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Rude And Crude

Discussion in 'Ask SandyWho!' started by 32Beth4MatureBBC, Apr 20, 2017.

  1. 32Beth4MatureBBC

    32Beth4MatureBBC New around here... Beloved Member :)

    resently I met a man, he was black, tall and burly. While we talked he was rather crude and vulgar, yet I found myself turned on by him. Against my better judgement I went to bed with him. During the sex he constantly asked me if I loved his big nigga dick, made me beg for it and admit I was a "nigga lover". On the way home I felt cheap degraded and humiliated, yet I had to admit he made me cum many times. I vowed I would not see him again, yet three days later I found myself calling him and since then we have had sex many times. I hate the way he makes me feel but I can't stop the sex is so good. My question is have I turned into a masocist, why have I let myself be degraded so willingly for sex. The truth is I want to stop but I can't, what is your advice? Thank you.
  2. milfchaser

    milfchaser Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    Unfortunately (?) a lot of women like that kind of thing. They don't mind being degraded verbally when the sex is good. If it were any other guy, and/or the sex were mediocre, they would hate the degradation. When sex is good, a woman (or a man, for that matter) will put up with a lot of negatives.

    Ultimately you have to realise or decide that you can indeed determine whether you want to be degraded verbally or not. Good sex does not have to be accompanied by shit talk. If you want the 'degradation' and humiliation you mentioned here to stop, just say no. Make it stop. It's your body, and your pussy, and you have the power to set the rules.

    There are plenty of men who will fuck you good without that sort of attitude, if you don't like that attitude. It's really up to you.

    Just my two cents, for whatever that is worth.
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  3. fredfred2

    fredfred2 New around here... Beloved Member :)

    You must like it as it make you wet. As long as it stays verbil and he does not start to harm you enjoy it. It is quite normal many woman enjoy time with such men much to their surprise. My late wife been one, was mounted unexpectedly by our best fiend of 10 year and much to her surprise though not fancying him enjoyed the rough way he took her and treated her. Some woman need a dominant man to be able to let go completely and let their bodes take over. He continued to use her in that manner for a full two year at weekends and never once in that time no matter how hard he had used her did she ask me to stop him
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  4. Khristy Creams

    Khristy Creams BBC Only Hotwife Cuckoldress and Sexual Goddess Staff Member Super Mod! VERIFIED!

    Beth... I agree with milfchaser. It sounds like it's just you and this tall burly black man and no one else is even aware of your hooking up. I would say you have a suppressed feeling for being treated... let me call it, sexually unconventional... yet you aren't quite able to clearly define what that actually means to you... you want "it" yet "it" is unknown, but the sexual desire, wanting, excitement and fulfillment buttons have been activated within you and you have no idea how to handle this... you're simply conflicted at the same time you're aroused. So, as milfchaser has pointed out to you... it's up to you on how you want to proceed.

    As a woman, I've seen this from other women a lot and it's not anything unusual by any means. Many woman have a sense of they want to try something edgy... and I'm not talking about anything dangerous now... simply things that are more exciting and "different" sexually from what they have been experiencing... so you're not alone in this situation or your thoughts about it. Remember... keep a positive attitude... especially as you evaluate this situation. You may find you like this from a sexual perspective and you want to continue or explore more in this way... or you want to stop or adjust the dynamic between you and Mr. tall burly black man... but whatever course you decide upon... always stay positive. Your body, your choice, your rules... because it's YOUR pleasure!! I know you'll do the right thing for yourself! big *HUG* :)

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  5. lvillemwf

    lvillemwf New around here... Beloved Member :)

    My first black guy treated me like crap (after I gave in, before the sex he was great, lol), and yet I kept spreading my legs for him. Could not even understand why I was doing it but could not seem to help myself. What you are feeling, experiencing is sadly not atypical.
  6. fredfred2

    fredfred2 New around here... Beloved Member :)

    That i can fully under stand. From all my reading on the net it seems quite common for the women who go black. All that tabbo and the newness of not been in control in this day and age must be a heady mixs.
  7. gatorrdw

    gatorrdw Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    My wife wasn't into rude or crude treatment, over the years I observed a few men being left flat because they were like that with her. As far as she was concerned she had some quality married, white pussy available and it could be willingly given if a man approached her properly. There were only a few over almost 35 years that were shut out, but it was the way she wanted to be treated. GTR
  8. CuckyBitch

    CuckyBitch New around here... Beloved Member :)

    Sweetie.. he sounds perfect. You need to give up your pussy to him whenever he wants it! You feel cheap and degraded? Well, you are baby. And that is OK. You will continue to cum many times with him. Its your nature! Don't fight it, embrace it and be thankful you have a "Nigga" dto fuck you. Don't stop.. give in.
  9. motorcitypaul

    motorcitypaul Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    s you have. If you reallt really wanna stop. Stop calling him, go meet others, O R, you take charge,make your bull do what you want. Only thing,it could possibly turn into rape if he won't accept taking orders fm you. Maybe you might wanna go home after a hand job and nothing more. He'll get tired.