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Confused MWM

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daveyw32

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Hi:

I hope you can help me figure some things out. I'm 32 and my wife is 29. We've been married for a little over 5 yrs now. I've visited your web site several times over the last couple years. For some reason, I keep coming back. Because I keep coming back, I've also been thinking of encouraging my wife to take a black lover. This thought is very arousing to me and I don't really understand why. I don't think we will ever do this but I can't seem to stop thinking about the possibility of it happening. Why would a faithful husband want this? I'm very confused.

Davey
 
and on the 7th day....

god created the 'White Boy Fantasy"
 
And the very same night he created the black boy's wet dream come to life......
 
ROTFLMAO with love and appreciation for Pooch and Pimp...

Davey, my best guess is that in a former life you were a sexually abusive white slave owner. Now your soul desperately desires balance, forgiveness and to make amends for your former mistakes, as well as to provide your loving wife with some very hot sex.

The stimulation and arousal to sharing your woman might also alternatively, though not necessarily exclusively, come from having in a former life died, promising your wife or lover that if there was any way to come back to her you would. That woman then has a child with a subsequent husband or lover, and that child is you. As an infant you had to psychologically find a way to content and satisfy yourself with the knowledge and/or witnessing your former lover making love to her new husband/lover, again perhaps in front of you while you were an infant, wrongly imagined by many to not yet be perceptive. That could strongly shape some of your approach to sexual desire and satisfaction.

Yet another possibility is that in a former, probably recent, life you had taken a vow of celibacy (for example... a Catholic priest, nun or monk) and had either successfully or unsuccessfully learned Divine appreciation of Sexuality from the viewpoint of a non-participant.

Submitted for your consideration, Davey,

Love, peace and Harmony,

The Hubby of Roaming Wife
 
Davey there is nothing wrong with you. I think all white guys at some point have a fantasy about their girl going black. Some go for the cuckolding, some the swinging and for others it is a fantasy thats pices up their love lifes. Decide which one you want - write down the pros and cons of each. I think you should become a cuckold and encourge your beuatiful wife to go black _ but I am biased lol. Any pics of your wife you could share?
 
Finally told my wife

I finally got the nerve to tell her what I was interested in. She didn't believe me at first but asked me last weekend if I was serious. I took a deep breath and said "yes". She wanted to know why I wanted her to be with a black man. I told her I wanted her to have that very enjoyable experience if she wanted to have it. She just looked at me for a while and I told her to just htink about it. She hasn't brought it up since.
 
The First Time

When a white man actually listens to his partner talking on the phone with a potential lover about there date. This is so bizarre and yet so damn sexy. When partner is actually fingering her pussy and licking her fingers that is when you know she is "gone.

I gravitated to the cuckold side. I enjoy seeing him come in her as much as I enjoy cleaning up afterwards. Both.

Enough for now, I think you get my point.

C
 
Davey, I am very proud of you for giving your wife the chance to take a lover.
 
It is indeed a strange phenomenon and chock full of conflicting, confusing emotions. I analyzed my interest in this particular fetish to the point of an aneurism. The most liberating thing I ever did was stop analyzing and questioning. Once I embraced it and said, "I like this, so the fuck what!" That's when I became emancipated.
 
No doubt you are masterbating while you surf this site and other interracial sites as well. This reinforces the pleasure you derive. Don't worry, soon enough this is all you will focus on sexually. Welcome... Visit often, find friends and embrace the desire. You'll find nothing more pleasurable. We promise.
 
I don't know where to start other than saying you are not alone. We started with swinging but very soon I realized too that I got more pleasure out of watching her - especially with black men - than I did with a couple swap. Soon we migrated to her dating black men. There are so many reasons for it that I don't have time to detail them all right now but I think it does have some natural roots and is not off the wall to feel that way.
 
Its good that you told her about your fantasy...that was a tough one for me too. I have been loving IR for 8 years now and only 3 years ago did I slowly let my wife in on my desires for her to go black. It was akward at first, but now she will openly tell me she wants to be a slut for Black, make me watch, etc.

You have planted a seed and if she is like most white girls she will start to want it as well. Hopefully soon your wife will be "Black only"!!
 
I want to thank everyone for giving me some feedback. I had no idea that others shared my desires and feelings. I still dont really understand why this is such an addicting fantasy but I can't get it out of my mind. I even think about it when my wife an I have sex but I haven't mentioned it too her again.
 
davey
keep talking to her. don't let it get stale. ask her what she's thinking. bring it up in her ear during foreplay. ask her if she has thought about it. just keep the communication open. it is the only thing that will keep your relationship alive. talk to each other and don't hide it. secrecy will ruin the whole thing.
 
daveyw32 said:
I want to thank everyone for giving me some feedback. I had no idea that others shared my desires and feelings. I still dont really understand why this is such an addicting fantasy but I can't get it out of my mind. I even think about it when my wife an I have sex but I haven't mentioned it too her again.
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Who cares why u think about it? Just make sure your wife thinks about it.
 
Up to Now

I just wanted to tell everyone that my wife and I have really imporeved our sex life by pretending that shes taking a black lover. She seems to be enjoying my fantasy more now and I'm thinking about asking her if she would like to do it for real. I can't believe how erotic this is.
 
KP Hub Here

Hey Davey,
There is nothing wrong with your fantasy, many of us share it. Unlike the many that are on here, I am not a "cuck" in the way it seems to be implied here, I guess by true definition I am, but I have NO desire to touch her bulls, perform clean up duty (not that she does bareback) or be verbally degraded. It's just an extreme turn on to see her receiving and giving others pleasure. Similar to "atlcpl" we started years ago swinging and with other white males, I found "darkcavern.com" ond other "wanderer", etc and was hooked. I brought it up and at first she was hesitant, "Irish Catholic" upbringing. You may want to pick up some IR porn and talk / touch while watching, this seemed to help me. One thing you do not want to do is pester her too much about it, but also you do not want to topic die, bring it up occassionally. I'm sure with a little patience you will reap the benifits. Hopefully you are sure this is something you truely want? Converting a fantasy into reality may seem applealing, but there is no going back....You must be secure and make sure she beleives that that this huge step will not jeopardize you relationship.

Best of Luck!
 
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my wife

I have been discussing this during sex with my wife for over a year now.She hasn'tdone anything for real yet but the way she talks to me is getting very hot.She tells me I'm small and she needs more to fill her up.She loves to tell me how much she would enjoy a big black mans cock while i could only watch .I coached her for a while now she is an expert.
 
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whether its fantasy or real, if t helps ur relationship, its all good, as long as you having fun..thats what sex is all about. i dont have stats to back this up, but I'm sure way more people / couples fantasize then actually do anything.
 
next step

I wonder what it will take to move my wife to the next level? I'm an really addicted to the idea of her humiliating me with a big black man.I want to see her enjoy intercourse sex again.
 
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