I'll try to keep this brief as I can but I am really interested in hearing back from REAL couples/people who have actually gone from talk to reality with this and how it progressed.
I/We are a couple and VERY new to this.
We're in our 30's and have been together 8yrs and have a great relationship.
For the past 3-4 years during foreplay our talk evolved into the fantasy of her being with another man and me, the things I'd like to see happen and the things she'd like about etc...and it always results in a hot fucking session.
That being said we never discussed if that person was white/black and I think she assumed it would be a white guy. We always would discuss what traits she didn't like (hair color..eyes ect....) but I never asked anything other...
Needless to say we never progressed past talking though it is NOT due to lack of wanting..just the situation of a busy real life the discretion factor, and yes the nerve thing also.
She is VERY turned on by the other guy factor..and does talk about during foreplay/sex without my prompting at times just to address the "I am pushing my fantasy" responses.
Recently I found this site and a few others and the thought now of watching her with a black male has totally become a major turn on for me.
2 weeks ago we were fooling around..yes we had a few drinks (always helps..lol) and the talk got pretty heavy and again about her taking on another guy..we went through some scenarios as we played with one another..I worked the conversation to types of guys and after a few questions decided to test the waters on my chances of this happening and asked "what about a black guy?" she said something along the lines of thier skin is kinda rough or something (that did NOT sound like an objection to me..lol) I just responded that I never really thought about in the past but now thinking of it it is a real turn on for me as I began to describe some things about it that I liked thinking of ie: how erotic it would be to see a black guy on her with her light skin..the contrast being a huge turn on...
We ended up having a very intense session together.
The next day I decided to check and see just how appealing it is to her so I downloaded 2 porns to the ole laptop
One with a white woman being fucked by 2 white guys
and another with a white wife and a black guy while the husband films it.
That night again we hung out..had a few drinks then went to bed. As we were climbing in I produced the laptop and said I have a surprise..she laughed and as we watched the white girl and 2 white guys her resonse was nice..making ohhh noises etc..as I played with her and all that good stuff...
then I clicked on the white wife with a black guy...her response was just as positive...and we both talked as we watched it me saying how god that looked and how hot it would be to see her doing that...
Needless to say she was VERY wet and we fucked like crazy.
the next morning we fucked again she asked me if I liked the porns and I said yeah..and she asked me which one I liked better..I told her the black/white one because I found it HIGHLY erotic and discussed the aspects of why and when I asked her which one she liked she said that one too...and when I asked her why she said for the reasons I stated.
That day we were driving.. we passed a black guy walking and she made a comment as she chuckled to the nature of "now all I think is what we talked about last night when I see a black man.." I took that as a positive lol
So here I am..I think she is liking the idea and since that we have had sex and talked about it..and she has gotten very excitied and I noticed a few times her making comments alluding to black in a sly manner.
I think I am getting there and we are at a turning point for certain. My approach for now will be to continue the diet of IR porn only but not forcing it...and when we talk fantasy having that be the focus and go from there.
any suggestions and thanks for reading
I/We are a couple and VERY new to this.
We're in our 30's and have been together 8yrs and have a great relationship.
For the past 3-4 years during foreplay our talk evolved into the fantasy of her being with another man and me, the things I'd like to see happen and the things she'd like about etc...and it always results in a hot fucking session.
That being said we never discussed if that person was white/black and I think she assumed it would be a white guy. We always would discuss what traits she didn't like (hair color..eyes ect....) but I never asked anything other...
Needless to say we never progressed past talking though it is NOT due to lack of wanting..just the situation of a busy real life the discretion factor, and yes the nerve thing also.
She is VERY turned on by the other guy factor..and does talk about during foreplay/sex without my prompting at times just to address the "I am pushing my fantasy" responses.
Recently I found this site and a few others and the thought now of watching her with a black male has totally become a major turn on for me.
2 weeks ago we were fooling around..yes we had a few drinks (always helps..lol) and the talk got pretty heavy and again about her taking on another guy..we went through some scenarios as we played with one another..I worked the conversation to types of guys and after a few questions decided to test the waters on my chances of this happening and asked "what about a black guy?" she said something along the lines of thier skin is kinda rough or something (that did NOT sound like an objection to me..lol) I just responded that I never really thought about in the past but now thinking of it it is a real turn on for me as I began to describe some things about it that I liked thinking of ie: how erotic it would be to see a black guy on her with her light skin..the contrast being a huge turn on...
We ended up having a very intense session together.
The next day I decided to check and see just how appealing it is to her so I downloaded 2 porns to the ole laptop
One with a white woman being fucked by 2 white guys
and another with a white wife and a black guy while the husband films it.
That night again we hung out..had a few drinks then went to bed. As we were climbing in I produced the laptop and said I have a surprise..she laughed and as we watched the white girl and 2 white guys her resonse was nice..making ohhh noises etc..as I played with her and all that good stuff...
then I clicked on the white wife with a black guy...her response was just as positive...and we both talked as we watched it me saying how god that looked and how hot it would be to see her doing that...
Needless to say she was VERY wet and we fucked like crazy.
the next morning we fucked again she asked me if I liked the porns and I said yeah..and she asked me which one I liked better..I told her the black/white one because I found it HIGHLY erotic and discussed the aspects of why and when I asked her which one she liked she said that one too...and when I asked her why she said for the reasons I stated.
That day we were driving.. we passed a black guy walking and she made a comment as she chuckled to the nature of "now all I think is what we talked about last night when I see a black man.." I took that as a positive lol
So here I am..I think she is liking the idea and since that we have had sex and talked about it..and she has gotten very excitied and I noticed a few times her making comments alluding to black in a sly manner.
I think I am getting there and we are at a turning point for certain. My approach for now will be to continue the diet of IR porn only but not forcing it...and when we talk fantasy having that be the focus and go from there.
any suggestions and thanks for reading
