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Asiancumlover said:
.... [My wife] fucks a lot more [other] men than I do [other] women.
According to the author of an extensive website on this subject (that no longer exists): Swinger marriages, in which both the wife and husband fuck other partners, have a higher probability of failure than cuckold husband / hotwife marriages, in which the wife dates, seduces, and fucks whomever she wishes, while the cuckold husband agrees to remain faithful to her (and actually does so).
The apparent reason for this is: it's much easier for a married woman to seduce and fuck an unmarried (or married) man than for a married man to seduce and fuck an unmarried (or married) woman, because the married woman is, in effect, offering her potential lover a chance to get something for nothing. No matter how reliable her birth control, it's always possible it will fail, so her lover knows he has a chance, however slim, of impregnating her. If so, and if she doesn't terminate her pregnancy but rather carries it through to child birth, her lover will have succeeded at propagating his genes through to the next generation at no cost to himself — because the costs of raising and educating the resulting child will be borne by the woman's husband and the woman herself. This is the classical advantage to "other men" of fucking a married man's wife.
By contrast, a single (or married) woman who takes on a married man as a lover (such as yourself) does not stand to gain any comparable advantage. Rather, she stands to lose big if she is single but becomes pregnant, or if she is married but her husband leaves her because she has become pregnant due to fucking another man.
Now, consider couples who are swingers. Among such couples, an unstated competition often develops with each trying to "out-score" the other by bedding more partners. The woman usually wins such unstated competitions (easily), for the above reason, which can result in disintegration of the marriage if the man becomes increasingly resentful.
Thus, if you find your relationship with your wife becoming tense, you might consider whether it could be for this reason. If so, you might be able to stabilize your marriage by proposing to your hot and sexy wife a transition to a "cuckold husband / hotwife" form of marriage, in which she continues to date, seduce and fuck whomever she wishes, while you remain faithful to her — thus eliminating the unstated competition between the two of you, and hence the tension in your marriage.