Wimp hubby here looking to chat with bulls in their mid-40s to late-50s, located anywhere in Southern Illinois on the I-57 corridor, from Mt. Vernon to Cairo. My wife has admitted to fantasizing about sex with other men, and has also told me she wishes I were bigger and longer-lasting in bed. She talks about the fantasy often during sex, but says she wouldn't do it for real. I'd like to find a way to get her to change her mind. I get so horny knowing I'm not enough to satisfy her.