How To Became A Cuckold From An Ordinary Relationship,knowing She Wants It

[pearnoise]

Hello everyone, I have a question.
Last summer I met a girl through internet,who was interested in cuckold/hotwife relationship.
She was into it for long time with former boyfriend, who used to find her lovers, and watch them have her, while in chastity device himself.
So, she asked me am I submissive and bi, and will I wear a chastity device only she would have the key of.
Although I had some experience with a bi couple, I am mostly a straight guy who just wants to spend few hot nights in a mountain resort having a lot of sex with a pretty girl.
Nevertheless, I wanted her, so I did not respond negatively, we met and had wonderful one on one sex.Very classical, anal etc.
That repeated several times,and we spent a holiday together.She appeared to be a wonderful person and very close to me in real life, I could think of spending with more then just occasional sex dates. However, I noticed that she is getting bored.
I see that she needs more, and I would love to provide for her,whatever she wants.
What to do?
How to proceed?
She would probably sleep with anyone..yes, in one moment all that - other men, cuckold, bi, chastity device, is maybe too much for me.
I decided to try to meet a cuckold/hotwife couple as a bull, and see how this role exactly look like.And then reverse roles.
Any advice?Thank you so much!

 

[zippless]

She would probably sleep with anyone..yes, in one moment all that - other men, cuckold, bi, chastity device, is maybe too much for me.

Sounds like you know who you are sexually.

I decided to try to meet a cuckold/hotwife couple as a bull, and see how this role exactly look like.

How do you think she would react to you fucking another woman? I suspect not well because cuckoldry by definition means that the male stays loyal to her. You have to ask her how she would feel because if you go ahead with it and keep it from her it will be a relationship based on a lie. That will taint your relationship for sure.

And then reverse roles.

Is this really you? People are who they are sexually. A straight guy cant turn himself into a bisexual. Be who you are. Don't try to change for someone else. You will loose her eventually. How serious are you about her? How critical is the lifestyle to her? Is it a deal breaker? If it is then I suggest you move on because it sounds like the lifestyle is not for you.
Good luck.

 

[Custer Laststand]

I decided to try to meet a cuckold/hotwife couple as a bull, and see what this role looks like.And then, reverse roles. Any advice? Thank you so much!

Sounds like you have a plan. I suggest carrying it out, and seeing how it goes.

 

[pearnoise]

Thank you so much for your comments and criticism.
As you noticed, I am somewhat taken aback by this experience, and not sure how to handle it.
I never thought I could be involved emotionally with this woman. That is the reason why I simply ignored our first conversations, when she was saying openly what she needs.
Yes, it is possible that I should simply let her go.
I was surprised that she was interested in me for three months after the summer, writing every day(well,like" good morning,how are you,having a nice day",or share some information of her everyday life).
Now I understand that man can be a cuckold only if he truly loves his woman, and really wants to do everything for her pleasure.
So it was useless that sue asked me in the summer,a totally foreign person, would I do it.Of course not, not on such early stage of introduction.
Well,it was all written down in her add,I should admit.
She had a boyfriend in the lifestyle for long time,but he disappeared (I also separated from my wife, actually, she dumped me)
So instead or kinky sex,we were mostly comforting each other (later,he reappeared, with 10y old younger girl,4th month of pregnancy with his child).
I will try to talk openly with her about everything. She deserves it,as a remarkable person and beautiful woman.
Thank you!

 

[pearnoise]

Considering myself, I really can't say,I never thought about it before.
I am mostly the kind of guy who would take a pretty girl to ski resort, and have a lot of very heterosexual sexual intercourse with her for hours. And punch anyone who comes near to her.
But,I do have some threesome experience,with a girl and a guy, not bisexual, but,you know, it is impossible not to touch the other guy, which was ok

 

[pearnoise]

It is not that I think it is simple to reverse rolls, but how can I try it for the first time with person I am emotionally involved? I have no idea how to behave and what exactly should a cuckold do to dominant man (appart from movies) i mean,not what,but HOW.
So I got this idea...to practice

 

[Nazareth]

If I assume there weren't any cuckold aspects to your marriage, it "sounds" like since your breakup with your wife, you are exploring some new-found sexual freedom. Maybe looking for something you weren't getting in your marriage, perhaps?
I see nothing wrong with that; on the contrary it's a good idea. You will indeed be a lucky man to find a girl with the same sexual compatibility as yourself.
Based on your comments, I would speculate you may not necessarily have a problem with sharing your wife/gf in a 3-way situation, but the 'denial/humiliation' aspects of cuckolding don't really appeal to you. Nothing wrong with that, either.
Taking a "bull" role is something you should try, in my opinion. It may be more appealing to your nature from that side of the fence, so to speak. There is MUCH to enjoy when you find couples that want you to dominate their wives sexually!

 

[pearnoise]

Dear Nazareth (wonderful Arab town in Northern Israel I visited) thank you for interesting comment.
It is razor sharp in its precise depiction of my state of mind.
Indeed we had a verh classical marriage and were not open to any more kinky stuff, although after 5y sex life was in disarray.
Yes I would accept mfm and have greater issue about being just a spectator.
However here I was motivated by new-found love for s remarkable woman who told me she needs it before our first date.

 

[Saraha]

A cuckold needs to obey all the wishes of the cuckoldress, even if that involves submission (in all it's forms) to the bulls that visit the home.

 

[heiko]

A cuckold needs to obey all the wishes of the cuckoldress, even if that involves submission (in all it's forms) to the bulls that visit the home.

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