Sis-in-law’s Comments

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

This past weekend, I heard my sister-in-law (wife’s sister) and her husband make some kind of indirect “Big Black” joke to themselves. It came out of her mouth, not his. This is about the fourth or fifth time I’ve heard them do that in the past few years. I’m starting to think they are either into the lifestyle, or at least fantasize openly with each other about it.

A little background: this is my wife’s sister, she and her husband are both 34, both white. They have two young kids and for the most part are the most vanilla people I know. Husband is kind of a boring guy, nerdy type, and from what I’ve heard rumors of alittle on the neglectful side in the bedroom. He works a lot and she’s a stay at home mom. Her being my wife’s sister I’ve always fantasized about having sex with her ever since I’ve met her. Being that IR is my top fantasy, I’ve also fantasized heavily about her going Black. Her being a sexy neglected white housewife with a boring white husband just adds fuel to the fire of me wanting to see her seduced by a strong Black Bull...

Anyway, the comments I’ve heard them make are indirect, I’ve never heard either of them actually directly come out and talk about Black cock before, but the innuendos are clear to me. Their comments seem to mostly go over everyone else’s head, including my wife.. BUT, me having my eyes and ears open to the BBC world catch on to it.. They are clearly talking about and referring to something that’s “Big and Black” and getting a rise out of it.. what else could it possibly be?? After each comment they’ve made they proceed giggle to themselves and look at each other, EVERY TIME, as if there’s some kind of inside joke going on..

My own wife has no idea I like this fantasy so I can’t ask her. I also can’t risk openly asking them about it, I just can’t cross that family line if I end up being wrong..

So my question to the group then is what’s the best way I can: 1) Confirm that they are secretly referring to BBC, and 2) Help promote their fantasy further?

Questions? Ask away...

 

[SlutwivesRock]

Have you ever discussed BBC with your wife in any context yet?

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

I have not. Still working on the courage and the game plan on her, but this sis thing has unexpectedly produced a whole new twist..

 

[SlutwivesRock]

What if you showed her cuckolding porn for "entertainment" purposes?

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

Yes, I will work on her separately. Any advice on what I can do with her sister?

 

[SlutwivesRock]

One thing at a time.

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

Getting her sister into it, or finding out if she already is into it might even be a back door way to getting my wife into it.. especially if she’s already open to it. They talk a lot and are competitive with each other. If her sis in is, there’s even more a chance my wife would get into it later..

 

[vahtcpl]

Talk to your brother-in-law and be prepared to let him know you have similar interests.

 

[SlutwivesRock]

Talk to your brother-in-law and be prepared to let him know you have similar interests.

But gently, just in case he's actually not into it. Or not ready to admit that he is.

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

I thought about asking him, but I actually think I’d have better luck with her. Whenever they’ve made comments, they’ve almost all been made out of her mouth. It’s because of that I think I need to joke about it myself in front of them, use the angle they use, and approach it lightly. I think if I approached him and asked him in a serious manner, and I was wrong, it would be a huge mistake and he’d never look at me the same. He’s also a quiet guy that keeps a lot inside so even if he was on the same page he might choose not to tell me. But, she is more open and if I went for her and made a joke or something to her while we were alone let’s say, I can imagine her potentially laughing or going along with joking about it. That might be the icebreaker I need. (Then I need to figure out what to say if she actually takes the bait, Lol.) Even if I don’t get a full confession right away if I keep dropping hints every time I see her she’ll get the point that I know. I feel like I need to test the waters and approach it that way. She’s the girl that’s kind of the shy submissive housewife type, but then from time to time all the sudden she’ll surprise everyone in the room by saying the dirtiest things, especially true when she has some wine. I’m wondering how she would react if I got a minute alone with her and I said something like “Wow, look at that XXXX over there.. it’s so Big and Black...”

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

I also think if I start joking with them both separately, and start doing it often, they might talk behind the scenes and maybe eventually approach ME about it instead of the reverse..

 

[SlutwivesRock]

That could work.

 

[vahtcpl]

That could work.

Agreed!

 

[MysteryBi]

I see no reason why you can't talk about it openly. Its what you want. And it sounds like your SIL likes it too.

 

[SlutwivesRock]

I see no reason why you can't talk about it openly. Its what you want. And it sounds like your SIL likes it too.

Presume nothing at this point.

 

[Custer Laststand]

..... This past weekend, I heard my sister-in-law (wife’s sister) and her husband make some kind of indirect “Big Black” joke to themselves. It came out of her mouth, not his. This is about the fourth or fifth time I’ve heard them do that in the past few years. I’m starting to think they are either into the lifestyle, or at least fantasize openly with each other about it. ...... So my question to the group, then, is: what’s the best way I can: 1) Confirm that they are secretly referring to BBC, and 2) Help promote their fantasy further?

I suggest next time you're with your sister-in-law, possibly in your wife's presence (but not in the presence of your brother-in-law), ask her in a normal sort of way, like you're asking her how she likes the weather today: "How are you doing with your BBC fantasy? Any progress toward reality...?"

Then, if she looks confused, like she doesn't know what you're talking about, and asks, "What's BBC...?" You can say, "big black.... um.... you know...." and don't say anything further. If she says, "I don't know what you're talking about," you can say something like, "OK.... never mind....", and don't pursue it any further.

Or, if a look of recognition comes over her face and she starts talking, say whatever you need to say to keep her talking. You may then get the answers you're looking for.

 

[becontree2001uk]

Any updates?

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

not yet, haven't had the chance. Going to have some opportunity this upcoming weekend..

 

[kinkiboyee]

Any update

 

[JerkingCuckWannaBe]

Yes, here’s an update: we’ve actually been very busy these past couple of months and I’ve struggled to find a good opportunity to make a move. We haven’t been seeing our in laws a lot either and when we do the time just never arose.

Yesterday however, I did get a chance to make a comment, but it was brief. I had to drop something off at their house in the morning so I took the opportunity to grab donuts and coffee and bring them over for her and her kids. Her husband was working already. I purposely picked out all the assorted donuts myself and included one of those irregular shaped enlongated chocolate ones. When I got to got to their house the kids were all excited and when I opened the box they were in heaven. I had to hold them back from digging in, and I told them I was passing them out. I said “here’s a sprinkle one for you, and a jelly filled for you.. and a special Big.. Black.. Thick.. chocolate one for your mommy!” I looked her in the eyes when I said it, and I said it slowly.. the reference obviously going over the kids heads. I saw the reaction in her face, her lips parted ever so slightly and she let out a nervous laugh.. Then she blushed, she definitely blushed. I left it at that, not wanting to push the issue in front of her family, but I could tell she was somewhat in shock at the comment. I’m going to continue my pursuit..