Hubby and I disagree on this one, so what do you think.
BACKGROUND:
I've been in the lifestyle for a few years, exclusively black except for hubby, going wild for the variety when I started and tapering off until lately it has been two or three times a year, usually one guy who eventually gets tired of waiting until our schedule opens and moves on.
This year that's changed, with a former regular coming available and I'm tired of sifting through the flakes to find real people, so I've decided to only see him (other than hubby). He's available and we plan to meet every 4-6 weeks. We no longer use condoms, as I trust him.
Hubby says he is my black boyfriend, I say he is my black lover. Previously I called him a fuck-buddy or regular. Hubby says because I am exclusive to him and on a regular basis that is the criteria. I say that a boyfriend implies emotional attachment, and there's none of that, which is why I prefer calling him a lover, because that is what it is to me.
Not a big thing either way but he suggested I put it on here to see what others thought.
BACKGROUND:
I've been in the lifestyle for a few years, exclusively black except for hubby, going wild for the variety when I started and tapering off until lately it has been two or three times a year, usually one guy who eventually gets tired of waiting until our schedule opens and moves on.
This year that's changed, with a former regular coming available and I'm tired of sifting through the flakes to find real people, so I've decided to only see him (other than hubby). He's available and we plan to meet every 4-6 weeks. We no longer use condoms, as I trust him.
Hubby says he is my black boyfriend, I say he is my black lover. Previously I called him a fuck-buddy or regular. Hubby says because I am exclusive to him and on a regular basis that is the criteria. I say that a boyfriend implies emotional attachment, and there's none of that, which is why I prefer calling him a lover, because that is what it is to me.
Not a big thing either way but he suggested I put it on here to see what others thought.