Cuckolds Motive?

[Your wife is MY CUNT]

I've heard from several boyfriends and husbands that they just want to see their woman happy. Of course they'd like to see her sexually satisfied, perhaps in a way they can not give her pleasure. Maby it is just about size, stamina, and assertiveness....

I often wonder the reasons for a white husband wanting to be cucked by a black bull.

Perhaps its wanting to 'share' what they have in a significant other. I can see being proud of what they have in a wife. Feels good to have others verify her beauty and sexual talents. Having another man confirm her attractiveness and prowess in bed is another way of gloating or bragging about the special woman in your life.

Here is another theory, When a wife takes a new lover, in her excitement, she triggers the neurochemicals of a new relationship, bringing home excitement to her husband. It's sort of re-kindling a flame to a relationship that may need the spark of some sexual excitement like that of when a couple first begin dating.

I've also heard references to the voyeuristic turn on. I'm sure its got to be hot to watch the woman you married transform into a complete slut for another man. To be there to watch it happen to her in front of ones own eyes must be an exhilarating high for some men. Those are the type of guys I like to put on a good 'show' for, to appease the voyeur in them.

We've all of course probably heard the theory referring to the biological origin of the cuck fetish. In case yo have not heard this one, it suggests that a husband is prompted by biological urges to "compete" with other men's sperm. The idea is that a deep psychological drive is triggered upon seeing their wife mate with other men, and somehow neurologically their own sperm kick into a sort of chemical overdrive to out preform a lovers semen. Not sure if I buy this one entirely, but it's interesting.

As it goes in a loving relationship, most men can not assume the role of the dominant and overly aggressive male. That's where an outsider is needed to step in and simply 'use' a woman like a piece of meat and completely ravish her. The bull can make references to what a "slut" and "Cunt" she is without regard for hurting feelings within a relationship. A loving and nurturing relationship doesn't always allow for some of the rough treatment sexually a couple can fantasize about, and continue to respect each other later. I on the other hand have no hang ups about humiliating a wife in bed and not have to deal with the blow back the morning after.

Sometimes I think hubbies like me to 'entertain' their wives in the sense of giving their woman a new toy. I don't mind being a sex object for a white wife either, Usually that's what they are to me as well.

Tell me what your motive is....................

 

[mhall]

Cuckoldry is just part of a "normal" healthy and very strong relationship. Do I have the right to dictate what my wife can do with her body ? Absolutely not. Do I feel strong enough in our loving relationship to "let" her have sexual freedom ? Yes. Should she enjoy her sexuality? Of course she should. Should we, as a loving couple use someone else to enhance our freedom and joy? - why not as long as everyone is happy. Does it suit us to make the so called "bull" think he is in charge ? - yes, its part of the game we play.

On the other hand (and purely for us) do we get involved in the name calling and degrading of my wife? - not unless you fancy being a bull that likes the insides of hospitals. Disrespecting the wife, calling her names or not playing by the rules WE lay down is a short trip to a black eye. It us YOU being used.

 

[cumsluthubby]

My motives are plentiful. First of all, I enjoy watching her with other men or women, be they black or any other colour. Secondly, I'm of average size and girth and I know how she enjoys a bigger cock so since I cannot give that to her then she can seek it from others. That said, I am free to sleep with whomever I can convince to do me as well.

As for the biological imperative, while I concede that it is a true phenomenon, I have had a vasectomy so that really doesn't factor into it.

While I can understand the potential problem of not being able to be dominant with her due to the nature of our relationship, that is not an issue with us. I usually have to lead by example and encourage people to be rougher or more vocal with her.

I have final say in who she fucks and when and where she does it. No exceptions.

In the end, if I had to sum up my motives in one sentiment it would be this; It's fun.

 

[cumsluthubby]

.......It us YOU being used.

100% true. When we are in the mood to play we call one of her fuckfriends and we have some fun. They don't dictate anything about the encounters that we don't allow.

 

[joyful.red]

I always attributed my initial desire to watch Danae up to the biological theory. I say this because I realized my desire while me n my wife were seperated for a brief period of time. And I called her on the phone one night trying to get her back and she was rubbing it in my face that she had a date that night. I remember sitting out in my car across the street from her apartment while his car was parked out front at 3 a.m. I felt like somebody had jabbed a knife into my gut but also, for some reason, had a hard on at the same time. And after a little porn browsing realized I wasn't the only guy who was susceptible to this.

 

[Your wife is MY CUNT]

Husbands that want cucked

For those men out there that have the burning desire to watch their wife become a black mans slut, I like to play toward their cuckold wishes. I'd like to think I possess an instinctive sense of the cuckold mindset, leaning toward fulfilling desires to be part of a humiliation play while I transform their wife into my white slut. With that type of scenario in mind, I'd like to present the list of hoops I'll typically ask a husband to jump through.

TASKS FOR A CUCK HUB:

#1 Starts with a conversation where in he humbly admits that he desires to see his wife satisfied by another man. Being in this lifestyle for some time we can forget what a powerful confession this is, but it can be quite liberating as well as humiliating to openly state the cuckold fantasy. Whether it be on the phone, an e-mail, or in person this is an important first step to beginning my DOM relationship with a couple. I'd have you point blank say that you want to see my black dick in (your wife's name here), and use her for my own twisted sexual pleasure. From there I want him to spill all the beans to me about his fetishes and desires involving me taking over in the bedroom.

#2 Is verbally prepping the wife. Having him make a similar admission to his wife about his deep seeded desire to offer up his own wife to me is equally important. With some couples this has already been discussed in detail, for others a bull or dom is needed to assist in fully realizing the fantasy lifestyle. In any case she needs to know he doesn't mind being subservient to the entire situation, and in fact desires it.

#3 Would be physically prepping the wife. This can go quite in depth, but the general idea is I want HIM to take a major part in assisting to get her ready for my evening with her. It should usually involve a few major changes to her normal routine, so that he can see I'm changing her into my image of what a slut wife should be. I'm molding her to my own liking, something far different from what he's used to seeing during date nights with her. I most always begin by sending him out personally to buy some particular trashy lingerie that I've selected. I attempt to select something that is new, edgy, and unfamiliar to both of them for her to bring them out of a comfort zone and into a new version of sexy. I always enjoy the thought of a husband out at a lingerie store selecting outfits for another man to remove in the heat of passion later. The thought of another man enjoying his wife dressed up in nasty lingerie the HE is buying has to drive him crazy. Next I like to make cosmetic changes with his help. New perfume gives her a totally different scent he is unfamiliar with during his years of marriage and makes her that much more 'my girl'. He will be instructed to purchase my idea of a sexy perfume as well as some new lipstick and nail polish for her. If he is particularly sub, I've had men paint their wives toenails and fingernails before my arrival. Finally, I like a cuck hubby to assist in shaving his bride, legs and cunt. He ought to be up close and personal with his wife's pussy while contemplating how much I'm going to enjoy it a few hours later. I want him to pay attention the the details of how I asked him to shave her in a particular way for my liking. After all the next time he sees her twat this close is gonna be after I've beat it up and left it full of cum.

#4 Includes watching and listening during my time with her. In most cases I think he should be present, the first several times we meet for sure, so he can observe first hand how raw and nasty we are in bed together. It's vitally important for a cuck to witness how vastly different his lovemaking is from me using his wife for my carnal pleasure. This is where I really play toward the cuckold husbands fantasy as well. I'll demand he gets a close up as I 1st enter her body, make sure he sees how rough I am on her, and ask him questions like "Do you see her being a slut for me?". I especially like being vocal with him listening, calling his own wife filthy names in his marital bed. And I really like to encourage his woman to cry out loudly and tell me what a 'black cock *****' she is with him listening to every word.

#5 Is direct assistance with a sexual play on his own wife. I like bringing him into the action in my own ways so he can feel how he is contributing to the whole lewd situation, yet unable to stop it or make changes. I've had plenty of sub husbands hold open their wife's labia as I penetrate her, it's sort of a humble offering up of their wife's most private parts. Verbally encouraging her and I both is pretty standard for most hubs, as well as passing me sex toys and lube. What I love to do is direct a hub to take photographs of scenes and details that I find sexy. I want him to capture the moments I find most smutty and pornographic, like the coating of his wife's cum on my black cock as i thrust in and out. I've also had husbands fetch me magic markers so I can write crude and despicable things all over his spouse's flesh. The powerless yet helpful contributions he makes lend that much more of an immoral and taboo feeling for him. I want him thinking: 'my god I actually helped this bull abuse and use my own wife in an obscene fashion'.

#6 The aftermath. When I'm finally done with her, and I've left her pussy red, swollen, and leaking my load.... the aftermath is his to deal with. Some hubs like to clean up her cunt, but I like to leave it up to the woman. After all it is her cum filled cunt, she's the one that worked for it. I'd much prefer for him to have to watch as she first dips her fingers inside, scooping out as much semen as possible to bring to her mouth. For him to examine her playing with the cum I've left in her insides speaks far more to him on how much she truly enjoyed being treated like a cheap white slut wife. If after that she allows him to clean her up so be it. Then I'll send them both to the shower where he needs to assist her in cleaning up again.

#7 Is preparing for our next encounter. I'll continue communication with hubby to ready us both for my next night with her. In the meantime I may ask him to purchase some new and deviant sex toys to add even more of an perverted element to our next meet. I think most cuck hubs would have fun selecting a ball gag and collar for their wife's black master to put on her!

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