(Posted this in another section but it didn't get many replies - thought I'd try here)
My wife is not a ***** - never really was. She's not prude or anything when it comes to our sex life - we've played with a girl friend of hers years ago, we've gone to strip clubs, gives me anal occasionally, she knows I like seeing her suck her dildo and my cock side-by-side. She's even confessed to me (after we discovered cock-sleeves) that she likes the feel of bigger cocks in her. So she's pretty open to a variety of things with me.
We've been married for a bit over 20yrs. We started dating not long after high school. She only slept with 5 other guys in high school before we got together (blew several more than that). We never talked explicitly about her sexual past, because I used to have bad jealousy issues when I was younger - and several of the guys she slept with were my friends in high school. But now, in middle-age, I find myself highly turned-on by thinking of her past cocks filling her up.
So while having a few drinks at the bar of a hotel we were staying at last week, I thought I'd give it a try and finally confess my turn-on of seeing her take a new (bigger) cock.
Knowing she confessed to liking the bigger cock feeling (with the cock sleeve we use occasionally), I decided to ask her if she ever experienced a bigger-than-average cock when she was younger. I could tell that she was very surprised and shocked by this unusual and blunt question from me. She laughed a nervous laugh, drunkenly giggled and blushed, but ultimately said "no - not like porn-star size". I even followed it up with “you’re not just saying that because you think that’s what you’re supposed to say to not hurt my feelings?”. She repeated, “no, not like, the size in the movies”. This was probably her way of saying "I've had bigger cocks than you, but nothing extreme".
I basically followed this up with “well, would you want to? If you could?”. She nervously said, while laughing, “what are you talking about??”. I repeated “if you could experience a big cock, if I was ok with it, would you want to?”. Her reply was something like “what do you mean, like just some random guy?? No!! You’re being weird…that’s weird…no!!”
I felt kind of dumb, with her being so weirded out by my confession/suggestion But I explained the concept a bit, trying to show how it's not that “weird” and there are entire genres of porn modeled after it - and while not all things in porn reflect reality, most things are based on legit turn-ons for men.
The conversation turned a bit toward our sex life overall and we talked about our sex drives, variation, frequency, etc. When we got back to our hotel room, I did ask again about her past cocks, whether or not she had a big one, and if she was lying to me in the bar to spare my feelings. She still just said “no, not like in the movies”, like she said earlier. The specific topic of seeing her take a new cock was not brought up again that night.
So that was basically it - I finally got up the nerve to admit that I wanted to see her take a new cock…and it was met with a bit of shock and disbelief that I’d be suggesting that, and even saying it was "weird" that I was saying that. Not really the outcome I wanted, but maybe it’s the one I should have expected. It IS a pretty extreme suggestion - to offer up to your "good girl" wife, a strange new cock after 20+ years of faithful marriage. I’m thinking it was silly of me to try to turn my fantasy into something real. Some things are meant to stay fantasies, I guess.
Has anyone else confessed their cuck fantasy to their wives and been met with a similar reaction as me?
My wife is not a ***** - never really was. She's not prude or anything when it comes to our sex life - we've played with a girl friend of hers years ago, we've gone to strip clubs, gives me anal occasionally, she knows I like seeing her suck her dildo and my cock side-by-side. She's even confessed to me (after we discovered cock-sleeves) that she likes the feel of bigger cocks in her. So she's pretty open to a variety of things with me.
We've been married for a bit over 20yrs. We started dating not long after high school. She only slept with 5 other guys in high school before we got together (blew several more than that). We never talked explicitly about her sexual past, because I used to have bad jealousy issues when I was younger - and several of the guys she slept with were my friends in high school. But now, in middle-age, I find myself highly turned-on by thinking of her past cocks filling her up.
So while having a few drinks at the bar of a hotel we were staying at last week, I thought I'd give it a try and finally confess my turn-on of seeing her take a new (bigger) cock.
Knowing she confessed to liking the bigger cock feeling (with the cock sleeve we use occasionally), I decided to ask her if she ever experienced a bigger-than-average cock when she was younger. I could tell that she was very surprised and shocked by this unusual and blunt question from me. She laughed a nervous laugh, drunkenly giggled and blushed, but ultimately said "no - not like porn-star size". I even followed it up with “you’re not just saying that because you think that’s what you’re supposed to say to not hurt my feelings?”. She repeated, “no, not like, the size in the movies”. This was probably her way of saying "I've had bigger cocks than you, but nothing extreme".
I basically followed this up with “well, would you want to? If you could?”. She nervously said, while laughing, “what are you talking about??”. I repeated “if you could experience a big cock, if I was ok with it, would you want to?”. Her reply was something like “what do you mean, like just some random guy?? No!! You’re being weird…that’s weird…no!!”
I felt kind of dumb, with her being so weirded out by my confession/suggestion But I explained the concept a bit, trying to show how it's not that “weird” and there are entire genres of porn modeled after it - and while not all things in porn reflect reality, most things are based on legit turn-ons for men.
The conversation turned a bit toward our sex life overall and we talked about our sex drives, variation, frequency, etc. When we got back to our hotel room, I did ask again about her past cocks, whether or not she had a big one, and if she was lying to me in the bar to spare my feelings. She still just said “no, not like in the movies”, like she said earlier. The specific topic of seeing her take a new cock was not brought up again that night.
So that was basically it - I finally got up the nerve to admit that I wanted to see her take a new cock…and it was met with a bit of shock and disbelief that I’d be suggesting that, and even saying it was "weird" that I was saying that. Not really the outcome I wanted, but maybe it’s the one I should have expected. It IS a pretty extreme suggestion - to offer up to your "good girl" wife, a strange new cock after 20+ years of faithful marriage. I’m thinking it was silly of me to try to turn my fantasy into something real. Some things are meant to stay fantasies, I guess.
Has anyone else confessed their cuck fantasy to their wives and been met with a similar reaction as me?
