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Advice on my devious plan

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Like many on this forum, I'm a white male married to a white female (both late 30s) who harbors fantasies of fucking a black man with my blessing but is way too shy/repressed/scared etc. to even think of making them a reality. And yet the fantasy plays a huge role in our sex life---giant ebony dildos, interracial porn, posting on this site, teasing each other left and right, and so forth. But, alas, as the poet says, between the idea and the reality, falls the shadow. And so the burden falls on me: Either I must make it happen, or it won't happen at all.

Which brings me to the point. I have had idea. A plan. A scheme. A devious little con on which I would appreciate some feeback.

In this plan, I would contact a black man who is interested in fucking a white MILF, contacting him either on this site or on Adult Friendfinder, without letting wifey know about it. I'll inform him that wifey and I will be at so and so swing club on so and so date, at this time. (We have never been to a swing club before, but I'll persuade her to go by telling her we'll just stop in for one drink or two and then leave, promising neither of us will hook up under any circumstances. Just a test run.) The black stud shows up there, and I pretend like I've never seen or heard of him before. "Oh hi, Jamal, nice to meet you. Why not join us for drink?" etc. Then we get to know each other, have a few drinks, get my wife all hot and bothered, but then, at the last moment, pull back before anything happens. This delay will give our con the flavor of truth. Just happend to meet this hansome black guy at the swing club and he and my wife got along like gangbusters. But nothing happened, and then we left.

Then let her mull it over for a week or two. Ask her what she thought about the experience.... See if she is up for another meeting. And then take it from there. Maybe go back to the swing club (We live in the Philadelphia area and there are plenty to choose from) or meet a bar, get a hotel room or whatever.

What do you think? I'm 100% straight. Have no interest in cuckold, creampie, or anything remotely gay. Just want to see my wife live out this fantasy, maybe join in fucking her, treating her like ***** (she's submissive, by nature) or perhaps photographing the event.

She's tall (5'10"), blonde, blue eyed, milky white skin, 36 B-cups, long legs, voluptuous ass, loves to dress up in heels and hose. Big cocksucking lips. Oh, and sucking dick makes her soaking wet. Overall, really a great piece of ass.

So are there any black bulls in the Philadelphia/South Jersey area who would be interested in such a scheme? She like 'em young, (under 30 for the most part and teens get her especially juicy) but all the same the advice and input of older, experienced black males is welcome and greatly appreacited. And, of course, females are encouraged to comment as well.

best,

Antpriore
 
Not a bad plan at all in theory. The key, obviously, would be to never, ever let her know it was a set-up. If she does she will be furious and your chances of it ever happening, let alone becoming a regular occurence, will be shot to hell. A secret is no longer a secret once a second person knows it. Be sure it's a guy you can and do trust implicitly. But, as far as plans go, it's a fairly good one. Besides, what have you got to lose? If she's never going to do it anyway and she does find out it was a set up the end result is the same.
 
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Just be sure to let the guy in on what's going on so that no one is upset or has too many expectations.
 
umm, just a suggestion but you might want to take her to the swing club BEFORE you contact anybody. What happens if one the big night she decides that is too wild an idea and won't go?

Your internet ally will show up, and there she won't be. Also, unless she is a complete idiot, she will start to wonder about how "fortunate" you both are that on the very first trip, somebody jumps into your lap, so to speak.

And, if she ever finds out you set this up behind her back, you might have a problem on your hands.
 
my experiences truth is always better and talking her through it vs scamming her usually works better....is it worth ruining youre marriage over? you gonna trust some black guy to keep youre secret. take her out, let her meet some black guys dancing or something...when she is ready she will be ready.
 
I agree it would be nice if all this could done above board and honestly. But let's face it: the world does not always work that way. Sometimes to get what you want in life you have to do some scheming behind the scenes.

And as far as lies go, this would be a pretty white one. I would simply be arranging a situation and letting the chips fall where they may.

True, as one of the posters here pointed out, the guy might blab. That would suck.

Anyway, thanks very much all the feedback.
 
If you can talk her into going to a swing club you should just take her to TJ's Lasting Impressions on one of their Interracial Party nights. It's close to you and you wouldn't have to bother finding a black guy to meet you there. You don't have to lie or scheme, just tell her you'd like to check it out with her. No promises of doing anything and tell her that if she feels uncomfortable you'll leave. This is pretty much what you were planning on doing anyway, except you don't have to lie or go behind her back. Which could ruin any chance you have of her fucking a black man if she finds out. You also said that this site was a huge part of your sex lives, so it might be a good idea to refrain from posting your devious plans on here.
 
My first swinging experience, although not interracial was decided upon in a similar wayt to what Will/Eve suggest. My husband suggested a swing club and I agreed to think about it and he never said another word about it. Eventually curiousity got the best of me and I brought the idea back up and we made arrangements to go. We both agreed there would be no expectations of sex and that, in fact, this first time would be just for checking it out.

Well, I went, had a great time, hung out in the bar area most of the nite, only once actually checking out the play areas early in the night. Everyone was really friendly and not pushy at all. We did meet some people that just clicked with us and beteween that and being able to dance sexy and just feel free, we enjoyed our first swinger experience.

That was 15 years ago and we're still going strong,lol! INcidentally, it as at a swing club in Pennsylvania, although not TJ's. We have been to TJ's a couple of times and had a great time. It's just a little far for us to be able to go regularly or beleive me, we would !

For someone that is shy I would suggest going on a couples only night at first. The atmosphere is more relaxed for a woman, far less pressure. Work your way up to single guy nights later.

Just my opinion and personal experience, hope it helps.
 
I think this topic is more fantasy than reality. If it is real- it is a bad idea, and one that is likely going to be very difficult to pull off. You're going to have to find a black guy who shares your same level of interest. Why does he want to spend so much time with blue balls waiting for your wife to heat up and say yes?

But enjoy the fantasy- whatever gets you off.
 
Will,

I didn't use the word "fake". I said I thought this was probably more fantasy than reality.
What you basically seem to be saying is- please don't express your opinions and just believe everything that you read.
Sorry, I'm not prepared to do that. There is enough fantasy and myth on this site without now having to swallow every post someone writes as being the truth.
 
LOL now you get a taste of the personality (not to mention mentality) I was always subjected to in dealing with certain individuals. Misery loves company and the negativity spreads like moss on a stone.
 
Just a small point - No interest in cuckolding ?

If your wife is with another man, you are cuckold my friend. Its better if you know about it and agree with it but a cuckold you will become. Some people may call it soft swinging but if you are not with another woman at the same time she is with another man, its cuckolding in my book. Cuckolding is NOT all about dressing in ladies clothes, cream pies and sucking dicks, its a myriad of layers and levels.
 
I disagree. One can simply be a voyeur. No more, no less.
 
seems a bit long and drawn out for me... why not find someone and be upfront with your wife... i sounds to me that you two are not really on the same page or she is apprehensive about doing it. i my experience she should have a bigger say in what goes down, why should you chose someone she will be with? if you both want to go thru with this then find someone, let hem chat on the phone, agree to a meeting place, dinner works (you can still have drinks there), then see if you click in person. that's the way it have always worked for me. the pressure of the swing club thing is removed. rememeber its not just your fantasy its supposed to be hers too. i've met at red lobster and the outback, no rules just right.

39y/o light skin blkmale, 5'11", 185lbs, athletic build, shaven head, handsome, brown eyes, thick shaven 9, discreet and respectful, also in the philly area. lets make it happen! boogabuddie@yahoo.com
 
Will & Eve said:
what this guy suggests, within the context of that situation, is NOT unusual, extreme, devious, freaky, or otherwise worthy of suspicion in terms ofbeing "just a fantasy"
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Odd that you would choose the word "devious" in your reply- because that is a word the TC chose to use in his topic subject.
It's "that" type of thing that raise a red flag for me. It's "that" type of thing that makes me think this is based more on fantasy than reality.
 
pimpology101 said:
LOL now you get a taste of the personality (not to mention mentality) I was always subjected to in dealing with certain individuals. Misery loves company and the negativity spreads like moss on a stone.
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Despite your verbal attack at me...which is completely unwarranted and for which you should apologize to me for. I'm choosing to ignore you- which makes me the bigger and better man! :)
 
hubby and i have seen what can happen if she is not into it and it is not pretty and the clubs do not like it be honest and talk it took hubby 10 yrs to convince me just my two cents worth LOL
 
antpriore said:
Whammer---Yes, at this point it is a fantasy, obviously. My reason for posting was to gauge whether I should try to make it a reality.
Why would the guy want to show up? The chance for free, no-strings sex with a willing, horny white wife. I'm hoping that will do the trick, but if not so be it. My initial seach of Adult Friend finder turned up literally hundreds of black dudes in the Philly area willing to fuck white wives. Now even if 90 percent of them are fakes, those are still pretty good odds. The only thing that sells better than pussy is free pussy. So I kind of feel I'm holding some cards, in that regard. I could be wrong, but that is my gut feeling.
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Oh I think some black guy would like the free white wife pussy. I just don't think he's going to be willing to play your game. It may take a very long time to get the whole plan in place and even longer to pull the thing off.
I honestly thing you're going to have a really hard time finding anyone to play along with you.
But good luck with whatever you decide.
 
we are swingers and have been for over 20 yrs
 
Someone's ignoring capabilities need work lol
 
pimpology101 said:
Someone's ignoring capabilities need work lol
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Obviously you don't have a very keen sense of humor either. :boxing:
 
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