my wife don't know about my fantasy... how convince her to cuckold me ?
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I share the same fantasy. My wife is a real saint. I got her to ride a real close friend once 20 yrs ago. They still have sex about once a year. But I can't convince her to ride a stranger. My wife thinks it's so wrong, yet when my buddy is plowing her deep she seems to forget it's wrong
My guess is it is how she perceives your view of her will change. Discuss that. That drives a lot of wife behavior.
Talking about fantasies/reading erotic stories and having her note how hard you get when fantasizing about someone else fucking her.
An additional tool would be to stop meeting her sexual needs. You need to transition into this.
Come yourself and then just not be able to make her come. Just fuck up what ever you are doing. Become an inept lover.
If you have enough control over the situation and she has other targets/options you could outright refuse to have sex with her until she fucks someone else.
Talking about fantasies/reading erotic stories and having her note how hard you get when fantasizing about someone else fucking her.
An additional tool would be to stop meeting her sexual needs. You need to transition into this.
Come yourself and then just not be able to make her come. Just fuck up what ever you are doing. Become an inept lover.
If you have enough control over the situation and she has other targets/options you could outright refuse to have sex with her until she fucks someone else.
you need to find a good friend single is preferable who your wife likes and trusts , invite him to visit as much as possible , do things all together etc , it will take time but worth it , you then need to convince your wife that he fancies her and just watch what happens . This is how roughly how my life as a cuckold started only it was my wife who told me she thought John fancied her . Pm me for more details of how it happens
Based on what I have experienced, a good way to start is by talkng about guys she has slept with in the past.
I known this might not be so handy if you are older or she doesn't have much of a past, but it opened a lot of doorways with my girl who had a dew raunchy hookups she got quite excited telling me about.
I known this might not be so handy if you are older or she doesn't have much of a past, but it opened a lot of doorways with my girl who had a dew raunchy hookups she got quite excited telling me about.
You have to tell her you desire to see her fuck with another man. Tell her why, how it affects you, and show her how you react.
Tell her it makes your cock get hard, then show her your hardon.
Tell her it makes you want to worship her pussy, then eat it like a madman. Tell her that is what you want to do after another man has fucked her.
Tell her your fantasies while she watches you jack off, and cum for her.
Tell her it makes your cock get hard, then show her your hardon.
Tell her it makes you want to worship her pussy, then eat it like a madman. Tell her that is what you want to do after another man has fucked her.
Tell her your fantasies while she watches you jack off, and cum for her.
My wife likes to watch porn, where women is humiliated in public by group of guys. She gets really wet and turned on. Usually she masturbates to it.Hulk6666 said:
She says she likes to watch, but would not like to be in this situation..
What do you think ?
I believe there are only very few women who are into cuckolding. I have some experience as bull, but most from times when I was younger, the girls then were not married they had boyfriends who probably were not cuckolds, the girls I fucked were just cheting on their boyfriends. My last three girlfriends cuckolded me. Each of them did not intend to do this at the beginning. The first one was a fiance who cheated when we were in a long distance relationship, she cheated just one time with an old friend and got knocked up immediately, (we are both against abortion but I did not want to raise a child from another guy, we seperated immediately, she is married to the biological father now). Easy said, but it was huge drama. She first still loved me and wanted to stay with me instead of the biological father... I promised myself this must not happen ever again. So I told my next girlfriend: "I don't mind in case you ever fuck another guy and will forgive you as long as you use a condom and do not hide it from me afterwards. When I she was on a training course from work, could not see me for three months and lived for the time at a place where was nothing to do with young handsome guys door to door, who always made party... she could not keep her legs together and finally got fucked. Probably it would not have happened, had I not told her before that I would forgive her.
I realised that it is not good to tell your girlfriend you will forgive her when she cheats... but my next one and I had a long distance relationship from the very beginning and I thought what happend with the second one was just her, just to tell a girlfriend you would forgive her does not make her cheat and I wanted to fuck other girls while she is far away. So I asked her whether she would accept an open relatioship for the time we are in a distance relationship. She first told me she was not interested, since I would be enough for her. I told her that in case one of us cheats it will be difficult to admit if there was not open relationship aggread but that if the lie comes out later, the trust is broken forever and the relationship is doomeed. Therefore I would prefer an open relationship, just in case.... so we are honest with each other. She then agreed. Six months nothing happend, then I fucked another women, I told her, she was not angry, but one week later she had an ONS, two weeks later she had the next one.... three months later the next one who was not only a ONS but an affair over two or three months, then she there was no stopping her....
Long story short, in all three cases where a women did cheat on me or even cuckolded me for a longer time, it all started with a distance relationship and the fact, that she knew she knew I would not leave her in case it comes out and it was never planned. I expect if I would have wanted them to do this (I did not) and would have told them, they would have thought I was a pervert and had not done it.
I believe the best chance a women becomes a hotwife is if she knows her husband will forgive her a ONS plus she gets in situations where it might happen. If she has made once or twice the experience that her husband will forgive her, chances are she will do it again and again. If you tell her you want her to sleep with other men, she will think you don't love her anymore and refuse to do it.
I realised that it is not good to tell your girlfriend you will forgive her when she cheats... but my next one and I had a long distance relationship from the very beginning and I thought what happend with the second one was just her, just to tell a girlfriend you would forgive her does not make her cheat and I wanted to fuck other girls while she is far away. So I asked her whether she would accept an open relatioship for the time we are in a distance relationship. She first told me she was not interested, since I would be enough for her. I told her that in case one of us cheats it will be difficult to admit if there was not open relationship aggread but that if the lie comes out later, the trust is broken forever and the relationship is doomeed. Therefore I would prefer an open relationship, just in case.... so we are honest with each other. She then agreed. Six months nothing happend, then I fucked another women, I told her, she was not angry, but one week later she had an ONS, two weeks later she had the next one.... three months later the next one who was not only a ONS but an affair over two or three months, then she there was no stopping her....
Long story short, in all three cases where a women did cheat on me or even cuckolded me for a longer time, it all started with a distance relationship and the fact, that she knew she knew I would not leave her in case it comes out and it was never planned. I expect if I would have wanted them to do this (I did not) and would have told them, they would have thought I was a pervert and had not done it.
I believe the best chance a women becomes a hotwife is if she knows her husband will forgive her a ONS plus she gets in situations where it might happen. If she has made once or twice the experience that her husband will forgive her, chances are she will do it again and again. If you tell her you want her to sleep with other men, she will think you don't love her anymore and refuse to do it.
If your wife isn't interested in sex with others she never will be, if you want to see another hard cock its not that difficult to find one to hold you over and beside I've had a lot of fun sucking other guys even though the best sex for me has been sharing my wifecuckoldfantasies said:
There's not many things that are as hard on a relationship than distance.wsh said:
I lost a great love for that very reason.
I hope you are able to find a way to have some peace and happiness with the one you love
It also seems there are women in the world that you can tell you can accept if they cheat, and they will still cheat anyway.
Makes no sense at all, but that's how life can go.
One thing: when you say "forgive", to me, that implies she has done something wrong. But that may not necessarily be the case if you have given approval within your negotiated 'ground rules'.
I would be more apt to praise her if she has played within those rules.
