How do you deal with this? We have been poly for 4-5 years. He has always been more mono than I though; I think only because it is difficult for an attached man to find a woman that is ok with it.
I feel he wants me all for himself, and it is not possible for me to live that way; I feel he thinks what I want (a bull gangbang with all vaginal cream pie endings) is dirty. He truly loves me; he is having a difficult time with this.
He has talked about being bi curious and has also talked about being on clean up duty and going down on me during a gangbang. I do feel he would be up for it if he would just free himself.
He was in almost a religious cult setting. His family is very much into evangelical, charismatic, patriarchy, and speaking in tongues crap.
How can I help open him more up to the idea and pass all the judgement? Or shall I just go solo? I would rather not do that though, but it could be an option.
I feel he wants me all for himself, and it is not possible for me to live that way; I feel he thinks what I want (a bull gangbang with all vaginal cream pie endings) is dirty. He truly loves me; he is having a difficult time with this.
He has talked about being bi curious and has also talked about being on clean up duty and going down on me during a gangbang. I do feel he would be up for it if he would just free himself.
He was in almost a religious cult setting. His family is very much into evangelical, charismatic, patriarchy, and speaking in tongues crap.
How can I help open him more up to the idea and pass all the judgement? Or shall I just go solo? I would rather not do that though, but it could be an option.
