Steve,
Like I said, Jell-O nailed to the wall. Yet again you dodged the question, this time by using Enigma who only said you clearly preferred at the moment to use condoms. You yourself then said that Sue prefers you to use condoms but only because she thinks that you prefer them. Its exactly the same argument and I wouldn't deny either point. Both are clearly true.
However my question was, would Sue prefer sex with you, for her own pleasure alone, with or without condoms and my understanding from your posts is that she gets more pleasure herself without them. It is therefore your preference not hers that means they are always used at present hence my assertion that ultimately you are being selfish with her by denying her that ultimate pleasure even if you don't share it. The fact that it may be convenient for her to separate you and Paul and help keep him fresh and 'special' does not eliminate this truth.
I suspect at some point soon Sue will simply take what she needs without consulting you. I suspect when she does you won't object. This will serve two purposes in her mind. One, she will finally experience what SHE wants from you from time to time and two, she will remind you what you are missing. I further suspect that the outcome of such an encounter (which may start on some special date between you) will be a new regime where you agree to forego condoms on a few special occasions each year. We'll see I suppose.
Like I said, Jell-O nailed to the wall. Yet again you dodged the question, this time by using Enigma who only said you clearly preferred at the moment to use condoms. You yourself then said that Sue prefers you to use condoms but only because she thinks that you prefer them. Its exactly the same argument and I wouldn't deny either point. Both are clearly true.
However my question was, would Sue prefer sex with you, for her own pleasure alone, with or without condoms and my understanding from your posts is that she gets more pleasure herself without them. It is therefore your preference not hers that means they are always used at present hence my assertion that ultimately you are being selfish with her by denying her that ultimate pleasure even if you don't share it. The fact that it may be convenient for her to separate you and Paul and help keep him fresh and 'special' does not eliminate this truth.
I suspect at some point soon Sue will simply take what she needs without consulting you. I suspect when she does you won't object. This will serve two purposes in her mind. One, she will finally experience what SHE wants from you from time to time and two, she will remind you what you are missing. I further suspect that the outcome of such an encounter (which may start on some special date between you) will be a new regime where you agree to forego condoms on a few special occasions each year. We'll see I suppose.