asking about black lovers

[jimmyl56]

A woman I am going out with recently was mentioning how much she has dated.
She said she had been out with all ages..then added Black and White.
How do I ask her how it was with the black guys? Any body have any
experience asking this ?

 

[NightVision]

Say you are curious

I would approach it this way: Tell her that you find people of various cultures and backgrounds interesting and ask her what contrast she found to be the most surprising or interesting between, for instance, black men and white men that she has dated.

If you preface it as though you support any differences she may state, she will be open to share her opinions and observations without fear that you may judgemental.

 

[MsGary]

Jimmy go ahead and ask. Just don't act like you ar going to be obsessed with it. she knows white men areadmireres of Black MEN.
luv, msgary

 

[jimmyl56]

Thanks.

I will give it a go. She is blonde blue late 40s and very very fit.
She mentioned one of the black guys going to her gym.