twerpedbyjulie said:
My wife says it's both nature and nurture. She never met my parents but from what I've told her, and input from relatives she has told me that my dad was absolutely cuckold material. My mom was dominant. She ran the household and my dad didn't make decisions. He was a pretty big guy and possessed a large cock as do both of my brothers but cock size has little to do with assertiveness. They had sex once every two weeks on Saturday night. We knew because dad was always so happy on the following Sunday morning.
My brothers have dominant personalities while I take after my dad. Both of my wives were like my mom. My first wife even resembled my mom in body type as well as personality. My second wife insists that my mom had sex outside the marriage but I just can't fathom her having cheated.
I am a cuckold and truly believe that I inherited my submissive nature in addition to growing up in a home with an assertive female role model.
Very interesting. And it’s truly helping me to share.
Unlike your mom, mine (she’s in her late 70s now) never appeared to be dominant, nor was she submissive. But she was certainly the tigress when it came to sex and she needed sex often. That was no secret at home, though nobody discussed it. It could not be hidden because she was very loud and vocal in bed. Otherwise, she was just a normal homemaker who, yes, did wear a lot of revealing clothes even at home (she had a fabulous body) which as a child I found unusual because my friends’ moms never wore those sort of clothes at home.
My father (he passed on 16 years ago) did care a lot about mom though, again, he showed no signs of being submissive except in bed with her. He was average sized all over (though I have a reasonably big cock which, I agree, has nothing to do with assertiveness).
So the “assertive female role model” for me was mom, but only when she was having sex. I admit, unashamedly, that I spied on her while she was having sex with my father and, later, with him and two of her lovers on several occasions. I couldn’t help it because her screams and moans and dirty talk would draw me to wherever it was happening at home. She was wild in bed and very assertive with all – my dad as well as her lovers.
Quite a few things which I like, she would command from my dad during sex. One example. In a threesome with dad, after a while she would send him out of the house on some short errand or fix a snack and tea for all of them so that she could be alone with her lover for that while.
After dad died, I encouraged her to find a partner because I knew how much she needed sex. She finally did after almost two years. He was/is six years younger than her and he moved in with her (I had married and moved out much earlier). With him too I suspect she resumed her old sex lifestyle. I found enough reason to suspect that during my infrequent visits to her place.
There’s one question I want to ask you. If ever your mom did have sex outside her marriage, would that have been ‘cheating’? No ‘understanding’ between her and your dad?
