I am an European woman, 36 years old, married with two kids. I'm fairly attractive with long dark hair, moorish eyes and a nice body, I'm an easy-going woman with -people usually said to me- a nice sense of humour and withm a certain cultural level. Socially we have a medium-high level and this allowed us to travel a lot.
So for not make too long, 4 years ago my husband was going to participate in this Sailing Cup and the plan was for me to wait for him in a little hotel on the Caribbean Sea. OK, this time in particular I was going to stay there with the wife of one of my husband's partners in the team. She's a beautiful redhead, a little older than me, in her forties. We got along since the beginning and are friends now.
Locals were almost totally black or mulatto and from the first day they started to harassing both of us in and out of the hotel, but let's say in a kindly, polite way, nothing really disturbing. Then, like I said to my friend, the ALFA MALE made his appearance, a black guy 22-25 years old, about 1,80 all muscles, bald head, he fixed me in the eyes like saying "OK lady, I'm here now, I want you on your knees?" this glance of sexual superguy I don't know why it made me laugh.
This night, my friend goes to bed and I went to the Hotel nightclub to drink something before going to sleep. He was there and went directly towards me:
-How are you?
-Fine and you?
-Better than you I hope
-Ah yeah, really? and that's becuase of what?
-That's because I wouldn't even walk with these shoes you have, really don't know how can you stay over your heels
-Ah yeah hahaha!! well I'm not a very tall woman you know?
OK, he made me laugh and it was a nice point of start and after a little talk we went to dance. Obviously my intention was to not have sex with him in any case, just some conversation, some dancing together perhaps and bye bye. To make my point I clarified to him I was married. I must confess it was extremely exciting to dance with a man like him, he was like a Caribbean Apollo and his smell was so intriguing OH my GOD!! suddenly, after fifteen minutes talking and dancing and after a little pause he slips his hands over my butts!! So I jumped on my foot, well let's say over my heels saying something like "WHAT the fuck!!!" he was looking at me like a stupid. I was very angry so I turned my back to him, took my purse and my jacket and went up to my room.
On the next days I crossed him a few times but he acted like if I was a ghost, he said nothing, he expressed nothing. I mean, a man like him, extremely handsome with a nice sense of humour, if he was a little more cautious he could get almost every woman in bed and instead of that he acted like a 15 years old college student.
Second experience: a friend of mine, married with a black man from the US some time ago, same like the other, balded, very strong some Tyson style, a real big man about 1,90 or so, and good looking like an actor. They both got one kid and then, last year about february they divorced. By some kind of coincidence he works on the same gym I'm going so we started to get some drink togheter. For the report he's about 28-30 I'm 36. Then, a couple of weeks ago he said to me:
-You know? you're first on my list of women I'd like to get into my bed. You're so gorgeous and so classy and blablabla
I think I opened my eyes wide like the screen of my computer :wtf:
-You know? I'm married.
-I'm not talking about marrying you
-We are F-r-i-e-n-d-s you understand? that's all
-OH! go tell this BS to yourself if you want, I like you baby!
and so saying he took my hand over the table
what the fuck! :wtf:
Again, same scene, I took my bag and my sunglasses and I went out of the gym's café. I don't feel myself like going back to the gym.
My question is: don't you think black men are going too much... let's say FAST and a little CLUMSY when they try to flirt with you? I mean, they always take the wrong way with me. I don't think they would have any chances to take me to bed but at least it would cost me lot more to repulse them but acting like they did, for me it's something like saying "what a stupid! who do you think I am?"
Sorry for the long message and ciao
P.D. I looked for an interracial forum in google to post this thread, not sure I'm on the line of this forum but anyway, any point of view is welcome.
So for not make too long, 4 years ago my husband was going to participate in this Sailing Cup and the plan was for me to wait for him in a little hotel on the Caribbean Sea. OK, this time in particular I was going to stay there with the wife of one of my husband's partners in the team. She's a beautiful redhead, a little older than me, in her forties. We got along since the beginning and are friends now.
Locals were almost totally black or mulatto and from the first day they started to harassing both of us in and out of the hotel, but let's say in a kindly, polite way, nothing really disturbing. Then, like I said to my friend, the ALFA MALE made his appearance, a black guy 22-25 years old, about 1,80 all muscles, bald head, he fixed me in the eyes like saying "OK lady, I'm here now, I want you on your knees?" this glance of sexual superguy I don't know why it made me laugh.
This night, my friend goes to bed and I went to the Hotel nightclub to drink something before going to sleep. He was there and went directly towards me:
-How are you?
-Fine and you?
-Better than you I hope
-Ah yeah, really? and that's becuase of what?
-That's because I wouldn't even walk with these shoes you have, really don't know how can you stay over your heels
-Ah yeah hahaha!! well I'm not a very tall woman you know?
OK, he made me laugh and it was a nice point of start and after a little talk we went to dance. Obviously my intention was to not have sex with him in any case, just some conversation, some dancing together perhaps and bye bye. To make my point I clarified to him I was married. I must confess it was extremely exciting to dance with a man like him, he was like a Caribbean Apollo and his smell was so intriguing OH my GOD!! suddenly, after fifteen minutes talking and dancing and after a little pause he slips his hands over my butts!! So I jumped on my foot, well let's say over my heels saying something like "WHAT the fuck!!!" he was looking at me like a stupid. I was very angry so I turned my back to him, took my purse and my jacket and went up to my room.
On the next days I crossed him a few times but he acted like if I was a ghost, he said nothing, he expressed nothing. I mean, a man like him, extremely handsome with a nice sense of humour, if he was a little more cautious he could get almost every woman in bed and instead of that he acted like a 15 years old college student.
Second experience: a friend of mine, married with a black man from the US some time ago, same like the other, balded, very strong some Tyson style, a real big man about 1,90 or so, and good looking like an actor. They both got one kid and then, last year about february they divorced. By some kind of coincidence he works on the same gym I'm going so we started to get some drink togheter. For the report he's about 28-30 I'm 36. Then, a couple of weeks ago he said to me:
-You know? you're first on my list of women I'd like to get into my bed. You're so gorgeous and so classy and blablabla
I think I opened my eyes wide like the screen of my computer :wtf:
-You know? I'm married.
-I'm not talking about marrying you
-We are F-r-i-e-n-d-s you understand? that's all
-OH! go tell this BS to yourself if you want, I like you baby!
and so saying he took my hand over the table
what the fuck! :wtf:
Again, same scene, I took my bag and my sunglasses and I went out of the gym's café. I don't feel myself like going back to the gym.
My question is: don't you think black men are going too much... let's say FAST and a little CLUMSY when they try to flirt with you? I mean, they always take the wrong way with me. I don't think they would have any chances to take me to bed but at least it would cost me lot more to repulse them but acting like they did, for me it's something like saying "what a stupid! who do you think I am?"
Sorry for the long message and ciao
P.D. I looked for an interracial forum in google to post this thread, not sure I'm on the line of this forum but anyway, any point of view is welcome.