A "switch" in the cuckolding world

[pablohearsay]

A little Background:

So when we started my wife and I were/are swingers.

After a while we started playing separately and she would tell me about her activities while we had sex.

After a while of that I started to ask her to tell me if/when she "came better" or "came faster" or if someone was "better" than me in the sack.

She didn't first like cuckolding because she didn't understand...then she read an article (because she's into light/med BDSM) that made it 'click' for her.

She read that "Cuckolding is like BDSM for the mind"...then she understood that in essence she was "BDSM-ing my mind". Then she went gung ho with it.

My Question/Comment:

Now there are times when I like to be cuckold and there are times when I am dominant with my wife. To which makes me think that I am not a "true cuckold"...

In the world of BDSM I'd be a "switch"...is there such a term for this lifestyle?

How many of you are a "cuckold switch"?

--PH

 

[MorganTheCapn]

I suppose I am, or used to be. My ex and I used to talk about the other guys she has been with, and she would occasionally dominate me in that way. On other occasions however, it would just be her and I having sex and she loved being dominated.

So yes, you can be a switch hitter so to speak. I think that's how a lot of couples ease into the full cuck lifestyle

 

[Doc in Cleveland]

What he said.

Exceptional, Mac. Truly.

 

[pablohearsay]

Mac,

Thanks for the information!

--PH