My wife has beena hot wife for about 18 months now, she has had 3 lovers so far. she has been seeing the last one for about 10 months now, and she has developed an emotional attachment to him. It was expected from the beginning and we had talked about it. I Am very comfortable and secure with that and understand that he is more like a good friends with benefits, she likes being with him, but if she has to choose she will choose me.
Recently her friend started seeing another woman on a steady basis, she doesn't know about our arrangement, but we have met her as friends of him. Initially he promised my wife that he would tell the new woman about him and my wife but he chickened out. My wife is not happy about being the other woman, and now she doesn't see him as often as she likes, and she has been miserable and of course that affected our relationship as well. I have talked to both of them about ending their relationship and moving on and they both believe they could make it work.
The worst thing, my wife had told me that if her relationship with him ended she will not seek any other guys.
Have any of you guys ran into this before, how did you handle it? I am very supportive of my wife and care about her feelings, she is a very emotional person and doesn't care much about change, but I think she should move on.
Recently her friend started seeing another woman on a steady basis, she doesn't know about our arrangement, but we have met her as friends of him. Initially he promised my wife that he would tell the new woman about him and my wife but he chickened out. My wife is not happy about being the other woman, and now she doesn't see him as often as she likes, and she has been miserable and of course that affected our relationship as well. I have talked to both of them about ending their relationship and moving on and they both believe they could make it work.
The worst thing, my wife had told me that if her relationship with him ended she will not seek any other guys.
Have any of you guys ran into this before, how did you handle it? I am very supportive of my wife and care about her feelings, she is a very emotional person and doesn't care much about change, but I think she should move on.