she constantly gets compliments or looks from black men. I asked her if she likes it and she is quick to remind me that before she met me, she used to date mostly black men. Lately, i have been asking her more and more about her experiences with them. It actually turns me on thinking about watching her with another. when i asked her about it, she just smiles...so for now, that is not a no right? we have done this kind of thing before, but not for a while....