Been Asked To Fuck My Friend’s Wife. What Could Go Wrong?

[KellT]

Hi everyone. New guy here. Unlike most of you, I’m not the husband looking to share his wife. I’m the other guy.


I recently got out of a long term relationship and have been staying with a friend of mine (and his wife) until I find my own place.


Last week, he asked me to join them in the bedroom. That they’ve been thinking about including another guy for quite some time and the opportunity seems perfect now with me around. He said his wife has always found me attractive and she suggested using me now that I’m single. I haven’t had sex in awhile so NSA sex sounds pretty good to me. She’s a cutie so no problems there.


We’re all three new to this and learning as we go. Over the weekend, we messed around a bit. I wound up getting a blowjob from her while my buddy watches but Mr Softee made an unexpected appearance once my buddy joined in. He fucked her from behind while she was sucking me, and limp I went. It was pretty awkward.


He finished pretty quickly and that was that. One of the reasons they wanted to find a another guy is because my friend travels for work. She gets bored and he thinks it’d be hot to know she’s getting fucked while he’s gone. He’s getting ready to leave soon and wants me to fuck her while he’s away. I asked about boundaries and he said it’s our sex so do it however we want. He just wants to know all about it and get pictures/videos. Oh and he doesn’t want us sleeping together at night. It’s too intimate for him.


On paper it sounds perfect for all of us. It can’t be this neat and tidy though. Are there unforeseen hazards I should be aware of? I’m also a little nervous I’ll be in my own head again and not get hard. Anyway, any pointers are much appreciated.

 

[lashrope1]

Try to maintain perspective about the whole situation. It appears as if you are doing them a favor. Talk to her see how she feels about you calling her names slut, cunt, *****, etc. If she agrees call her names when she least expects it when you are alone with her. Use her, fuck her everywhere in the house except in the bed. Have her suck your cock while you watch tv, casually bend her over often and play with her ass etc.

 

[Mywifelovesthis]

Just enjoy the situation. Be an adult about it. Respect their rules and fill your buddies wife with your sperm while he's out of town.

 

[Custer Laststand]

We’re all three new to this and learning as we go. Over the weekend, we messed around a bit. I wound up getting a blowjob from her while my buddy watched but Mr Softee made an unexpected appearance once my buddy joined in. He fucked her from behind while she was sucking me, and limp I went. It was pretty awkward.

It sounds like you learned something about yourself — that you can't keep it up with your friend's wife while being distracted by him fucking her simultaneously. I wouldn't worry about it. One thing you could try with future 3-sums would be for your friend's wife to fuck you first, with the understanding that your friend won't start fucking her until she finishes with you.

..... One of the reasons they wanted to find a another guy is because my friend travels for work. She gets bored and he thinks it’d be hot to know she’s getting fucked while he’s gone. He’s getting ready to leave soon and wants me to fuck her while he’s away.

Sounds perfect.

I asked about boundaries. He said it’s our sex, so do it however we want.

That sounds even better.

He just wants to know all about it, and get pictures and videos.

It sounds really hot if you participate with your friend's wife in telling him what kinds of sex the two of you are having.

[But,] he doesn’t want us sleeping together at night. [That would be] too intimate for him.

I guess that sounds like a boundary. But, whatever works for the 3 of you.

On paper, it sounds perfect for all of us.

On paper....? I suggest not writing anything down on paper. (But, I know what you're saying....)

It can’t be this neat and tidy though. Are there unforeseen hazards I should be aware of?

Actually, your friend's proposal does sound rather neat and tidy. The worst that could happen (probably) would be that if he becomes uneasy with your relationship with his wife, he could ask you to find someplace else to live (and stop fucking his wife). If you're prepared to do that, in a financial sense, there's every reason to think of this as a proposed intensely-erotic adventure rather than something to agonize over.

I’m also a little nervous I’ll be in my own head again and not get hard.

That's apparently what most men worry about most with respect to sex — not being able to get it up when the time comes. But, that's not a (potential) problem you can solve in advance in some theoretical sense. You just have to forge ahead and do it. Anyway, you already know you got it up without any problem when your friend's wife was sucking your cock. It wasn't until he distracted you by simultaneously fucking her that you lost your erection. Now, he's proposing you let his wife fuck you while he's out of town, so that kind of distraction won't be a problem.

In any case, there are means for getting it up if you think that might be a problem. You could see a medical doctor, and ask him or her to write you a prescription for viagra or something equivalent.

I'd say the opportunity you're facing is unusually erotic, doesn't have any obvious downsides, and has the upside that you'll be doing your friend and his wife a substantial favor. Go for it.

 

[Nazareth]

I'd feel honored to be asked, especially if you have been given the green light to do it while husband is away!
You didn't indicate or specify how close they are to you, or vice-versa, but I'll assume there has to be a fairly high level just from him asking you to do this. I would definitely respect that, and not be over-aggressive with her.
I think the only potential pitfalls are feelings of regret or guilt, from any or all of you. However, as long as there isn't any danger of any of you developing feelings for one another that would lead to hiding, lying, or cheating, these shouldn't be a problem.

 

[Keesnl]

As long as you stick by their rules it's going to be amazing, trust me!

For some years i'm joyning a friend and his wife and like your friends we have some rules, not regarding the sex do's or dont's but absolutely to the intimacy part. After about a year they had kind of a fight and she told him she had some feelings ( different then before ) for me, we all talked about it and found out that she from a young age always fell in love with the guys she kissed a lot. So that weekend we just hang out and nothing further happened, after just a moment of it being awkward we kind of past that. The week later they called if i wanted to come over, they found out their sex was more on the loving intimate side and the sex we had with the 3 of us was more lustful and she was a bit confused by that.
So she asked me if i wanted to go shopping with her ( did this before having sex also ) and we had some great fun. Even we not planned to do something automatically the lust part dropped in and she tried on sexy underwear and i made a picture and send it to my friend. he gave some directions and after some playing, photos's of her ******** while trying on lingerie, he asked us to make a picture in the changing room mirror of her giving me a blowjob and we did. Made these in several stores and send them to him. Soon as we were back we undressed and had sex and everything was back to the way before that. Maybe even better i think.

For the name calling best ask. Found out as a bull over the years that with some more experienced couples some woman really love this in a threesome, others find it to much and not sexy. Once met a couple and she really loved being called a slut, being as graphic in saying what you would do to her and have several guys treat her as a cumdump. Also met other woman that loved the threesome but absolutely didn't liked to be a slut or having talked to her in that way.

When you know them long enough you know the time when not or when really must say things like these.
My friends wife and i sometimes tease him that way, she telling in a very graphic way how i'm fucking her anal and me telling him that this slut really loves being stretched open and have cum inside her this way. Most of the time we play this kind of thing he has trouble holding it and shoots within a minute or so, she finds this real funny and mostly starts it.

 

[KellT]

My buddy was out of town over the weekend and encouraged me “take care of his wife” while he was gone. I obliged and fucked his wife I don’t know how many times. She was a little freak. What a great weekend!

There was one little hitch though. I recorded a considerable amount and sent it to him which he liked. All but one anyway. His wife wanted anal so I fucked her ass. Apparently she hasn’t let him do it so he got pretty pissed. He called and let us know what he thought. Almost accusing something else was going on between us. She got him calmed down and he apologized but I thought it was pretty weird.

I attached the troublemaking video

 

[Custer Laststand]

My buddy was out of town over the weekend and encouraged me “take care of his wife” while he was gone. I obliged and fucked his wife I don’t know how many times.

Good work!

She was a little freak. What a great weekend!

Excellent! Sounds like she's very responsive.

There was one little hitch though. I recorded a considerable amount and sent it to him which he liked. All but one anyway. His wife wanted anal so I fucked her ass.

Also good work! You satisfied her desire by giving her what she wanted.

Apparently she hasn’t let him do it so he got pretty pissed. He called and let us know what he thought. Almost accusing [us that] something else was going on between us. She got him calmed down and he apologized, but I thought it was pretty weird.

You might remind your friend, at some appropriate time, of your agreement with him as stated in your initial post:

"I asked about boundaries and he said it’s our sex so do it however we want. He just wants to know all about it and get pictures/videos."

Thus, fucking his wife up her ass, which she wanted, fell within the terms of your agreement with him.

You might also mention to your friend that it's common for a married woman to do things with her lover that she refuses to do with her (cuckolded) husband. The reason, apparently, is: she doesn't want the word to get around among other potential lovers that she's uptight about any form of sex, which might reduce her desirability. With her husband, however, it's a different matter. She feels a need to be a proper wife, apparently, in order to maintain her stature as the woman of her household.

 

[KristinS]

Most men who fuck me will do my ass after they nutt in my pussy. I suggest you shower early and always ask them if they want to play. U should offer to lick her clitty often and she can hold your head. learn how to read her signals while you are licking her clit, She will have you twice a night. Once in her bed and later during the night in your room. I will resist some when I feel a dick head entering my tiny asshole. Like pushing a golf ball into a sewing thimble. I always give in too and I have had beercan sizes in both holes, Excellent video of u sliding in

 

[KristinS]

He must be really pissed at you for fucking where he is not allowed!!!!I am sure that she had let him inthere since you have broken her cherry there.