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Should I Let My Wife Go With Her Boy Freind On A Vacation

Discussion in 'Cuckold Talk' started by deckron, Oct 19, 2016.

should she go

  1. yes

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  2. no

    17 vote(s)
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  1. cpl4play55

    cpl4play55 New around here... Beloved Member :)

    True cuckoldry is making it about her. My wife does as she pleases and we both enjoy that.
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  2. Custer Laststand

    Custer Laststand SLUTWIVES VIP! Beloved Member :)

    Ah ha — so you have personal insight, beyond your own former marriage, into the universe of married women who cuckold their husbands by fucking other men. That's very positive. They would be potential readers, almost certainly, of a book based on your late wife's diaries (and photos.... a picture being worth 1,000 words, as they say).

    Additional potential readers would be all the married women who secretly want to be sexually liberated, but aren't bold enough to step up, step out and fuck other men — many feeling (perhaps realistically) that their husbands might respond by treating them abusively.

    Additional potential readers would be all the men.... some of whom write to this forum.... who secretly want their wives to take lovers, but are afraid to bring it up because they're afraid their wives will consider them "weird" and think less of them.
  3. okdeacon

    okdeacon Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    Sir there is no question that you late wife was a great lady and a true treasure for you to remember with love and devotion. What greater thing any woman could do for her husband while alive, then be thoughtful enough too leave you all these wonderful memories in her own hand, does not exist Not only did she love you in life, she is showing you love from eternity. A greater thing I have NEVER, read about. Thoughts and Prayers... okdeacon
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  4. gatorrdw

    gatorrdw Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    okdeacon, thank you for those kind words about my 1st wife. I don't want to belabor this- I knew that I was a very lucky man early in our marriage with her very wide streak of playfulness and we both enjoyed a wonderful life of "who knows what the next moment holds". Her journal has been quite a catharsis for me, and I have come to actually enjoy reading the journal and then posting what I hope that others find helpful/interesting from our life together. Thanks again. GTR
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  5. tashacan

    tashacan New around here... Beloved Member :)

    this can be fun but it can also lead to disruption, if one of the participants has fears or insecurities then they must be addressed before any further play, to not address these concerns could be disastrous.
  6. iLuvDeb

    iLuvDeb New around here... Beloved Member :)

    I agree. In a true cuckold relationship the husband must defer to his wife's needs and desires. Otherwise, you're just swingers.:)My wife, Deborah dated her former boss for over two years. His wife only traveled with him on vacation; never on business. Deborah went with him on almost every business trip. They shared a room and registered at hotels as husband and wife. Deb was his personal assistant as well as his lover. She bought his clothes, picked his kids up from school. and even shopped for gifts for his wife!
    Deborah loved their "working vacations" together. The two of them went to much more exotic places than the two of us could afford. They stayed in luxury hotels and ate at five star restaurants. While he went to meetings during the day, Deb lounged by the pool and sent me texts. He paid for everything. She bought herself new dresses, swimsuits and lingerie for every trip. At night they would go dancing, order champagne, and return to their room where Deb did everything for him that his wife wouldn't.;)It was "VERY romantic" for Deborah and very erotic for me. Deb would return home tanned, rested and horny as Hell!
  7. SquirmingSub

    SquirmingSub Not quite a lurker Beloved Member :)

    You (iLuvDeb) and (cpl4play55), are both on point. So many men truly do not understand that the lifestyle is about her; the wife, or the significant woman within the relationship with him. The wife should be able to do as she pleases and both should be able to enjoy that in which she does. The husband should and must defer to his wife's needs and desires otherwise it is truly just a swinger type arrangement.[​IMG]

    (iLuvDeb) it was good to read your post. So many husbands are frightened about a wife developing a connection with a sexual partner, lover, boyfriend, etc which does seem to show a level of insecurity in my view point. I have experienced being the husband in variations of the lifestyle and I personally have found that when the wife does find that guy that she can truly connect with physically, intellectually and to some degree emotionally that she tends to have a lot of enjoyment during the experience.

    It does sound like you and your wife had a really good arrangement with her former boss.