Jason - other have provided there view point and here is mine in a very simplistic view. You have seen her secret, I would agree with some here that would suggest that she will always want to see other men; if you are truly okay with that you should simply be bold enough to have a judgment free openly honest conversation with her. Let her know how you feel, what you are and are not okay with and then take it from there. No need venting about it if you are not going to do something about it one way or another. As far as the pregnancy discussions, again, something that you have to decided what you are willing to accept and if you are, this should also be part of an open discussion with her. Good luck on what every direction you take.