Dear Ms. ShelbiHelpMi:
Although you haven’t replied yet, and regardless of whether your boyfriend's response to the two articles I suggested (above) is positive or negative, I suggest beginning the program described by Lady Misato (a pseudonym), here:
“Real Women Don’t Do Housework”
Real Women Don't Do Housework
(while noting that the title, as mentioned by the author, is somewhat tongue-in-cheek). To begin, take the Marriage Quiz (or not, your choice). Then, read the chapters listed at upper left, one at a time, until you’ve read all of them. (As you will see, Lady Misato’s approach is psychologically-oriented.) Then, begin her program starting with her recommendations in the introduction (or chapter 1). As you will see, Lady Mast’s program is not oriented toward making your boyfriend your cuckold, per se. If you carry out her program, however, it should have the affect of moving him in that direction, and both of you are likely to find it will increase the quality of your sexual relationship.
At some suitable point (to be determined by you) as you are working your way through Lady Misato’s RWDDH program, I suggest introducing your boyfriend to the concept of wearing a male chastity device for you, with you his sole key holder. This may be a concept that has never occurred to you — but it seems to be increasingly widespread for women to require their men to wear chastity devices for them (the woman being sole key holder in each case). If you can succeed at getting your man into a male chastity device (i.e., a cock cage), you will become, in effect, the owner of his soul — meaning, of course, his penis.
I suggest beginning this process as a game — mention you think it will increase the intensity of your sex if he were to wear a cock cage for you for one (or two or three) days prior to when you have sex each time. Point out that “just for fun” it will keep him from masturbating behind your back. (Almost all men, including married men, do this.) When he protests he doesn’t jack off behind your back, you can roll your eyes and say, “yeah, yeah….”. When he finally agrees, “just for fun,” you can make the necessary measurements (being sure to get them right, with his cock limp (use an ice pack, if necessary). Then, order for him…. or require him to order for himself.... the cock cage you have selected. For a selection of available cock cages, see (for instance):
Mature Metal | Caging the Beast
IN THE BEGINNING - Steelwerks Extreme
Chastity Device Chastity Tubes
Male chastity cage - HolyTrainer : Size and specifications, pictures & videos
There seems to be some agreement among the cuckolds on this forum whose wives require them to wear chastity devices that metal devices are superior to those made of plastic. More than one cuckold has said the “HolyTrainer” is comfortable for long-term wear and very effective. (Those are not made from plastic.)
Another woman joined this forum a while back and asked how she could get her boyfriend into a cock cage. I suggested she approach it on a “game basis” (as I’m suggesting to you), and gradually increase his lock-up times. Rather soon…. sooner than I expected…. she had him locked full-time in his cock cage (with her his sole key holder, of course). When I asked her how it was going, she said every time she saw it on him she giggled.
If you succeed in locking your boyfriend in a cock cage (by gradually increasing his lock-up times, on a game basis), you will almost certainly attain a personal power over him that will elevate you to being the dominate partner in your relationship (by enabling you to be the sole arbiter of when and if you have sex with him). This should thus enable you to persuade him to accept becoming your voluntary (self-aware) cuckold.
Speaking of which, as you increase your dominance of your relationship and move your boyfriend to acceptance of being your cuckold, I suggest thinking about when you will tell him it is time for him to marry you. (Now, in 2018, it is totally acceptable for a woman to ask a man to marry her.) When you do so, I suggest informing him that you expect him to take YOUR last name in marriage. See:
Comments: Is it itme for the man to take the woman's surname in marriage?
This will increase the awareness of your (and his) friends and relatives that you are the dominant partner in your relationship — in effect, his boss-wife. Also, telling your boyfriend it’s time for him to marry you.... then carrying through.... will make him formally your cuckold. Remember the definition: cuckold — a man with an unfaithful wife.
Good luck with your project!
Best regards—
Custer
we are 21 f and 26 m from the States.
