not sure if I am posting this in the right place but what the hell got to try huh. I Honestly need someone to talk to and help read the signals from my wife. She is shy and and that doesn’t seem to help me either. The biggest thing is I have read the “how to convince your wife crap” that’s not what I want or how it will work with my wife. She must make the call and desire things in order for her not to shutdown. Let’s just say when she shuts it’s not a good time for anyone. I can’t promise anything quick but I would love to find someone to talk to that can help in this time of our life.