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Recent content by sptbj2

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    New boyfriend?

    Please, I always love a little discipline. I'll tell my wife that peak said I need a good thrashing to stay focused. I think she'll both agree and oblige. :)
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    New boyfriend?

    As always, thanks for sharing Steve. Like Harry, your threads are the main reason I come back here to read. I love the dance of dominance and submission that you and Sue are embracing. In some manner, Sue is conditioning you, and I hate to use the word conditioning because it sounds...
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    Yes, let the fun begin! Thanks for the detailed post Steve. I loved every word of it!
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    These new developments with Paul are very exciting and promising! Before Steve starts a new thread, I feel obligated to weigh in on the veracity of his story. My life and family share many similarities with Steve's. I enjoy everything he shares with us as it helps me process my feelings about...
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    As it should be. I'm with you on this one. I post from where I am in the moment and if no one hears or comments I don't take it personally. We all have lives outside of this forum. We each come here to get our own needs met. This is your thread.Sounds promising. We might have a new thread to...
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    Amen!Amen far2! I don't post much as I'm very busy, but I have been a member of this site since before Steve started posting his story. If I don't read anything else here, I read his current thread.So Steve, lately I've been thinking back through the past. If I remember correctly, Sue's...
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    Steve, after reading through the last couple of weeks' posts a few things come to mind. The story of how you and Sue came to this point is very beautiful. Often we men think with our "other head." I'm often aroused by your posts, but the posts about your discussions with Sue are even more...
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    Yes, Steve, you answered my question with your usual "way with words." Thanks for taking the time to reply. As for understanding your desires, I'm not sure I'm much help, but I do share the same desires - so you're not alone. I'm looking forward to your continuing adventures! Have fun!
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    Thoughts/plans for 2014

    Steve, I've been reading your story here since you started posting. Thanks for sharing. At times, your story has ignited my sex life and often kept me very horny. This pause in Sue's extramarital "flings" seems like a natural time to reflect. You speak of the time and distance between now and...
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    Denial discussion

    Steve, I don't like labels. "Domme" and "sub" are good fantasy labels, but don't need to be identifiers. I enjoy Will's point of view because he often sees things that I see - but from the Bull's point of view instead of the cuck's (submissive's.) I read and reread all of your November posts...
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    Denial discussion

    Steve, I've been reading your posts in real time from the very beginning. I appreciate you sharing your journey so freely. As I've often said, Sue has a dominant streak and you have a submissive streak. On some level, Sue is controlling who you have sex with, how often you have sex and when you...
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    An unexpected turn

    Steve, this is an interesting turn of events, but not unexpected. I went back and reread your posts around Thanksgiving of 2012. Many of these themes were apparent during the "last days of Frank." Here's part of a post from Will during that time:Steve You are being trained and conditioned. I...
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    Trial Denial

    Well said Peak! Sue is becoming a good Domme! She wants (desires) Steve to submit. Isn't that what a dominant needs from a submissive? Part of what makes this game fun is the power exchange. All subs have limits. A good Dominant may test and stretch those limits, but to ignore those limits...
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    Trial Denial

    Well said Harry! I share your point of view and will add that's why I've kept coming back to read since the beginning. Thanks for sharing your life with us Steve! I know it's an online journal of sorts for you and helps you sort out your thoughts and emotions. Reading about your journey does the...
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    Sue and Robert

    Wow, I've been away from the forum and just caught up on the last week of posts. Very exciting! You've had a lot of great advice from many members who care deeply about you. I think Cocu's advice is worth taking a closer look at. I loved Harry's post on what a good Dominant is. The above quote...