I Want My Husband To Be A Cuckold

[House Wife S]

I am a real wife with a real family. My husband has never quite satisfied me; although I love him and we are a great couple. P's dick is only 4.5 inches (10.5 cm) when fully erect. I have had sex from time to time throughout our marriage and had plenty of partners before we married. I know he looks at porn as I look at his web history from time to time. I know he plays with my used underwear. I have left my phone charging in the bathroom with the video recording when I have come back from a business trip and have seen him sniff and play with himself over my used panties. I have had sex on business trips but always make sure my panties are not too messy. I have a large shaven vagina with large labia which make my panties messy. If I have had sex my vagina is loose and wet for many hours, even when I have washed out the sperm and clean myself up. If i have been with a guy who is very large, or rather long, the sperm can take half a day to all flow out.
I want P to encourage me to have sex with other men and be aroused about it, so we can all have fun. I hate secrets. Any suggestions?

 

[littlehubby4]

I am a real wife with a real family. My husband has never quite satisfied me; although I love him and we are a great couple. P's dick is only 4.5 inches (10.5 cm) when fully erect. I have had sex from time to time throughout our marriage and had plenty of partners before we married. I know he looks at porn as I look at his web history from time to time. I know he plays with my used underwear. I have left my phone charging in the bathroom with the video recording when I have come back from a business trip and have seen him sniff and play with himself over my used panties. I have had sex on business trips but always make sure my panties are not too messy. I have a large shaven vagina with large labia which make my panties messy. If I have had sex my vagina is loose and wet for many hours, even when I have washed out the sperm and clean myself up. If i have been with a guy who is very large, or rather long, the sperm can take half a day to all flow out.
I want P to encourage me to have sex with other men and be aroused about it, so we can all have fun. I hate secrets. Any suggestions?

What happened in our case, the initial things that I think started us on this path was my wife began to talk about our sex life. A bit more and more as time went by, it became easier for her to open up about the lack she was feeling, till eventually it was outright talk of penis size lacking in being able to produce pleasure during sex. It has been a long evolving process for us but looking back (for you and your situation) there HAS to be an opening up by you of HIS lack, the more you start to bring the subject into discussion and more and more frequency it will finally get the CORE issue out in the spotlight. Trust me!!! I always knew my dick was small, if he is 4" then TRUST me HE KNOWS he has a small dick and is self conscious of it. Let him know that you have to do what you have to do... He will realize that.

 

[House Wife S]

What happened in our case, the initial things that I think started us on this path was my wife began to talk about our sex life. A bit more and more as time went by, it became easier for her to open up about the lack she was feeling, till eventually it was outright talk of penis size lacking in being able to produce pleasure during sex. It has been a long evolving process for us but looking back (for you and your situation) there HAS to be an opening up by you of HIS lack, the more you start to bring the subject into discussion and more and more frequency it will finally get the CORE issue out in the spotlight. Trust me!!! I always knew my dick was small, if he is 4" then TRUST me HE KNOWS he has a small dick and is self conscious of it. Let him know that you have to do what you have to do... He will realize that.

Sounds like some good advice. He does know he is small. How small are you then?

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi Ms. S,

Thank you for your reasonable and well-written post, and welcome to the forum!

I am a real wife with a real family. My husband has never quite satisfied me; although I love him and we are a great couple. P's dick is only 4.5 inches (10.5 cm) when fully erect.

This problem is widespread among married women.... you are definitely not alone.

I have had sex from time to time throughout our marriage....

Meaning, I assume, sex with other men, as you indicate later in your post. This, of course, means your husband is already your cuckold.... he just doesn't know it yet (apparently). Your desire, as you indicate, is to make him your self-acknowledged cuckold, which is a very reasonable goal.

....and, I've had plenty of partners before we married.

So much the better. You're a sexually-healthy woman, with every reason to expect your husband to accept that it should be your privilege and prerogative, as a married woman, to seek and find sexual satisfaction by flirting with, dating, seducing, and fucking other men.

I know he looks at porn as I look at his web history from time to time. I know he plays with my used underwear. I have left my phone charging in the bathroom with the video recording when I have come back from a business trip and have seen him sniff and play with himself over my used panties.

Excellent! All this indicates your husband is a very good candidate for you to transform to your self-acknowledged cuckold. And, congratulations for your technical prowess in finding out what he's doing behind your back. (BTW, you appear to be under-rating yourself by referring to yourself as "House Wife S." It sounds like you're a business- or professional-woman.)

I have had sex on business trips but always make sure my panties are not too messy.

A bother, to be sure....

I have a large shaven vagina with large labia which make my panties messy. If I have had sex my vagina is loose and wet for many hours, even when I have washed out the sperm and clean myself up. If i have been with a guy who is very large, or rather long, the sperm can take half a day to all flow out.

You should be proud of your large vagina and labia, which indicate you're accustomed to fucking men with cocks much larger than your husband's, whom you therefore find more sexually satisfying. And, it must be sensuously erotic to feel your lover-of-the-night's semen oozing down your leg(s), beneath your stockings, while you participate in the next day's business meetings.

I want P to encourage me to have sex with other men and be aroused about it, so we can all have fun. I hate secrets. Any suggestions?

Yes. I suggest mentioning to your husband, perhaps in an e-mail note to avoid the awkwardness of a personal conversation (at first), that you've run across the following articles and would be interested in hearing his thoughts on this subject.

The Science of Cuckoldry, by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
The Science of Cuckoldry

The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena, by Cherry Lee, Ph.D.:
The Cuckold Phenomena

Then, you might arrange an evening (after your children have gone to bed), with low lights and soft music, and glasses of wine (or whatever your and his favorite drinks are), to talk about it.

In addition, I suggest embarking on a program.... which you can carry out by yourself.... along these lines:

How to Cuckold your Husband Ch. 01:
How to Cuckold Your Husband - How To - Literotica.com

How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02:
How to Cuckold Your Husband Ch. 02 - How To - Literotica.com

Good luck, Ms. S! Please keep us posted as to how you're doing.

—Custer

 

[littlehubby4]

Sounds like some good advice. He does know he is small. How small are you then?

At my best I was 4" erect with a girth (measuring around) of 3". The more you bring "to light" the issue of him being small and the effect of that "lack" that he has, the easier it will be to discuss. My wife really challenged me with regards to the "depth" of my love for her, particularly when it came to sex and her need for pleasure, this is the real context that lead to my understanding of her, for a husband it really is all about HER and not you, that's what a husband should be, all about HER.

 

[House Wife S]

Well we joke about his dick size sometimes, also about how large my labia and vagina are. Sometimes he asked about how big other men were when I am walking him off, it seems to thrill him when I tell him I have wanked off a few guys with really big ones. I have never humiliated him, I don;t want to hurt his feelings. Why do guys want to know how big other guys are and how much they spunk up? - why does it seem to turn him on. Also, why do my stained panties turn him on?

 

[Knk069]

Nice thread. Congratulations on having a husband who appears to be giving you silent consent to fool around. If he is checking your stained panties and not confronting you, he knows and accepts it. I know I would.

Why do us guys want to know about the size of our wives other lovers? It could be many reasons. First, we always want to know where we stand in the size department. If she has larger lovers, it could be about getting some pleasure in knowing that his wife chose to be with him instead of the bigger cock - "You might be bigger, but I got her and you didn't!" It could be perverse pleasure in the humiliation at being small (or at least smaller). It could be a desire by the man to have a challenge to overcome his size inadequacies by proving his prowess in other ways - seduction techniques, oral servitude, etc. Maybe it can feed his visual fantasies of watching you do your magic on a big one, or just help him fantasize he is that big. Or, maybe he just gets off on imagining the orgasms you get when you take a big cock. Personally, I don't want humiliation, but I like to know where I stand and it also drives me to perform better with my tongue (I am 6" and can satisfy her, but I know bigger would be better.) It's much the same with spunk. He probably visualizes large loads leaking out of your large vagina and has wanked to the image many times.

Why not ask him why he wants to know? Ask ihe wants to know what size you prefer. If he does, you can either tell him, or play it coy and avoid telling him. (This could be played out of a long period of time, driving him crazy with wonder.) You could even ask if he likes to imagine your hand around a very big one. He probably does and you could keep that line of discussion going for a long time, eventually probing whether he would like to see you doing it. You know your man and should know how to play his fantasies to turn him into a knowing cuckold. (Well, I think he is knowing, but has not acknowledged it yet.)

Why do stained panties turn him on? Really? A woman's sexual scent can be an immense aphrodisiac to a man. (of course, it can be a turnoff if you have an odor problem, but that does not seem to be the case or he wouldn't be wanking while examining them.) You say "stained" but not whether the stains are your natural secretions or the remnants of a man's load leaking out. I imagine he likes both. Your natural scent probably drives his arousal - hopefully he goes down on you frequently and loves your scent. (I love my wife's and admit to an occasional sniff of the panties) If you have been out of town for awhile he is probably very horny and enjoying the scent of your stains drives his arousal higher. Us men are arousal junkies.

Of course, he could be checking the stains to see if you have been fooling around. He may think that you are, or would be a good candidate for fooling around, due to his shortfalls. So, if they are stains from a man leaking out and he is wanking over them, he probably knows and enjoys it - a sign of a cuckold. Maybe you shouldn't clean up thoroughly the next time. Let him wank over a bigger spunk stain. If he confronts you about it (highly unlikely!), you can always tell him you had extra discharge from ovulating or slight yeast infection. You could also come clean about it if he has wood when he raises the issue.

Thanks for your thread. i will be following it and wishing you great success.

 

[okdeacon]

I am a real wife with a real family. My husband has never quite satisfied me; although I love him and we are a great couple. P's dick is only 4.5 inches (10.5 cm) when fully erect. I have had sex from time to time throughout our marriage and had plenty of partners before we married. I know he looks at porn as I look at his web history from time to time. I know he plays with my used underwear. I have left my phone charging in the bathroom with the video recording when I have come back from a business trip and have seen him sniff and play with himself over my used panties. I have had sex on business trips but always make sure my panties are not too messy. I have a large shaven vagina with large labia which make my panties messy. If I have had sex my vagina is loose and wet for many hours, even when I have washed out the sperm and clean myself up. If i have been with a guy who is very large, or rather long, the sperm can take half a day to all flow out.
I want P to encourage me to have sex with other men and be aroused about it, so we can all have fun. I hate secrets. Any suggestions?

House Wife. I for one just don't know how in the world any of you ladies can put up with a 4 in. dick. It for sure is not fair for you to be expected too. Your husband and millions of other men got FUCKED when they ended up with a clit for a cock. That's damn sure not fair to them either. But any man with a stub for a cock has got to know that fair or not he is not going to be able to satisfy his wife. Thus there is not one good reason for him not to understand that you need and deserve a real mans cock any time your want it. The big hump to get over is for him to trust you enough to tell you to get yourself pleased by bigger men. For I can see where he would be afraid you might leave him for another. He must realize that chances are greater that a woman may leave to get her needs taken care of if she is NOT getting a studs cock with his blessings. He has a better chance of keeping her if he gives her freedom to do just that. He has got to know this. As far as your used panties are concerned I have never met a man that did not like to smell his ladies panties under normal conditions. Yes most of us like them even better if they are filled with another mans cum. The reason is, that is the way God made us. Panties alone are the sexist piece of a woman's clothing ever discovered. If she has left her pussy scent in them then they are priceless. My advise is start a conversation about some men trying to seduce you and continue it often for awhile. Who knows it may get him hot, but one way or the other it will work on his mind. He will not stop thinking about it. He will either get pissed at them or start feeling sorry for your less than pleased position. Whatever he does will give you the clue as to where he stands. In the mean time get yourself a mans cock when you want one, for lady you deserve it. okdeacon

 

[House Wife S]

thanks for all the comments on pantie stains. I think I am going to try and tease a little desire out of him. I am going to try wanking him and try a little bit more on the size front and ask him what he thinks the biggest I have had or the fattest one. I have previously told him I have wanked 15-20 guys but the truth would be more like 50...

 

[okdeacon]

thanks for all the comments on pantie stains. I think I am going to try and tease a little desire out of him. I am going to try wanking him and try a little bit more on the size front and ask him what he thinks the biggest I have had or the fattest one. I have previously told him I have wanked 15-20 guys but the truth would be more like 50...

Wife did you just wank them? Did you not give any of them your pussy? You were not married then so if you did tell him the truth about getting laid. That cant do any harm and it might just shift his gears. After all that is what you want, right? It would be good for him to know the biggest that ever got into you. Plus that is hot and he wont be able to deny it either. If he gets pissed (which he wont) he has NO right to, as you were not his wife then. But it will give you a good look at where he stands. Deacon

 

[House Wife S]

Wife did you just wank them? Did you not give any of them your pussy? You were not married then so if you did tell him the truth about getting laid. That cant do any harm and it might just shift his gears. After all that is what you want, right? It would be good for him to know the biggest that ever got into you. Plus that is hot and he wont be able to deny it either. If he gets pissed (which he wont) he has NO right to, as you were not his wife then. But it will give you a good look at where he stands. Deacon

Yes of course some of the them went inside me. I never liked condoms so finished most guys off by hand. I think the biggest was around 9 inches, although a did not have a tape. I saw a shaving gel can which reminded me of it and looked the right length and l measure it, it was just over nine.

 

[House Wife S]

To my advisors above in the blog, I had a little progress last night. After a small session of licking and sucking both ways I started to finish him with a slow hand job. He is not easy to wank off because his shaft is so short if you use your whole hand, there is not enough length to draw his skin fully back, hence I have to use two fingers. I got hold of his waxed little balls and gave them some squeezing. He started off with his normal questions on how many guys I have played with etc.. I wanted to push him a little so I told him it was more than I had said before. I could see how excited he was getting with this new information. We then asked his next normal questions about size and I said there had been some real big ones. This is bolder than I normally say - normal say some were a little bigger. He muttered about the smallest and gave his balls a really tight squeeze as I said "well you are probably the smallest". He shut his eyes and seem to getting ready to cum, but it did not come out. He then asked if i had favourite ones and I said I liked the circumcised ones. He was getting on the edge. "shall i get my skin cut off" he asked me.. "I would love that... would you do that", "One of the men at work had it done last year, I remember him saying". Shall I ask him about it.... he was cumming. "oh yes ask him about his big circumcised cock"... Just as the first little squirt came out I said "ok honey I will". And I milk a lot more out of him last night.
Another step in the right direction. He know thinks he is the smallest I have had ANS he has given me permission to ask a work colleague about his cock [which I have already sucked anyway] I am pleased.

 

[okdeacon]

Yes of course some of the them went inside me. I never liked condoms so finished most guys off by hand. I think the biggest was around 9 inches, although a did not have a tape. I saw a shaving gel can which reminded me of it and looked the right length and l measure it, it was just over nine.

Wife You did good and yes condoms are a pain, of coarse if you cant trust them you must use them. It's best without them with someone you know to be clean. Have you decided how you are going to work on him to get him interested. Thanks for your reply. okdeacon

 

[Hotcouple2233]

You need to establish intimacy in your relationship. You should be able to share anything with your husband. He should be able to share anything with. Even if one knows how the other person will respond or say no.

Why not start by talking about your fantasies? Have him share with you his fantasies and you share with him yours. Encourage him to share his dirtiest fantasy & he will invariably ask you to share yours. Include him in your fantasy. Maybe a fantasy about the type of guy you would like to fuck and your husband is participating. It helps to keep the focus on you as a couple because then it feels less like he's being left out.

My Wife & I have a "rule" that nothing we say during pillow talk should be censored, taken literally, etc. No deals can be made that are binding in the bedroom, so to speak.

But ALL "lifestyle" talk about needs, play, rule changes, etc have to happen OUTSIDE the bedroom in the cold light of day.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hi Ms. S,

Re. your recent post:

To my advisors above in the blog, I had a little progress last night. ..........
Another step in the right direction. [My husband] now thinks he is the smallest I have had, AND he has given me permission to ask a work colleague about his cock [which I have already sucked anyway]. I am pleased.

I sounds like you are, in fact, moving your husband in the right direction. Keep up your good work....

—Custer

 

[Knk069]

You did a great job with your timing to get permission to talk to the colleague about his circumcision. That point of starting to cum is when a man is most susceptible to suggestions.

Now you have a wonderful opportunity to take it up a notch. You can tell your husband you are concerned about how his dick will look after being cut (what will the scar look like). Then ask if he would be upset if your colleague showed you how it turned out. (He doesn't know you already know). Maybe get a picture to show him with you holding it in your left hand and ring visible. Good luck.

 

[House Wife S]

You did a great job with your timing to get permission to talk to the colleague about his circumcision. That point of starting to cum is when a man is most susceptible to suggestions.

Now you have a wonderful opportunity to take it up a notch. You can tell your husband you are concerned about how his dick will look after being cut (what will the scar look like). Then ask if he would be upset if your colleague showed you how it turned out. (He doesn't know you already know). Maybe get a picture to show him with you holding it in your left hand and ring visible. Good luck.

Now that is an excellent suggest, I will ask if he would mind me looking at Carl's example, I will do that tonight

 

[ktpy]

I am a real wife with a real family. My husband has never quite satisfied me; although I love him and we are a great couple. P's dick is only 4.5 inches (10.5 cm) when fully erect. I have had sex from time to time throughout our marriage and had plenty of partners before we married. I know he looks at porn as I look at his web history from time to time. I know he plays with my used underwear. I have left my phone charging in the bathroom with the video recording when I have come back from a business trip and have seen him sniff and play with himself over my used panties. I have had sex on business trips but always make sure my panties are not too messy. I have a large shaven vagina with large labia which make my panties messy. If I have had sex my vagina is loose and wet for many hours, even when I have washed out the sperm and clean myself up. If i have been with a guy who is very large, or rather long, the sperm can take half a day to all flow out.
I want P to encourage me to have sex with other men and be aroused about it, so we can all have fun. I hate secrets. Any suggestions?

Hello, I am Sam and currently I am in a similar situation like you are. I was Never satisfied with hubby with a similar dick size to yours, and I am currently being serviced and Bred by my Bull. We have been doing it for past 9 years without his knowledge and just hope that hubby would one day realize that he is fit to be a Cuck.
What I am currently doing is to put effort, so as to indicate to him that he is being cucked by me and my bull. Like you said, about the messy panties, your hubby is aware that you are getting some action and it seems like he is accepted the fact that he will be never able to satisfy you. This could be a starting point for you to open up and discuss, about bringing another man into your life.
I am trying to deny him penetrative sex and whenever he insists, I would give remark to him that he cannot satisfy me and at times tell him that I don't feel anything inside me. My hubby is kind off ignoring these signals may be he is fighting off the thoughts of being a cuckold.
I am also trying to get him to lick my pussy after my bull has come inside me. Normally, anyone should realize that what he is licking off is another man's cum in his wife pussy, then again he seems to be ignorant of that fact, when he once asked about it, I said it was grool and he is seems to be like believed about it.

I would love if my hubby would be there as our cuck and watch me fuck my bull, may be participate by cleaning me and my bull. Also If I could tell him the fact that all our kids are bred by the bull and he would happily raise it as his own.
Hope I could bring some light into your situation, hope for the best, I am sure you hubby has good potential to be trained as a cuck. All the best.

Sam.

 

[House Wife S]

(to KTPY's comments - I am more sure why he plays with him self with my panties, I think it is more my smell, I am not sure he has woken up to the fact that there could be sperm in my panties sometime. I just don't know)

Anyway some progress. Firstly, as I expected he cycled back to wanting to know if he has the smallest one I have ever had. I could hear a tremble in his voice as we cuddled and fondled. I kept a form line and risked hurting him when I said "you are honestly the smallest guy I have ever been with". He was rock hard and squeeze his little dick as I told him. He loved it. That is banked now. He has the SMALLEST dick i have had - FACT. I when sucked him and started asking about whether he wanted a circumcision. I got some lub and started wanking him with his balls pulled down so it was like he was circumcised. He asked if i had spoken to Carl yet? I could see he wanted cum soon and was bucking around. I only work part time and I said I had asked him on the phone (lie) and then said that Carl had offered to show me how important the cut location is.... (I know Carl will show me his big one any time - again) "do you want me to see his circumcision honey" "I will do if you really want me to" he was about to explode "yes please, if you don't mind"..... then I finished him off with "ok I will have a look at what Carl's circumcised dick looks like"... then his first squirt came shooting out and I quickly said "I would like to see his dick". P pumped his little squirts out.

hee hee I have got permission to see Carl's dick now... that is progress

 

[Custer Laststand]

Anyway, some progress. Firstly, as I expected, [my cuckold husband] cycled back to wanting to know if he has the smallest one I have ever had. I could hear a tremble in his voice as we cuddled and fondled. I kept a firm line and risked hurting him when I said, "you are honestly the smallest guy I have ever been with." He was rock hard, and I squeezed his little dick as I told him. He loved it. That is banked now. He has the SMALLEST dick i have had - FACT.

Good work, Ms. S....

(I know Carl will show me his big one any time - again.) "Do you want me to see [Carl's] circumcision honey? I will do it if you really want me to." He was about to explode. "Yes please, if you don't mind....." then I finished him off with, "Ok — I will have a look at what Carl's circumcised dick looks like...." Then, his first squirt came shooting out, and I quickly said, "I would like to see his dick." P pumped his little squirts out. Hee hee.... I have permission to see Carl's dick now... that is progress.

Indeed that is progress, Ms. S.... it's perfect, in fact. Photographing Carl's erect cock with your smart phone, with your left hand wrapped around it prominently showing your wedding rings (as Knk069 suggested), will be a huge step forward. And, once you're holding and photographing Carl's cock, I assume you have no intention of stopping there — although it may not be time, quite yet, to tell your cuckold you took the obvious next step.