Thank you for letting me join. I have looked here quite a few times but was a little nervous. I have tried to talk my wife into the black thing for a few years now. Have been close a few times. She says she only wants me, but the other day we met a black man from England and she was all smiles. That night we had the best sex in years. This is the reason I became a member. Maybe he will be on here as I didn't get his number. I'm sure if I go back to the same beach area I will run into him again. BTW she did a relationship with a dude in college.