Hi 40 year old married man, who has seen this site before, and kind of was intrigued. I am married to a 40 year old blonde, independent, and owns own buisness. She was married before as was I. She and I have high sex drives,and our sex life was great until we had kids, which has slowed things. We get along fine, and when we have sex it is good. She told me about her first marriage, when she was younger where she had actually made out with two female friends, and actually gave head to her husband's friend in their hottub. Why she told me about his, I don't know, but would like to try it myself, though she doesn't seem to be interested in doing that now saying she was "younger" then. She mentioned once during the beginning of our relationship that we should go away to an island, and mentioned hedonism which I knew was a swingers thing. Anyway, when I mentioned that to her, she played dumb saying she didn't know this. During sex we talk dirty about multiple men, or couples, no one specific, but it is a turnon. She later says she isn't really interested in it that she was "caught up in the moment". I was wondering if anyone thinks she may actually be intereseted in this, and I am not seeing it?
Secondly, a little about me. My ex from my first marriage, and another women I once lived with cheated on me. Obviously, I was hurt, but secretly a little turned on too. Both used to come home late from work, and later I had found out why. My present wife, Jenna, comes home late at times as well, more so than when we first met. She can make her own hours as well. She knows the deal with the other two women, and often is apologetic saying she doesn't want me to think she is cheating. She also goes away, at times, on business, and once a month for this professional group. The group meets at a hotel, and she has come home as early as 7, and other times as late as 9:30. She has a lot of male colleague friends that I met when I used to go to events with her, as she tends to go without me now saying that it is just for professionals, not spouses. Plus, I have to watch the kids. I have noticed she wants to go to the gym more now too, and has bought new panties. Finally, she can be kind of a lush when she drinks, and had a reputation for being kind of slutty in college when she drank. Do you think she is cheating? She is going away with girlfriends next month, and I am a little nervous. Honestly, it is secretly kind of a turn-on, and wouldn't mind if we did this together, but this is different.
Secondly, a little about me. My ex from my first marriage, and another women I once lived with cheated on me. Obviously, I was hurt, but secretly a little turned on too. Both used to come home late from work, and later I had found out why. My present wife, Jenna, comes home late at times as well, more so than when we first met. She can make her own hours as well. She knows the deal with the other two women, and often is apologetic saying she doesn't want me to think she is cheating. She also goes away, at times, on business, and once a month for this professional group. The group meets at a hotel, and she has come home as early as 7, and other times as late as 9:30. She has a lot of male colleague friends that I met when I used to go to events with her, as she tends to go without me now saying that it is just for professionals, not spouses. Plus, I have to watch the kids. I have noticed she wants to go to the gym more now too, and has bought new panties. Finally, she can be kind of a lush when she drinks, and had a reputation for being kind of slutty in college when she drank. Do you think she is cheating? She is going away with girlfriends next month, and I am a little nervous. Honestly, it is secretly kind of a turn-on, and wouldn't mind if we did this together, but this is different.
