About swingers.

[solo-mon]

As a kid growing up we would often go to a friends house and cut class. We would get in his dads porn stash, and there we found pics of people naked. these people happened to be many of the people my friends parents hung around with. Thinking about it now, it looks like these people were swingers. How do people who swing hide the fact that they're in the "lifestyle" from their children. Has any swinging couple ever have had to go through explaining these "activities" to their children. How about children who are now older; how do they react to the Lifestyle their parents enjoy so much.

 

[Chi-twn]

For one, you don't do it around your children. Second, don't be stupid enough to have pictures or videos in any location (including your computer) that your kids could find it. Third, you let everyone you are with know that it doesn't come into your house.

You DON'T explain this to your children.....they are children....and as adults your private life is still your private life.

 

[solo-mon]

I'm asking for that very reason. We were in high school and stumbled on to these. JESUS... no need to get defensive. I'm asking because if WE found these, don't you think others have found similar pics.

 

[Son of John]

Soloman, you ask a very legitimate question!

I talked with a guy once who told that he had discovered such photos in his parents' bedroom, and they definitely included photos of his mother fucking with another man while his father watched!

The parents were incredibly careless to let such photos exist where he would find them, but I can't fault the kid for looking at them and wondering what was going on.

I have talked with others who were sure their parents were swingers, and even knew who the other couples were. It is a shock for any kid to discover that his mother and father are fucking with other people, but it seems to be one of the risks of life.

 

[ffred]

We always kept our activities away from our home when children lived at home and it worked. Nobody in our inner circle of relatives and friends had a glue what we were doing. Later, when our children grew up and left the home nest we also did some meetings at home, with and also without me present.

To make a long story short, our daughter of 22 years at this time wanted to make a surprise visit for two times and found out. believe me, it was hard to explain it to our daughter and she was a grown up adult. I am very happy that this did not happen when the kids wre younger.

If you are interested in this topic you can read the details in an own thread.
5 Attachment(s) Living the Cuckold lifestyle with children at home?

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