Do guys still try to hit on women when out in public anymore?

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Or am I just getting too old? LOL. Even when i am very obviously bra-less & Cold AF I get looks but no one wants to flirt.

Little do they know that I have a chuck @ home that would Love for me to bring home something(one) extra from the grocery store.
 
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My wife,Chris, gets hit on all the time at casinos. Sometimes the pickup lines are very shuttle. Chris is 60 so I am sure the hits will come if you just smile .
 
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Mike and Chris said:
My wife,Chris, gets hit on all the time at casinos. Sometimes the pickup lines are very shuttle. Chris is 60 so I am sure the hits will come if you just smile .
LOL. I smile & say Hi... I am beginning to think guys are either scared (me too crap) or just not as confident as they used to be.
 
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got hit in Rome, Italy by a refugee from Somalia. we ended up in a hotel room. He was 18
 
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vrybdkty said:
LOL. I smile & say Hi... I am beginning to think guys are either scared (me too crap) or just not as confident as they used to be.

It's the whole #metoo thing... unfortunately.
 
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Ragtop70 said:
It's the whole #metoo thing... unfortunately.
don't think so.
 
vrybdkty said:
Or am I just getting too old? Even when I am very obviously bra-less & Cold AF I get looks but no one wants to flirt. Little do they know that I have a chuck [cuck?] at home who would love for me to bring home something (i.e., someone) extra from the grocery store.
You might wear an ankle chain on your right ankle, signifying to men in the know that although married, you're available for dating — in combination with short-shorts or tight capri pants that draw men's attention to your legs. (BTW, what does "Cold AF" mean?)

If you aren't doing this already, I also suggest always wearing your wedding ring when you're out and about, because — in combination with your right ankle chain — it signifies to any man who might take an interest that he would not have to worry about an expectation from you of commitment (because you're already committed).

You might also consider seeking men in places where flirting and picking up a man is considered more acceptable. (I.e., grocery stores might not be the best places for that.) If you live in or near a relatively large city where there's at least one hotel where conferences are sometimes held, the hotel bar would be a place were attendees would go in the evenings to unwind and B.S. with each other — and a man you flirt with there, perhaps while sipping a drink he has bought you, would conveniently have a room in the same hotel (or one nearby).
 
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Custer Laststand said:
You might wear an ankle chain on your right ankle, signifying to men in the know that although married, you're available for dating — in combination with short-shorts or tight capri pants that draw men's attention to your legs.

If you aren't doing this already, I also suggest always wearing your wedding ring when you're out and about, because it signifies to any man who might take an interest that he would not have to worry about an expectation from you of commitment (because you're already committed).

You might also consider seeking men in places where flirting and picking up a man is considered more acceptable. (I.e., grocery stores might not be the best places for that.) If you live in or near a relatively large city where there's at least one hotel where conferences are sometimes held, the hotel bar would be a place were attendees would go in the evenings to unwind and B.S. with each other — and they would conveniently have a room in the same hotel (or a hotel nearby).
you can pick up a girl or guy here
 
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antonyd said:
You can pick up a girl or guy here.
Yes, in principle. But, Ms. Vrybdkty said nothing about her location — other than stating, in her profile, she's from Texas. That's more than a slightly large region.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
Yes, in principle. But, Ms. Vrybdkty said nothing about her location — other than stating, in her profile, she's from Texas. That's more than a slightly large region.
nothing like a vacation fuck.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
You might wear an ankle chain on your right ankle, signifying to men in the know that although married, you're available for dating — in combination with short-shorts or tight capri pants that draw men's attention to your legs. (BTW, what does "Cold AF" mean?)

If you aren't doing this already, I also suggest always wearing your wedding ring when you're out and about, because — in combination with your right ankle chain — it signifies to any man who might take an interest that he would not have to worry about an expectation from you of commitment (because you're already committed).

You might also consider seeking men in places where flirting and picking up a man is considered more acceptable. (I.e., grocery stores might not be the best places for that.) If you live in or near a relatively large city where there's at least one hotel where conferences are sometimes held, the hotel bar would be a place were attendees would go in the evenings to unwind and B.S. with each other — and a man you flirt with there, perhaps while sipping a drink he has bought you, would conveniently have a room in the same hotel (or one nearby).
Ankle chain.... I didn't know this. Hmmm...
Cold As Fuck.. Meaning my nipples are very hard.
I need to try out the hotel thing. Thought about it but wasn't sure if it would work.
 
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vrybdkty said:
..... Cold As Fuck.. Meaning my nipples are very hard.
Thanks for your "Cold AF" explanation, Ms. Vrybdkty.
vrybdkty said:
I need to try out the hotel thing. Thought about it but wasn't sure if it would work.
Maybe trying it with a right ankle chain would increase your chances. I hope your quest works out well for you.
 
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in the right context....like a club/bar, when youre with other women.
 
Depends on location and context. In too many instances it can unfortunately be taken the wrong way.
 
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vrybdkty said:
Ankle chain.... I didn't know this. Hmmm...
Cold As Fuck.. Meaning my nipples are very hard.
I need to try out the hotel thing. Thought about it but wasn't sure if it would work.
Have you had any luck being picked up by men in hotels? My wife has been fucked by a few men in hotels that were in town for conventions.
 
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Custer Laststand said:
Thanks for your "Cold AF" explanation, Ms. Vrybdkty.

Maybe trying it with a right ankle chain would increase your chances. I hope your quest works out well for you.
I wonder about how many men know about the right ankle chain.
 
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vrybdkty said:
Or am I just getting too old? LOL. Even when i am very obviously bra-less & Cold AF I get looks but no one wants to flirt.

Little do they know that I have a chuck @ home that would Love for me to bring home something(one) extra from the grocery store.
I think many men look because they love your big beautiful TiTs and hard nipples but they don't flirt because they fear a negative response from you. I hope you smile at them when you see them staring at your big beautiful TiTs and hard nipples.
 
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Mike and Chris said:
My wife,Chris, gets hit on all the time at casinos. Sometimes the pickup lines are very shuttle. Chris is 60 so I am sure the hits will come if you just smile .
I think the woman smiling back at the man staring at he is important because it shows she is receptive and will probably be nice even if she doesn't want him to fuck her.
 
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antonyd said:
got hit in Rome, Italy by a refugee from Somalia. we ended up in a hotel room. He was 18
I am happy that you were able to enjoy being fucked by an 18 year old black man in your hotel room in Rome. Did your lucky white husband enjoy watching the black man fuck you?
Your husband is a lucky man to be married to such a beautiful and exciting Lady and a slut for black cocks.
We have been to Rome twice and I was hoping that someone would hit on my wife and then fuck her in our hotel room. Sadly it did not happen.
 
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