Faithful Wife, Unfaithful.

[tiny_4_inch]

I'm wondering what people's thoughts or experiences have been with emotional affairs within the context of cuckolding. My wife has known that this has been a huge fantasy of mine for almost a decade now (I am 30, she is 29). We have been together since high school. While she was 'almost' considering it for a short time early on in college, I fell in love with a great traditional woman who is faithful -- not because of religion or expectations, just because she feels it to be right.

I've told her why I believe that this is a natural fantasy for us: When she tries to be, she is an insanely sexy woman who is so out of my league; I have a small cock and to make it worse, a cock that rarely works; I am not a confident or good lover; and she deserves the full satisfaction of real men. She simply disagrees.

Now, at one point in our long engagement, we hit a sour period but I was still trying to spice things up after being together for so long (8 years). I was neglecting our relationship and focusing on, what she has termed, 'using her as my own personal toy or pornstar'. I had been introducing her to different guys that I wanted her to cuckold me with, and she often never bit on any of them.

However, she was very attracted to one of them and without fulfilling my cuckold fantasy, carried out a very extensive and intimate emotional affair. It lasted for 5 years until we fully patched up many issues but the affair went very deep. She is now very committed to our marriage with no interest in going down 'that dark road' again. We are truly on the right track, if you judge as a traditional married couple.

She has shared with me the emails, conversations, etc. I was shocked and so jealous. But as a wannabe cuckold expected, the jealous turned me on in many ways. Plus, there were many things to be humiliated by in the chats, the other part of cuckolding that turns me on. She has admitted that she was being honest and she truly felt that way in the chat, and it turns me on so much. However, being such a great woman, she won't humiliate me or be mean to me about the past.

I guess my question, other than getting people's thoughts overall, is where should I go from here? Why am I turned on by knowing my wife cheated on me emotionally with another man? Why does it turn me that she planned to meet him for rendezvous' about 6 times? I can give more details if you all are very interested in this, but I wanted to keep it as general as possible for now.

 

[smallcockpaul]

Tiny,

My advice is to keep it fantasy. Youyr wife's emotional attachment is the road to divorce for you. She is not interested, period. The fact that she turned to another for emotional support and friendship suggests something more than sex was missing. You are lucky to still have your wife.

Spice up your sex life, keep both of you happy and be best friends. Good luick!

 

[duke9555]

speak up tiny ....unburden yourself ..deliver unto us
your secrets .............we're here to help

 

[tiny_4_inch]

I agree with all of you. And while I may get into the details of the affair and why it turned me on, I don't see the need to get into why she cheated and what was wrong. It has been fixed. She deserved to do what she did. I was a totally neglecting fiance, and it was as justified as cheating can be.

What I'm fascinated by is that the affair itself turns me on, extremely. Yes, it makes me jealous too...but even that part is a weird turn on. When I read the conversations, and she talks to him about how she is probably going to leave me and how she cannot wait to be ravaged by him, it drives me crazy. Probably because she is the most loyal and faithful human being I have ever met...

I probably should keep it as fantasy. But I think Mac is right. If you are a bad lover, with a small dick, without the personality she wants sexually...it will happen. I really hope that she does. And because of her dedication, she will tell me whether its a month or a year later.

It's just so weird, but this is so much different than the traditional cuckolding fantasy...

 

[duke9555]

we're here 4 u TD .............feel free

 

[imported_pussy boy]

So jealous but excited too

First let me say I never think of myself fucking my wife , every time we fool around I'm always thinking that I'm some other guy we know thats fucking her , thats the only way I can get off , sad ha . Well I had a similar experience with my wife like 10 years ago tiny . She too had an emotional affair on me and MAN ! the mix feeling you can get was to much . She really liked this guy she worked with and they became very friendly , so of cause I used it in one of my fantasies . I started thinking of this guy fucking her during their lunch time and really got off . Then the emotional affair started when this guy started calling my wife late at night right after I went to bed . I would stay up listening to her talking to him and felt so mixed up but I knew I was very jealous . He would alway call late at night when he knew I would be in bed because he knew I got up real early for work .

I was so jealous and afraid I would loose my wife to him , but my wife kept telling me not to worry . But then I was still using this fantasy in bed with my wife and MAN ! did she get off . She would be sucking me good while I played with her cunt ,Then I would mention his name and she would moan hard then ejuculate cumming all over my hand . He would call like once a week and they talked for over an hour sometimes two .

 

[tiny_4_inch]

Did you progress into being a cuckold or just a wannabe cuckold, pussyboy? The way you tell your story it sounds like this is as far as you two have went. I have had two nights where she willing to answer questions and humiliate me by answering them honestly, mostly about the affair but what the affair meant. The jealousy and humiliation was insane...if she wasn't such a sweet and nice wife it would have been 10x worse.

I know what you are saying. At the time, I suspected something as well -- since I had introduced them -- but her personality made it difficult to suspect as 'bad' as it got. I hope it happens again. I just can't figure how to promote it.

 

[imported_pussy boy]

Well about 3 or 4 years before my wifes emotional affair we did get into a really hot 3sum with this guy I worked with . I encouraged it and it went on for over a year with this guy showing up every couple of weeks . A little while after this guy moved away my wife started flirting with almost every guy we knew . So my wife was no stranger to infidelity or having another guy while with me , and yes I forgot to mention . sometimes she would be about an hour or two late coming home from work , but was nice enough to call saying it was work she had to finish . The next day when I got up for work well before her I would snoop and find a very wet pantyliner in our garbage can . YES I smelled it , sometimes it just smelled like her very excited cunt juice . I'm guessing she gave him a blow job and was really excited , but a couple of other times those pantyliners were slimy and smelled like cum . To this day for some reason my wife will not admit to having a full blown physical affair with this guy .

I guess she doesn't want to tell me she cheated on me , but when she's sucking my cock and I mention his name , she'll stop , smile at me and say his cock is bigger then yours , I mean it must be bigger then yours because I'm only like 4 inches also . She just won't come right out and say " yes I've fooled around with Jeff thats his name . This guy left her job awhile a go , so now I'm not jealous , so I just want her to tell me everything about her and Jeff . She knows it gets me excited but why do some women want to keep things like this to themselves . Is she afraid I'd still be hurt even if it turns me on ? I don't know .

 

[tiny_4_inch]

my examples

I hear ya...I have every conversation and email they exchanged...and they had many plans to meet. But he never showed, then she got pissed and they would fight, but then he would convince her of something and the emotional affair continued.
It makes me jealous even still, because it lasted so long and went so far.
Here are some things she had said to him:
"I think I should break up with him. I can't deny how I feel about you...even though we haven't met yet."
"I'd love to fuck you outside somewhere just beyond where people are"
"Maybe it's just a sign that i need someone with a bigger dick to fuck me
"
"I am so nervous and excited for our first date. My best friend says that I have two boyfriends..."

This is just a small sample. I have over 2,000 pages in a Word document of their whole affair. I want her to do it again. I don't think I even want the traditional fantasy anymore...

 

[duke9555]

Tiny: Mrs Tiny deserves a bigger better MAN
you know it i know it and now the world knows it too ...we love
you Tiny

 

[tiny_4_inch]

If only you lived in my area, Duke...we could try and make it happen again. Because I fully agree with you.

 

[duke9555]

Make WHAT happen? Duke's not carrying around a cannon by a long shot!

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[Saraha]

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Here are some things she had said to him:

"I think I should break up with him.

I can't deny how I feel about you...even though we haven't met yet."

"I'd love to fuck you outside somewhere just beyond where people are"

"Maybe it's just a sign that i need someone with a bigger dick to fuck me
"

"I am so nervous and excited for our first date.

My best friend says that I have two boyfriends..."

This is just a small sample. I have over 2,000 pages in a Word document of their whole affair.

I want her to do it again. I don't think I even want the traditional fantasy anymore...

If the guy had showed up, she would have allowed him to take off her panties and fill her pussy with hot sperm. She WANTED it to happen, so she has sinned in thought which is meant to be the same as " in deed".

She needs the right guy, then she will GIVE you your wish.

Her best friend said she had "two boyfriends", so can you build a confidential friendship up with her best friend and confess to her your fantasy and see if she will help it become real.

Her friend needs to know WHY you want your wife to fuck other men, and how you are going to FEEL if your dream comes true?

You must speak from your heart and tell the truth, so her friend will know she can talk your wife into cuckolding you, knowing that it will not damage your love for your wife.

 

[tiny_4_inch]

You are right, Saraha. I have been wanting to approach her best friend, but I just don't know how.

My wife doesn't deny it. In one of the few humiliation sessions we had after she came clean, she told me how much hotter he was than me, how she loved him more than me for at least three years, how much bigger his cock was, how much hotter his body was, how she wouldn't done anything he told her to, and on and on.
She would've done...a lot...with him.

 

[Saraha]

You are right, Saraha. I have been wanting to approach her best friend, but I just don't know how.

My wife doesn't deny it. In one of the few humiliation sessions we had after she came clean, she told me how much hotter he was than me, how she loved him more than me for at least three years, how much bigger his cock was, how much hotter his body was, how she wouldn't done anything he told her to, and on and on.
She would've done...a lot...with him.

Ask her questions, because she is not afraid to tell you the truth. Tell her you dream often about her stories of being with a better man in the past.

Tell her friend you need some advice, and could she set aside some time for a private talk. You will be nervous, but just talk from your heart about your fantasy of your wife taking lovers like she did in the past. Talk about your love for your wife, but you want her to have this special gift of extra loving for being a great wife.

When you talk from the heart, you don't have to make up a speech, you just have to ask your wife's friend to listen to a private matter you wish to discuss with her confidentially.

After the first discussion, it will be easy to "talk more" and get more free advice in the future.

 

[tiny_4_inch]

if anyone who has read this wants to chat with me...my yahoo ID is zephyrpride55115...make sure you mention this site.

 

[tiny_4_inch]

It's pretty clear to me that my wife is never going to go down this road again. How do you make the decision of whether having this lifestyle is worth ending an otherwise great marriage? This is something that I really want, and I don't know if I get past it, and just have a typical vanilla sex life.

 

[missmissy]

Stay in the great marriage. If it's love, it will last. IMO the marraige is more important.

 

[sixtysix]

For me your best two options are
1. Continue the way you are - life doesnt get any better
2. If you do go down the other road, get the bull to do the house chores. He will if your wife is hot enough. Better still, get him to do the house chores of your friendly neighbour too, while he's at it.

It's pretty clear to me that my wife is never going to go down this road again. How do you make the decision of whether having this lifestyle is worth ending an otherwise great marriage? This is something that I really want, and I don't know if I get past it, and just have a typical vanilla sex life.

 

[tiny_4_inch]

So, just a little update to this thread. I have pretty much dropped the idea for awhile now. I do plan on bringing it up in the future, but now is not the time. The thing is: We haven't had sex in 16 months. The last time was when we conceived our child. We didn't have sex through the pregnancy, then off course there is the recuperation, and then...holy crap we have a baby to take care of! LOL.
That is her main rationale for our lack of any intimacy. However, as I chat with others, they tend to believe that she may have started a new affair or taken my lead to simply cheat on me. I tend to believe her, but I just wanted to throw it out there to the masses to see what everyone else thinks.
I almost feel like I am finally living a half-cuckold lifestyle, even if she's still faithful...because I feel like I'm in pure chastity, and she wants nothing to do with me sexually. She still won't humiliate me or admit that part of it is that I'm just a bad lover with a small dick...but that has to play a role even though there is a legitimate reason for our lack of intimacy. If I was a great lover, we wouldn't have went over a year, right?