AngelicDom said:
It was in the original post.
Passive Dominance started May 2018.
OK, I read your original thread. I think Ms. Khristy Creams has given you some good advice.
AngelicDom said:
Currently I have been requested to find a suitable massuer for this Friday evening as last week fell through. Although, I have been told this time she would not be having sex with whoever it may be.. (I'm hoping it's just the not wanting to be seen as a slut talking). The hard part is actually finding a suitable guy..
Rather than calling around to try to find a man who wants to give your wife a massage (on what basis? would he be a professional masseur whom you would pay an agreed-upon sum?), it sounds like your wife needs to practice the art of seduction. For example, you might introduce her to:
How to seduce a man who’s not yours:
How to Seduce a Man Who's Not Yet Yours: And Leave Him Smitten!
including, since your wife is apparently not very verbal;
How to flirt by touching without making it obvious to all:
How to Flirt by Touch Without Making It Obvious at All
To move your wife forward along these lines, you might take her out clubbing to places that have a dance floor, so you can sit separately, with you wearing your chastity device, such that she can sit next to, or near, a man who looks like a good prospect. If he begins talking with her and buys your wife a drink (or a second drink), she can whisper in his ear that she keeps her man in a chastity device (gesturing toward you). That will tell him immediately she is in charge of her own sex life and, in effect, is available. As a symbol of your wife's availability to other men, I suggest buying her an ankle chain to wear around her right ankle on a daily basis. See (e.g.):
The Secret Meaning of Anklets And Why Some Wives Wear Them
Throughout, I suggest continuing to wear your chastity device for progressively longer time periods, with your wife as your sole key holder (of course) — until you're wearing it continuously for one week at a time, with two or three hours unlocked once a week so you can masturbate, wash your cock and balls, and shave your pubic area — then your wife should lock you up again. For this, you will need to acquire a chastity device that fits properly. More than one cuckold on this forum has found the "HolyTrainer' to be effective and comfortable to wear for long time periods. You should make the required measurements carefully before ordering. When it arrives, if you find it's too tight to fit your penis into it, your wife can lubricate your penis with baby oil then shrink it with an ice pack. She should then be able to slip your penis into its (tight-fitting) cage and lock you up.
As I have mentioned elsewhere, one cuckoldress put it this way in a word of advice to married women: "If you keep your husband in a chastity device, cuckolding will follow like night follows day."