I am new to this experimentation with my husband and need some sound advice. My husband has introduced me to his fantasy world and I really don't understand alot of it although I'm trying, I just don't get it. I guess the part that is hard to relate to is that he wants me to be with other men, particularly big black men. I am not the sort of women who can just be physical with someone who I don't care about and it's difficult for me to give in to all of this. I guess you can say I'm a one woman man and I take my marital vows very seriously. I can pretend to be doing things he wants me to but that's about as far as it will go. Can anyone out there help me understand why my husband feels the need to be shamed and made felt less of a man than he is? He really is all I want but he won't let me tell him that. I know there's a fine line between fantasy and reality but I'm just having a hard time figuring all this out. Please help!
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PLEASE don't believe all the b.s. in here about how much your husband cares about you having a "true" sexual experience. He's not thinking of you...he's thinking about himself. Good sex doesn't exist ONLY with black men (contrary to what many people on here think). Be true to yourself....and if hubby doesn't respect your vows, then get a good divorce lawyer.
As a cuckold wannabe, maybe I can shed some light on the matter for you. I know in my case, I want to see my wife with someone else (preferably a well hung black guy) partly for myself but mostly for her. I know from talking to her that she loves the way I eat her pussy (she says I am the best pussy eater she has ever had), but I also know that I don't measure up to a lot of her ex-studs. I am on the low end of average when it comes to cock size. And I am definitely not as long lasting as she would like to have. She has never cum from me fucking her because I always cum before she gets there. She has always told me that my cock is "fine" for her, but she has also admitted that she prefers larger than me (her favorite was almost 10in long and as thick as her wrist) and longer lasting than I am. She has also told me that when it comes to just the physical side of fucking, I am far from the best that she has had. She has also told me that she is quite different when she is having sex with black guys and I would love to see HOW different. Mind you, a lot of this information has come out over the years. Some of these things she has told me since I told her that I wanted to see her with someone else. When we started out talking about perhaps her being with someone else, SHE was the one that brought up it having to be with a black guy. I asked her why, and she told me some of the things about her past, and about how much she used to love getting black fucked (and how much she has been missing it since). Personally, I get off thinking about her taking some new cock. But a lot of that is wanting to see her completely fulfilled sexually. I know from what she has told me that she is satisfied with our sex life. But there is a difference between being satisfied, and being totally fulfilled. (Kinda like you can be satisfied having a hamburger to eat, but you would be totally fulfilled by having filet mignon.) And I would love to see her having that complete fulfillment.
I don't know if any of that makes any sense or not. But hopefully it helps some. If you have any specific questions, please feel free to email me. nadly1@hotmail.com
And just so you know, my wife feels much the same way that you do. Although she gets very hot when we talk about it (and when we talk about her past guys), she has yet to go for it since we have been married. We have come close a few times, but she has backed out before it happened.
I don't know if any of that makes any sense or not. But hopefully it helps some. If you have any specific questions, please feel free to email me. nadly1@hotmail.com
And just so you know, my wife feels much the same way that you do. Although she gets very hot when we talk about it (and when we talk about her past guys), she has yet to go for it since we have been married. We have come close a few times, but she has backed out before it happened.
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Your husband is a pervert first and foremost.
As charitable as his sales pitch regarding this issue might seem, the ultimate thrill in your agreeing to be with another man sexually is going to be his.
Aside from this, he wants you to know a sexual experience that exceeds anything you've every known. This part of it is most lieky true. But it all depends on the guy you're with. Some black guys really leave you wondering what the big deal is, lol!
If you agree to do this, do it without him watching, that'll teach him to pimp his wife out, lol!
Bottom line... if you don't want to do this, don't do it!
If you haven't already noticed, you're going to see a side of your man that is rather unmasculine and probably pathetic. It will worsen to the point where he will no longer be a real man in your eyes.
Sadly, that's what alot of these guys want and trust me, it ruins alot of marriages.
Look, this website is alot of fun, but don't let the glamour of sleeping with another man for all the wrong reasons fool you. I have done it and I have liked it at times and hated it at others.
Stick to your guns.
Good luck!
As charitable as his sales pitch regarding this issue might seem, the ultimate thrill in your agreeing to be with another man sexually is going to be his.
Aside from this, he wants you to know a sexual experience that exceeds anything you've every known. This part of it is most lieky true. But it all depends on the guy you're with. Some black guys really leave you wondering what the big deal is, lol!
If you agree to do this, do it without him watching, that'll teach him to pimp his wife out, lol!
Bottom line... if you don't want to do this, don't do it!
If you haven't already noticed, you're going to see a side of your man that is rather unmasculine and probably pathetic. It will worsen to the point where he will no longer be a real man in your eyes.
Sadly, that's what alot of these guys want and trust me, it ruins alot of marriages.
Look, this website is alot of fun, but don't let the glamour of sleeping with another man for all the wrong reasons fool you. I have done it and I have liked it at times and hated it at others.
Stick to your guns.
Good luck!
Ezap... To better understand cuckolding you must at first release your mind of all old patterns like one-man only woman, real man is only the man that satisfies sexually a woman, and so on... You must to be a open minded about sex as a physical relation between one human being with another (or among human beings - more than 2) that brings satisfaction for them. The old way to see the sex as a one man and one woman, conected by marrige, that have sexual intercourse must to be left behind. To really understand your husband you must be no prejudist about sex in general and keep in mind that there is more than one way to have sexual satisfaction the goes beyond the sexual intercourse. Your husband probably is thinking about himself (because he will have a satisfaction in see or just know that you are having sex with other men) and about you (because the real cuckold wants that his wife have a good or even better sex with other men than with him). Some women would say that have the authorization of the husband to have sex with other men would be the best thing in their lives and in a perfect world I thing that everybody could have sex with any person independable of the commitments as marriage or things like that because the individual pleasure will prevail above all those things. It's a dream, I know. But not a impossible one. A lot of couples in world live their lives as an open relation where any of them can have sex with other people. Easy. For sure not because the couple must to leave all the "possession" feeling that one have in relation to the other. And the "possession" feeling (that most people confuses as love) is the most difficult barrier that you have to cross to go to an upper level sexually speaking. These are only some thoughts to make you think about. It's my way of think and I'm happy with it. But it's controversial, I know. Read it and have your own conclusions about it. As a final word, think about this too: it's better to regret about the things that you did than the things that you didn't.
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yes as a husband who would like his wife to do teh same i have an insight into it. nearly all females want to be loved -or even owned!- by one male its sexy and comforting to them. some do er shop around and thats always been normal. if a wife really dont want to sleep with other me then ( as y wife didnt) it wont work as it will driev a wedge between oyu and you will find oyu dont love him anymore ( we nearly divorced).
he is feeling inadequate and probably has a slighlty smaller dick than most a this often prompts a feeling that an another guy will please a wife better and he can relax no longer having to coem up to the task etc.
its nearly always a man who is feeing inferior and often ats liek a wimp in real life letting wife sort out arguments etc.
if oyu are against this it wont work. he doe slove oyu but tehre is a real risk once u do try this he will want to continue forever. if oyu are undecided it best not to go down that route or if oyu do then do it without him knowing and see how oyu feel about before!! doing it with him knowing etc that way oyu can at least stand back and say -not for me- or hmm maybe we should try that for a year and then lok at it again. its a risk to a marriage though and can be very addictive to both parties so be warned. nuff said good luck and dont do anything oyu are not comfortable with and oyu have o live with the consequences.
yes as a husband who would like his wife to do teh same i have an insight into it. nearly all females want to be loved -or even owned!- by one male its sexy and comforting to them. some do er shop around and thats always been normal. if a wife really dont want to sleep with other me then ( as y wife didnt) it wont work as it will driev a wedge between oyu and you will find oyu dont love him anymore ( we nearly divorced).
he is feeling inadequate and probably has a slighlty smaller dick than most a this often prompts a feeling that an another guy will please a wife better and he can relax no longer having to coem up to the task etc.
its nearly always a man who is feeing inferior and often ats liek a wimp in real life letting wife sort out arguments etc.
if oyu are against this it wont work. he doe slove oyu but tehre is a real risk once u do try this he will want to continue forever. if oyu are undecided it best not to go down that route or if oyu do then do it without him knowing and see how oyu feel about before!! doing it with him knowing etc that way oyu can at least stand back and say -not for me- or hmm maybe we should try that for a year and then lok at it again. its a risk to a marriage though and can be very addictive to both parties so be warned. nuff said good luck and dont do anything oyu are not comfortable with and oyu have o live with the consequences.
I am new to this and often wonder what IS in it for the husbands?
I think swapping would be ok as say my wife would be with a black man and I would be with a black woman and the experience could be fun but I wonder what my satisfaction would be from just her having sex?
Wouldnt it be true that if a wife is willing to have sex with other men in front of her husband that she would be willing to meet these men and others for sex away from her husband and begin affairs and possibly a relationship with one?
To me that would be so harmful to the husband that I question why one would enter that realm.
I am curious but very,very unsure. Admittedly I enjoy all that I see but to really do this would take me becoming weak and I am not sure I could do such a thing.
I am curious to know if from those couples who do engage in this, if any of my fears are true and what does the husband get sexually?
I think swapping would be ok as say my wife would be with a black man and I would be with a black woman and the experience could be fun but I wonder what my satisfaction would be from just her having sex?
Wouldnt it be true that if a wife is willing to have sex with other men in front of her husband that she would be willing to meet these men and others for sex away from her husband and begin affairs and possibly a relationship with one?
To me that would be so harmful to the husband that I question why one would enter that realm.
I am curious but very,very unsure. Admittedly I enjoy all that I see but to really do this would take me becoming weak and I am not sure I could do such a thing.
I am curious to know if from those couples who do engage in this, if any of my fears are true and what does the husband get sexually?
Ezop101 said:I am new to this experimentation with my husband and need some sound advice. My husband has introduced me to his fantasy world and I really don't understand alot of it although I'm trying, I just don't get it. I guess the part that is hard to relate to is that he wants me to be with other men, particularly big black men. I am not the sort of women who can just be physical with someone who I don't care about and it's difficult for me to give in to all of this. I guess you can say I'm a one woman man and I take my marital vows very seriously. I can pretend to be doing things he wants me to but that's about as far as it will go. Can anyone out there help me understand why my husband feels the need to be shamed and made felt less of a man than he is? He really is all I want but he won't let me tell him that. I know there's a fine line between fantasy and reality but I'm just having a hard time figuring all this out. Please help!
I previously suggested you read "Guidlines for Other Hotwives" but decided to post it for you.
By Evangelina Vargas
{Several months ago, I posted "Guidelines for Happily Married Hotwives." Here is my advice for the rest of you.}
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OK, many of you have heard about "hot wives," married white women who take lovers, generally hunky young black studs. It sounds sexy but a little scary, too. You have lots of questions and uncertainties and many of you have written to my brother, Homer Vargas for advice. Well, he has asked me to respond because this is something better handled between us girls. With three grown white daughters who so far have given me eight milk chocolate grandchildren, three biracial children of my own by as many black men, and another brown bun in the oven right now, I've "been there done that."
Probably your first question is "Why should I become a "hot wife?" There are many reasons but the most important one is, love. You have a husband who loves you. He may be a little wimpy, but he's been a good provider and you love him and want to please him, to make him happy. You think that he might like a hotwife, but maybe you are not sure that's what he wants you to be. What if he thinks you are a slut? Put that out of your mind. If your husband loves you, he wants you to be a hotwife. What he may not want is the consequences of getting what he wants. But that's a problem for another day.
Love for your husband is not enough, however, to become a hotwife. Although you may want to please him, it's also a matter of elementary justice. You deserve to be a hotwife. You have been at his side for years, encouraging him to make more money, telling him how to dress, pointing out his faults, doing more than your share of the housework, telling him pointless stories in endless detail about people he does not know. He should love you above all other women and want you to be happy. Naturally, his pathetic recent attempts to "make love to you" (when you need to be FUCKED) with his teeny wienie cannot satisfy a total woman like you. What you need is a magnificent black cock and a real man that knows how to use it.
In addition, being a hotwife should be a mater of personal fulfillment. You are a woman and you want to be the best, the sexiest, the most feminine woman possible. Striving to become a hotwife -- an ever hotter hotwife - for your black lover will give meaning and purpose to your life, releasing you from self centeredness and ennui.
Then, too, being a hotwife is a very healthy lifestyle. To become and remain a hotwife, you will have to exercise daily, watch what you eat, maintain your body in top form. Dieting and physical fitness will not seem like a chore when you know you are honing your body for your black lover's sexual gratification. You are his "sex object" and you want to be the best possible one!
But the most important reason is you! You need more sex than hubby can provide. You need excitement, adventure, the thrill of the forbidden. You want to feel alive and desirable and desired by a macho bull that can give you multiple orgasms that make your body tremble and your senses shiver. And of course the only way to experience this buzz is by being "taken" by a black man.
Now that you have articulated the reasons to become a hotwife, the important question is "how." How do you find and attract a young black lover? First, and this is almost too elementary to mention but many women miss this point, you need to show that you want it: you want to make love, to have sex, to fuck, screw, boff, shag, get it on, "do it" with him every chance he gives you.
Almost more important than the frequency and nastiness (we'll get to that later) of sex is to make sure your black lover understands that you want sex it because HE is a macho sexy African god stud. You are not doing him a favor. These are not the little mercy fucks like you used to allow your husband. You are fucking him because you can't help yourself. You are insane with lust. He turns you on. He makes you want sex. He makes you NEED sex! You are a helpless sex slave to his black cock!
Now let's talk about what kind of sex to have with your lover starting with what kind not to have. It will NOT be the kind you had with your husband: once a week (if he was lucky) in the bedroom, missionary position, lights out, "think of England" silent and immobile while he squirted his watery seed in you. No! Your black lover makes you burn with such lust that you will want him to take you in the back seats of taxis, in nightclub washrooms, in dark corners at parties, in parking garage stairwells, seedy tenements, where you work. At your home, you will want it on the living room rug, on the dining table, bending over in the kitchen, draped over the back of the sofa in the family room, in the shower and especially in the bed where your husband used to sleep. When his great cock is in you, you will writhe in passion and scream with abandon, uncaring that other know you are being mated.
Although you would never allow your husband to do something that "nasty," you enjoy having your lover eat your pussy if he so chooses. (You know he's warming you up for a royal rogering.) But then you have an almost irresistible desire to suck and worship his cock, swallowing greedily, always allowing a bit to drool out of your mouth to make him think he is "too much" for you. <g> I say "almost irrestible" because even for a bull, every load of cum in your mouth is one less in your needy pussy. With your lover, you are multi-orgasmic, although you never let yourself go with your husband. Your lover's black cock in your white pussy makes you a moaner and a groaner and a squealer and a screamer when you orgasm. You claw his back in ecstasy. You like it doggie style, riding his cock, legs bent behind your head or heels (6" stilettos) in the air. He can call you every filthy name in the book if it gets you a harder cock and a more cum pumped into your thirsty pussy. Your performance will put every porn movie ever made to shame.
Continued ...
Hotwoves, Ctd.
Because you so desperately want your lover to fuck you all the time, you will do whatever it takes to excite him, to entice him, to make him want to put his marvelous cock in you. This means taking the initiative, working to seduce him! (But you must never be demanding; a true black stud has many white wives to service and it is HIS prerogative whom he fucks and when!) You will want to dress in all that sexy nightwear and scandalous casual wear your husband always tried unsuccessfully to get you to wear to signal your constant horniness for your new lover. Seldom is total nudity best. Always keep on a necklace, bracelets, and of course your wedding ring and heels during sex. Cleanliness is good and perfume is great, but never wash off or cover up the womanly scent of an aroused pussy. Be proud of how wet he makes you and put up with the mess, before and after. He enjoys it.
Of course you do not stop being a hotwife when your lover is not around. A true hotwife would not be able to go through the long periods her lover is off fucking other women, if she did not have toys to keep her sane. Large back dildos and vibrators will keep you simmering and ready for his return. Masturbation is also important to help you become or remain multi-orgasmic. And of course he likes to know that while he is away, you are missing him so badly you need a large cylindrical black object up your twat. He will probably enjoy calling you and making you masturbate where the risk of being caught is great as a way to show his control of your sexuality.
Now the next point is not for everyone and not absolutely necessary to be a hotwife, but many hotwives become strongly bi. Girl/girl sex, maybe with another of your lover's girlfriends, is a great way to pass the long lonely days when your lover is off taking care of other women in his harem, but it is also a great way to bring other white wives into your lover's web. I have found nothing pleases my lover more than seeing me with my tongue in the pussy of a little unblacked honey, making her so horny she'll do anything for her next cum. In a flash he is in bed with his cock rammed in her pussy and —boom -- one more little white wife has become a slave to black sex.
So far we have discussed what you need to do in private. Being a hotwife, however, is as much or more about how you behave in public as it is about what you do when you are alone with your lover (or with him and one or two other women). If there is one golden rule of hotwife public behavior it is: DRESS THE PART. When you go out, remember you are NOT dressing for yourself. Nor are you are dressing down any longer for other women as most women are prone to do — who cares if they think you're a slut? You are a slut and proud of it! And you are certainly not dressing for your husband. You choose clothes to attract and please a black lover.
Dressing for a black lover takes more time and work but, take it from me, it will pay off tremendously in the amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own "hotwife attitude". You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like, but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: "Think dress first, skirt second, and pants only as a last resort." This will be a radical change for many women but it's important to remember that black men prefer their women in dresses and skirts, not pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to black men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the hotwife lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.
Now I can already hear the objections. "Oh, Evangelina, I could never wear clothes like that. I'm too [fill in the blank] short, tall, round, thin. Nonsense, girls! The point is not to find women (skinny supermodels) to make clothes look sexy; rather it's to have skimpy, reveling clothes to make women (of all sizes and shapes) look sexy. Believe me, girlfriend, any mature woman in a short, tight dress and a top that shows some boobs looks good to a horny young black man.
What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men love women in sexy lingerie, but black men more so. The colors and styles you may want wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions and rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Bras should maximize your bust size and display as much cleavage as possible
3. Choose thongs or French cut panties; crotchless are best. Avoid white cotton unless you are going for the "Catholic Schoolgirl" look. If you are with men who know you, no panties is the best option.
4. Always wear hosiery. High tops and thigh highs are great for casual wear but stocking held up by corsets or garter belt are best for formal occasion. No pantyhose. If you are like me before I went black, you probably have worn pantyhose all your life, but they are death to being a hotwife. It is practically impossible get fucked on short notice if you are wearing pantyhose. Black men understand this and detest them. Pantyhose say "I'm off limits" -- not the message you want to send when you are horny for back cock. Besides, it's pretty difficult even to finger your self or let a black man finger you, in the damned things. End of sermon. Stockings, however, will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier view of your pussy. Once you get used to wearing stocking, you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting black men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.
The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well, but black men love them. Three-four inches are fine for casual entertaining, but try for four-five inches for nights out. High heel spaghetti strap open-toe sandals are the ultimate "fuck me" shoes.
Jewelry is a must! It should be gaudy, designed to attract the attention you deserve. Earrings should be large and flashy, loopy or dangling. Necklaces should draw black eyes to your heaving bust. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love to know they are taking, not just any horny woman, but another (white) man's wife! Bracelets and rings show you are can be a happy member of your lover's harem. Anklets and toe rings are clear signs that you are a willing hot wife looking for a black bull to fuck. A pierced navel makes a sexy statement: "I'll do anything for sex with a black lover." Long highly polished nails in dark, daring colors help draw black men's attention to you. And this goes for your toes in those high-heel sandals.
Hair is also important. You want a hairstyle that is attractive to black men, not something that is convenient or easy to manage. Generally black men like longer, straight or wavy blond or red hair. The contrast when he is in public with an adoring blonde hanging on his arm is all the more striking and draws the admiration of his friends from the 'hood. If you are not naturally blonde, don't worry. Bleaching your hair for your lover (don't let it look "too" natural) is just another way to show how much you lust for him.
Finally a word on body type. Any "body" can be hot as long as you are neither anorexic nor seriously obese. In general black men like rounder and fuller women that white guys, who in turn like rounder and fuller women than other women do. Before you decided to become a hotwife, you were probably keeping your weight down because of the opinions of other women, so it's likely you may need to put on a few pounds. Don't worry about it, even if you are a little too slim, your lover will probably take it as a challenge to get you into "shape."
Because you so desperately want your lover to fuck you all the time, you will do whatever it takes to excite him, to entice him, to make him want to put his marvelous cock in you. This means taking the initiative, working to seduce him! (But you must never be demanding; a true black stud has many white wives to service and it is HIS prerogative whom he fucks and when!) You will want to dress in all that sexy nightwear and scandalous casual wear your husband always tried unsuccessfully to get you to wear to signal your constant horniness for your new lover. Seldom is total nudity best. Always keep on a necklace, bracelets, and of course your wedding ring and heels during sex. Cleanliness is good and perfume is great, but never wash off or cover up the womanly scent of an aroused pussy. Be proud of how wet he makes you and put up with the mess, before and after. He enjoys it.
Of course you do not stop being a hotwife when your lover is not around. A true hotwife would not be able to go through the long periods her lover is off fucking other women, if she did not have toys to keep her sane. Large back dildos and vibrators will keep you simmering and ready for his return. Masturbation is also important to help you become or remain multi-orgasmic. And of course he likes to know that while he is away, you are missing him so badly you need a large cylindrical black object up your twat. He will probably enjoy calling you and making you masturbate where the risk of being caught is great as a way to show his control of your sexuality.
Now the next point is not for everyone and not absolutely necessary to be a hotwife, but many hotwives become strongly bi. Girl/girl sex, maybe with another of your lover's girlfriends, is a great way to pass the long lonely days when your lover is off taking care of other women in his harem, but it is also a great way to bring other white wives into your lover's web. I have found nothing pleases my lover more than seeing me with my tongue in the pussy of a little unblacked honey, making her so horny she'll do anything for her next cum. In a flash he is in bed with his cock rammed in her pussy and —boom -- one more little white wife has become a slave to black sex.
So far we have discussed what you need to do in private. Being a hotwife, however, is as much or more about how you behave in public as it is about what you do when you are alone with your lover (or with him and one or two other women). If there is one golden rule of hotwife public behavior it is: DRESS THE PART. When you go out, remember you are NOT dressing for yourself. Nor are you are dressing down any longer for other women as most women are prone to do — who cares if they think you're a slut? You are a slut and proud of it! And you are certainly not dressing for your husband. You choose clothes to attract and please a black lover.
Dressing for a black lover takes more time and work but, take it from me, it will pay off tremendously in the amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own "hotwife attitude". You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like, but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: "Think dress first, skirt second, and pants only as a last resort." This will be a radical change for many women but it's important to remember that black men prefer their women in dresses and skirts, not pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to black men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the hotwife lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.
Now I can already hear the objections. "Oh, Evangelina, I could never wear clothes like that. I'm too [fill in the blank] short, tall, round, thin. Nonsense, girls! The point is not to find women (skinny supermodels) to make clothes look sexy; rather it's to have skimpy, reveling clothes to make women (of all sizes and shapes) look sexy. Believe me, girlfriend, any mature woman in a short, tight dress and a top that shows some boobs looks good to a horny young black man.
What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men love women in sexy lingerie, but black men more so. The colors and styles you may want wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions and rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Bras should maximize your bust size and display as much cleavage as possible
3. Choose thongs or French cut panties; crotchless are best. Avoid white cotton unless you are going for the "Catholic Schoolgirl" look. If you are with men who know you, no panties is the best option.
4. Always wear hosiery. High tops and thigh highs are great for casual wear but stocking held up by corsets or garter belt are best for formal occasion. No pantyhose. If you are like me before I went black, you probably have worn pantyhose all your life, but they are death to being a hotwife. It is practically impossible get fucked on short notice if you are wearing pantyhose. Black men understand this and detest them. Pantyhose say "I'm off limits" -- not the message you want to send when you are horny for back cock. Besides, it's pretty difficult even to finger your self or let a black man finger you, in the damned things. End of sermon. Stockings, however, will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier view of your pussy. Once you get used to wearing stocking, you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting black men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.
The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well, but black men love them. Three-four inches are fine for casual entertaining, but try for four-five inches for nights out. High heel spaghetti strap open-toe sandals are the ultimate "fuck me" shoes.
Jewelry is a must! It should be gaudy, designed to attract the attention you deserve. Earrings should be large and flashy, loopy or dangling. Necklaces should draw black eyes to your heaving bust. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love to know they are taking, not just any horny woman, but another (white) man's wife! Bracelets and rings show you are can be a happy member of your lover's harem. Anklets and toe rings are clear signs that you are a willing hot wife looking for a black bull to fuck. A pierced navel makes a sexy statement: "I'll do anything for sex with a black lover." Long highly polished nails in dark, daring colors help draw black men's attention to you. And this goes for your toes in those high-heel sandals.
Hair is also important. You want a hairstyle that is attractive to black men, not something that is convenient or easy to manage. Generally black men like longer, straight or wavy blond or red hair. The contrast when he is in public with an adoring blonde hanging on his arm is all the more striking and draws the admiration of his friends from the 'hood. If you are not naturally blonde, don't worry. Bleaching your hair for your lover (don't let it look "too" natural) is just another way to show how much you lust for him.
Finally a word on body type. Any "body" can be hot as long as you are neither anorexic nor seriously obese. In general black men like rounder and fuller women that white guys, who in turn like rounder and fuller women than other women do. Before you decided to become a hotwife, you were probably keeping your weight down because of the opinions of other women, so it's likely you may need to put on a few pounds. Don't worry about it, even if you are a little too slim, your lover will probably take it as a challenge to get you into "shape."
Hotwives, continued
Being a hotwife, however, is more than just looks; it's also how you act.
In a situation where you are trying to catch a black man's eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and bounce the top leg on the lower one, perhaps pointing the toe of your shoe. If you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let the skirt ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In clubs a woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked.
Apply and reapply lipstick. Black men want to see signs that you can't wait to suck cock and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over -- from the waist, never bend your knees. (That's what those expensive sessions in the gym are for.)
Touch and smile.
When dancing (probably the closest you can get to having sex in public), move your lover's hands to your ass and press close to him during slow dances. If you can feel his cock, he can feel your nipples. Don't be shy about letting everyone see you come on his thick, thrusting finger. With white guys, let them handle the merchandise, tantalizing them with what they can't have it. Fast dances give you the opportunity to whirl and twirl and flash your pretty panties, if you have any, or your pettier pussy if you do not.
If a black man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties. If he compliments your dress; tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine and wet he makes you feel.
Hang on your lover. Rub up against him. Nibble his ear. Gaze at him adoringly. Demonstrate to onlookers how eager you are for him to fuck you.
Do not hesitate to sneak off with your lover to do the dirty during a public event. Sex in public (except in all black clubs) may not be a good idea, but it's sexy to be seen scurrying off with your lover, letting everyone figure out you can't endure another minute without his big black cock in you. Return flushed and disheveled with semen running down your leg.
When you leave a social event, make sure everyone knows it's because you are horny and need your lover to take you out and fuck your little brains out before you attack someone.
I assume that for financial security, sentiment, or just inertia, you intend to remain married to your white husband. This is good because many of the young black me you are likely to meet will have only menial jobs because of their prison records. He'll expect you to contribute to support him and his other girlfriends, so he will not press you to leave your husband. Once you have a black lover, however, it is important to show hubby his place. You will no longer fuck him regularly, if you ever did. Most hotwives, angry at years of sexual frustration, will cut him off completely. Some kind-hearted wives will occasionally give him a mercy fuck if he does something especially deserving. Of course you will NEVER give your husband a blowjob, nor will you ever give him a full tongue kiss. You mouth, (and your ass), if not your pussy, is reserved exclusively for your lover's black cock. You should, of course, demand your husband's enthusiastic lip service on your pussy after it's been pounded by your black lover. Most husbands can be trained to love this chore and come to crave eating the cum of their wife's black lover from her gushing gash.
Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. For him, wear loose trousers, granny panties, and pantyhose with low or no heels. He needs to know a woman dresses to please a real man; not him. Never miss an opportunity to have your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or dresses for you to wear for your lover -- the kind he used to try to get you to wear for him -- is also a good way to drive him wild. A trip by the three of you to a specialty shop where you model sexy garments for your black lover while making your white hubby pay can be a lot of fun.
Make your husband keep your wardrobe in order and rinse out your lingerie. (He'll spend hours of lonely frustration sniffing the aroma of your pussy juices mixed with your lover's cum on your panties.) Make him do housework when you are out with other men. Always tell him how wonderful your lovers are in bed, how large their cocks are, how many times they make you come, and how much you enjoy pleasing them.
Call your husband while you are with another man. Make him listen to the squishy sounds of your lover plowing your pussy deep and hard or have your lover tell him all the things you will do for him that you would never do for your husband.
There are many other issues in how to treat your husband -- should he be allowed to watch, should he be sissified, etc. -- but I cannot go into all of them here.
Being a hotwife, however, is more than just looks; it's also how you act.
In a situation where you are trying to catch a black man's eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and bounce the top leg on the lower one, perhaps pointing the toe of your shoe. If you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let the skirt ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In clubs a woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked.
Apply and reapply lipstick. Black men want to see signs that you can't wait to suck cock and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over -- from the waist, never bend your knees. (That's what those expensive sessions in the gym are for.)
Touch and smile.
When dancing (probably the closest you can get to having sex in public), move your lover's hands to your ass and press close to him during slow dances. If you can feel his cock, he can feel your nipples. Don't be shy about letting everyone see you come on his thick, thrusting finger. With white guys, let them handle the merchandise, tantalizing them with what they can't have it. Fast dances give you the opportunity to whirl and twirl and flash your pretty panties, if you have any, or your pettier pussy if you do not.
If a black man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties. If he compliments your dress; tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine and wet he makes you feel.
Hang on your lover. Rub up against him. Nibble his ear. Gaze at him adoringly. Demonstrate to onlookers how eager you are for him to fuck you.
Do not hesitate to sneak off with your lover to do the dirty during a public event. Sex in public (except in all black clubs) may not be a good idea, but it's sexy to be seen scurrying off with your lover, letting everyone figure out you can't endure another minute without his big black cock in you. Return flushed and disheveled with semen running down your leg.
When you leave a social event, make sure everyone knows it's because you are horny and need your lover to take you out and fuck your little brains out before you attack someone.
I assume that for financial security, sentiment, or just inertia, you intend to remain married to your white husband. This is good because many of the young black me you are likely to meet will have only menial jobs because of their prison records. He'll expect you to contribute to support him and his other girlfriends, so he will not press you to leave your husband. Once you have a black lover, however, it is important to show hubby his place. You will no longer fuck him regularly, if you ever did. Most hotwives, angry at years of sexual frustration, will cut him off completely. Some kind-hearted wives will occasionally give him a mercy fuck if he does something especially deserving. Of course you will NEVER give your husband a blowjob, nor will you ever give him a full tongue kiss. You mouth, (and your ass), if not your pussy, is reserved exclusively for your lover's black cock. You should, of course, demand your husband's enthusiastic lip service on your pussy after it's been pounded by your black lover. Most husbands can be trained to love this chore and come to crave eating the cum of their wife's black lover from her gushing gash.
Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. For him, wear loose trousers, granny panties, and pantyhose with low or no heels. He needs to know a woman dresses to please a real man; not him. Never miss an opportunity to have your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or dresses for you to wear for your lover -- the kind he used to try to get you to wear for him -- is also a good way to drive him wild. A trip by the three of you to a specialty shop where you model sexy garments for your black lover while making your white hubby pay can be a lot of fun.
Make your husband keep your wardrobe in order and rinse out your lingerie. (He'll spend hours of lonely frustration sniffing the aroma of your pussy juices mixed with your lover's cum on your panties.) Make him do housework when you are out with other men. Always tell him how wonderful your lovers are in bed, how large their cocks are, how many times they make you come, and how much you enjoy pleasing them.
Call your husband while you are with another man. Make him listen to the squishy sounds of your lover plowing your pussy deep and hard or have your lover tell him all the things you will do for him that you would never do for your husband.
There are many other issues in how to treat your husband -- should he be allowed to watch, should he be sissified, etc. -- but I cannot go into all of them here.
Hotwives,
All of the above are fundamental to being a hotwife, but there is one thing that tops it all. Pregnancy! All those sexy things you wear -- skirts, heels, stocking -- and all the sexy things you do -- dancing, teasing, flashing -- are twice as exciting when done by a woman with a belly bulging with her black lover's bastard child. You should realize that having your lover's baby, or babies, is not an optional part of being a hotwife. You lover WILL want to bred you. It may not be immediately, but the day will come when he will demand that your pills be flushed down the toilet, IUD removed, or diaphragm put back in its box. (He will never have used a condom, anyway.) He will want to fill your fertile, unprotected pussy with his potent seed. He wants to see you swollen with his child, your white breasts filling with milk for the black baby he put in your tummy. If he had not seen in you the potential to make bi-racial babies for him, he would never have chosen you.
The night your lover makes you pregnant for the first time is the peak experience in the life of a hotwife! You may be reluctant at first, but it will make no difference to a young back man. You can't say no to his massive cock. Lat all the others, you will open your legs to black insemination. As his huge back cock slides into your wet white pussy, all resistance will evaporate.
Even if your lover does not ordinarily like to have your husband around when he's fucking you, he will probably want him to watch you getting knocked up. He will want your husband's acquiescence that his sexy white wife will bear the offspring of a superior black man. Hubby is going to be changing the diapers of this baby, taking care if him all those nights you are out having fun with your lover or working on the next baby; it's only fair he should get to see you begging for your lover's semen, sobbing for him to put his black baby in you.
Once you are pregnant by your black lover, you will want to flaunt it. Start wearing maternity clothes -- outrageously sexy, revealing maternity clothes -- as soon as the rabbit dies. Some women wear garments saying "Black Baby Inside." That's OK if you are fourteen, but I think that's a little tacky for a mature hotwife. People will find out you are preggers soon enough when he takes you out public and runs his hands up under your maternity dress to rub your bulge. Hint to your friends that you never intended to let your black man get you pregnant, but <giggle, sigh> once he decided to knock you up, you could not refuse to have his baby. End of discussion. Now of course you are proud and excited to know he chose you to have one of his black babies. Always say "this black baby" or refer to it by number, implying that this is just the first or most recent offspring; your lover may be planning to keep you in maternity clothes until you are 60. (You wish! After three or four babies, he is likely to become tired of you and move on to breed other white wives. You must accept this and try to find another, probably even younger, lover.)
Hold, pat, and rub your swollen belly at every opportunity. Cultivate a dopey, fucked-out-of-it expression, especially when your lover takes you out in public, parading your bulging tummy for all to see and know that the black man at your side is cuckolding your husband. Tell the wives of your husband's friends how knowing you are pregnant with your lover's black baby has sent your libido through the roof. It will get back to their men who will want to shoot themselves in fear and frustration. And you may be able to recruit some of them into becoming hotwives, too.
A final word on age. You are never too old to become a hotwife. It's even more important, in fact, if you have taken a younger man as your lover. Although your dresses may not be quite as short now as when you were in Jr. High fucking all the black boys on the football team, the fact that a woman of thirty five or forty or fifty is besotted with and obviously getting fucked silly by a well-hung young black stud is hotter than any twenty-year old in full slutwear. And this goes in spades once he has you pregnant. Imagine your gray-at-the-temples husband in the middle of a multimillion dollar negotiation when he pleads, "Can we roll this up pretty soon, TJ? My wife's about to drop her black lover's third baby and I want go home to see him sent her off to the hospital with her pussy full of his cum for luck!"
Happy hotwifing,
Evangelina
All of the above are fundamental to being a hotwife, but there is one thing that tops it all. Pregnancy! All those sexy things you wear -- skirts, heels, stocking -- and all the sexy things you do -- dancing, teasing, flashing -- are twice as exciting when done by a woman with a belly bulging with her black lover's bastard child. You should realize that having your lover's baby, or babies, is not an optional part of being a hotwife. You lover WILL want to bred you. It may not be immediately, but the day will come when he will demand that your pills be flushed down the toilet, IUD removed, or diaphragm put back in its box. (He will never have used a condom, anyway.) He will want to fill your fertile, unprotected pussy with his potent seed. He wants to see you swollen with his child, your white breasts filling with milk for the black baby he put in your tummy. If he had not seen in you the potential to make bi-racial babies for him, he would never have chosen you.
The night your lover makes you pregnant for the first time is the peak experience in the life of a hotwife! You may be reluctant at first, but it will make no difference to a young back man. You can't say no to his massive cock. Lat all the others, you will open your legs to black insemination. As his huge back cock slides into your wet white pussy, all resistance will evaporate.
Even if your lover does not ordinarily like to have your husband around when he's fucking you, he will probably want him to watch you getting knocked up. He will want your husband's acquiescence that his sexy white wife will bear the offspring of a superior black man. Hubby is going to be changing the diapers of this baby, taking care if him all those nights you are out having fun with your lover or working on the next baby; it's only fair he should get to see you begging for your lover's semen, sobbing for him to put his black baby in you.
Once you are pregnant by your black lover, you will want to flaunt it. Start wearing maternity clothes -- outrageously sexy, revealing maternity clothes -- as soon as the rabbit dies. Some women wear garments saying "Black Baby Inside." That's OK if you are fourteen, but I think that's a little tacky for a mature hotwife. People will find out you are preggers soon enough when he takes you out public and runs his hands up under your maternity dress to rub your bulge. Hint to your friends that you never intended to let your black man get you pregnant, but <giggle, sigh> once he decided to knock you up, you could not refuse to have his baby. End of discussion. Now of course you are proud and excited to know he chose you to have one of his black babies. Always say "this black baby" or refer to it by number, implying that this is just the first or most recent offspring; your lover may be planning to keep you in maternity clothes until you are 60. (You wish! After three or four babies, he is likely to become tired of you and move on to breed other white wives. You must accept this and try to find another, probably even younger, lover.)
Hold, pat, and rub your swollen belly at every opportunity. Cultivate a dopey, fucked-out-of-it expression, especially when your lover takes you out in public, parading your bulging tummy for all to see and know that the black man at your side is cuckolding your husband. Tell the wives of your husband's friends how knowing you are pregnant with your lover's black baby has sent your libido through the roof. It will get back to their men who will want to shoot themselves in fear and frustration. And you may be able to recruit some of them into becoming hotwives, too.
A final word on age. You are never too old to become a hotwife. It's even more important, in fact, if you have taken a younger man as your lover. Although your dresses may not be quite as short now as when you were in Jr. High fucking all the black boys on the football team, the fact that a woman of thirty five or forty or fifty is besotted with and obviously getting fucked silly by a well-hung young black stud is hotter than any twenty-year old in full slutwear. And this goes in spades once he has you pregnant. Imagine your gray-at-the-temples husband in the middle of a multimillion dollar negotiation when he pleads, "Can we roll this up pretty soon, TJ? My wife's about to drop her black lover's third baby and I want go home to see him sent her off to the hospital with her pussy full of his cum for luck!"
Happy hotwifing,
Evangelina
Wedding vows are a contract designed by someone else; and many couples are re-negotiating their promises to each other as the marriage gets dull and boring from the economic pressures of job uncertainty and child raising.
Allowing a wife to have some fun with a new partner can give her a new lease of life and can often strengthen her marriage, because she is no longer emotionally tired out.
A happy, contented wife who is topped up regularly from the attention of two or more men, will usually feel closer to her husband, because he has "allowed her to step outside her marriage" to get her secret fantasies met.
It is always best if the husband remains monogamous and consider the rewqrds of being caged, so as to ensure that when his wife wishes to mate with him, he will have a full prostrate gland full of sperm for her pleasure.
Once a wife has a steady lover, she should bring him home and introduce him to her husband, therefore allowing both men to bond and appreciate each other's role in the marriage.
A husband must remember at all times that his wife's Bull is adding value to the marriage. On nights when the husband sleeps in the spare room, he should wake up early and give his wife/lover breakfast in bed as a mark of respect.
Allowing a wife to have some fun with a new partner can give her a new lease of life and can often strengthen her marriage, because she is no longer emotionally tired out.
A happy, contented wife who is topped up regularly from the attention of two or more men, will usually feel closer to her husband, because he has "allowed her to step outside her marriage" to get her secret fantasies met.
It is always best if the husband remains monogamous and consider the rewqrds of being caged, so as to ensure that when his wife wishes to mate with him, he will have a full prostrate gland full of sperm for her pleasure.
Once a wife has a steady lover, she should bring him home and introduce him to her husband, therefore allowing both men to bond and appreciate each other's role in the marriage.
A husband must remember at all times that his wife's Bull is adding value to the marriage. On nights when the husband sleeps in the spare room, he should wake up early and give his wife/lover breakfast in bed as a mark of respect.
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