In reading the some of the messages and ads posted on this, and other sites like it, I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of gameplayers/fakes posting messages.
I read a lot of messages from ladies/couples who are looking for black men, but never give any details, especially their location. Some give details but no location. I just finished reading a full paragraph message from someone "looking", with all kinds of info, which included and email address to contact, but no location.
Now as I see it, if I were to post a message looking for a real time meet, I would leave as much info as possible, especially location, because I'd know that if I didn't, I would likely receive a lot of responses asking questions about the info I omitted. If I were located in let's say Delaware, I would not want to receive a lot of responses from those on the other side of the country, who the chances of my meeting are slim and none.
So I have a hard time taking a lot of these messages seriously. I have no patience for those who are "looking", but who's ad doesn't ring true. In many sites, men are the only one's who pay for full access to a site. Women join for free, and as long as that is the case, you will continue to see messages/ads placed that are a waste of time.
I read a lot of messages from ladies/couples who are looking for black men, but never give any details, especially their location. Some give details but no location. I just finished reading a full paragraph message from someone "looking", with all kinds of info, which included and email address to contact, but no location.
Now as I see it, if I were to post a message looking for a real time meet, I would leave as much info as possible, especially location, because I'd know that if I didn't, I would likely receive a lot of responses asking questions about the info I omitted. If I were located in let's say Delaware, I would not want to receive a lot of responses from those on the other side of the country, who the chances of my meeting are slim and none.
So I have a hard time taking a lot of these messages seriously. I have no patience for those who are "looking", but who's ad doesn't ring true. In many sites, men are the only one's who pay for full access to a site. Women join for free, and as long as that is the case, you will continue to see messages/ads placed that are a waste of time.