paul calls you......

Good luck, hope to hear the outcome.
And if you need help how to ‘play’ this, just let me know.

Cheers,

Marco.
 
The old editor in me dictates that I must say this. PLEASE use the edit button and go in and turn that first big blob and the rest, where you describe the sex, into several paragraphs. Very hard to read and I am sure, a lot of other people saw that long unbroken string and did not attempt to read it.

I did read it, which surprised me since I usually don't. Also, let the readers know, is the other guy's cock larger than yours? Thicker? Longer? Both? Neither? Most readers want to know. Hot story though.
 
Edited as requested. Sorry im not a professional writer, just someone trying to relay what happened, but happy to accept comments.
Yes Paul is bigger in every way. He's got a hunky type physique with a bigger cock than me. No sizes or anything, but she did say the one striking thing about him that she liked was a really large cock head and it seemed to make a big difference
Thanks for your comments
 
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