Seems like a lot of people are having an issue logging into chat since we updated. Here is what you need to do: Logout of the chat and forums, clear your cache and cookies. Log back in to the forum, then login to the chat with the same user/pass you use for the forums.
She would probably drop her panties (faster than she can blink) for a young bull like you, so why not contact her to arrange a visit - then post some pictures for us to enjoy AFTER THE DEED?