My wife and her boss have been fucking for almost 11 years. A lot of the time it's while they are away with work which was usually about once a month for 2 or 3 days at a time. This suited us all he was married at the time and until recently didn't know I knew about it. He got divorced around 2 years ago and they gradually started to see a little bit more of each other. Anyway I'll take it on to Christmas they "came out as a couple " at the works Christmas party and at the hotel that night she told him I knew and was ok with their relationship. He was a bit freaked but has since come to enjoy it, we are relatively friendly but I do acknowledge he's the alpha and he loves that.
They still don't see each other much more but they came to me with a suggestion last week which both thrilled and concerned me. Actual sharing. She would spend 3 days a week with him and 4 with me. Alternating weekends but with flexibility for parties and family events (our kids don't know).
We would explain this using the false explanation that the job requires her to be away more often. I'll admit my first thought was 'she's going to leave me' He gives her what she needs sexually I don't.
I haven't agreed to it but think I would be unfair not to. Another part of me think crazy! I would welcome hearing anyone else who maybe has similar lifestyles or opinions on it.
They still don't see each other much more but they came to me with a suggestion last week which both thrilled and concerned me. Actual sharing. She would spend 3 days a week with him and 4 with me. Alternating weekends but with flexibility for parties and family events (our kids don't know).
We would explain this using the false explanation that the job requires her to be away more often. I'll admit my first thought was 'she's going to leave me' He gives her what she needs sexually I don't.
I haven't agreed to it but think I would be unfair not to. Another part of me think crazy! I would welcome hearing anyone else who maybe has similar lifestyles or opinions on it.