Girlfriend vs. Wife cuckolding...which is hotter?
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Well I’ve actually been lucky enough to experience both, and while losing my gf to a guy I convinced her to fuck is something I look back on and get horny thinking about, I think wife cucking is hotter because it’s more consequential and also seems to be longer lasting. I’m out to two years with my wife but with my ex gf after less than 6 months it was over.
I vote wife, first because I have one and I don't have a girlfriend. Second, because historically you had to be married to be cuckolded.
In this day and age it is more difficult to determine where the line is for cuckolding. Having your girlfriend screw around with someone else is less of an issue if she is casually dating you, more if she is exclusive to you (until that point), and worse if she is engaged to you.
In this day and age it is more difficult to determine where the line is for cuckolding. Having your girlfriend screw around with someone else is less of an issue if she is casually dating you, more if she is exclusive to you (until that point), and worse if she is engaged to you.
As Mac said in between lines, cuckolding is among married couples.
That said... to me, the stronger the relationship, the higher the turn on.
Usually marriage is supposed to be stronger and lasting longer: so I definitely vote WIFE.
I didn't have cuckold-like fantasy with my (then) gf (now wife).
I certainly do have cuckold fantasies now that we have been married for +20 years (it started 15 years ago)
I like stories of unfaithful wives, I usually don't care those of unfaithful girlfriends.
An exception, from real life:
happened to a close friend of my wife's two sisters (all very cute). In spite her boyfriend's advances, she refused to have sex with him because she wanted to get vergin up to marriage (!)
I witnessed discussions about it among her and two sisters (moderate turn on).
It lasted three/four years (!!!) she denying her sex to poor guy.
One summer, when in vacation with parents, she ended up fucking her horse riding trainer.
All the community of friends knew, but him.
They eventually split after a couple of months.
He is still around, still bachelor, not much sexual activity we presume
She vanished.
When I think of her fucking the horse guy, I still have huge hardons.
(Unfortunately, I did not witness when she told the story to my sisters-in-law. But I surely was present (and clearly rememebr) when sis-in-law told to my wife. I wanted to jerk off on the spot !!!)
Real story, I could give you names and surnames.
- GordonPym
That said... to me, the stronger the relationship, the higher the turn on.
Usually marriage is supposed to be stronger and lasting longer: so I definitely vote WIFE.
I didn't have cuckold-like fantasy with my (then) gf (now wife).
I certainly do have cuckold fantasies now that we have been married for +20 years (it started 15 years ago)
I like stories of unfaithful wives, I usually don't care those of unfaithful girlfriends.
An exception, from real life:
happened to a close friend of my wife's two sisters (all very cute). In spite her boyfriend's advances, she refused to have sex with him because she wanted to get vergin up to marriage (!)
I witnessed discussions about it among her and two sisters (moderate turn on).
It lasted three/four years (!!!) she denying her sex to poor guy.
One summer, when in vacation with parents, she ended up fucking her horse riding trainer.
All the community of friends knew, but him.
They eventually split after a couple of months.
He is still around, still bachelor, not much sexual activity we presume
She vanished.
When I think of her fucking the horse guy, I still have huge hardons.
(Unfortunately, I did not witness when she told the story to my sisters-in-law. But I surely was present (and clearly rememebr
) when sis-in-law told to my wife. I wanted to jerk off on the spot !!!)Real story, I could give you names and surnames.
- GordonPym
Agreed, the stronger the relationship, the higher the turn on.
GordonPym said:As Mac said in between lines, cuckolding is among married couples.
That said... to me, the stronger the relationship, the higher the turn on.
Usually marriage is supposed to be stronger and lasting longer: so I definitely vote WIFE.
I didn't have cuckold-like fantasy with my (then) gf (now wife).
I certainly do have cuckold fantasies now that we have been married for +20 years (it started 15 years ago)
I like stories of unfaithful wives, I usually don't care those of unfaithful girlfriends.
An exception, from real life:
happened to a close friend of my wife's two sisters (all very cute). In spite her boyfriend's advances, she refused to have sex with him because she wanted to get vergin up to marriage (!)
I witnessed discussions about it among her and two sisters (moderate turn on).
It lasted three/four years (!!!) she denying her sex to poor guy.
One summer, when in vacation with parents, she ended up fucking her horse riding trainer.
All the community of friends knew, but him.
They eventually split after a couple of months.
He is still around, still bachelor, not much sexual activity we presume
She vanished.
When I think of her fucking the horse guy, I still have huge hardons.
(Unfortunately, I did not witness when she told the story to my sisters-in-law. But I surely was present (and clearly rememebr
Real story, I could give you names and surnames.
- GordonPym
MistressKent........... you said it all we have been into the lifestyle for many years I can tell you that when we first started it was early in our dating relationship and we both are more turned on today than ever............ actually we feel our relationship is stronger and better because we can openly share our desires and enjoy them for ourselves as wel las our lover
I have to ask
I do think a GF can cuckold a man, but many would say no because she has never made a formal commentment to you! Frankly I am in favor of doing away with marriage as it is now and have partnership agreements vie marriage license. Would change name to partnership agreement.
I do think a GF can cuckold a man, but many would say no because she has never made a formal commentment to you! Frankly I am in favor of doing away with marriage as it is now and have partnership agreements vie marriage license. Would change name to partnership agreement.
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It all depends on how one defines girlfriend.
You can have a casual GF or, a lonng time live in GF who is more of a wife then many wives are.
Like I said, it depends on the emotional commitment, not the "marriage" title which can mean nothing than a tax deduction for many married couples.
Personally, my cucolding/hot wife relationship began when my now wife was a long term live-in GF ( long story) and I can tell you the emotional and sexual components of both were the same for me.
I can even say that it was even more of a emotional cuckold/hotwife turn one when she was a GF because there was no legel reason for her to stay with me. It was just the emotional comittment between us. She just needs sex from many different guys......she truly enjoys benig a slut and warned me early on in our relationship the this was the case. However, I fell in love with her and she relly tried to be faithful for a while but it was no use.
You can have a casual GF or, a lonng time live in GF who is more of a wife then many wives are.
Like I said, it depends on the emotional commitment, not the "marriage" title which can mean nothing than a tax deduction for many married couples.
Personally, my cucolding/hot wife relationship began when my now wife was a long term live-in GF ( long story) and I can tell you the emotional and sexual components of both were the same for me.
I can even say that it was even more of a emotional cuckold/hotwife turn one when she was a GF because there was no legel reason for her to stay with me. It was just the emotional comittment between us. She just needs sex from many different guys......she truly enjoys benig a slut and warned me early on in our relationship the this was the case. However, I fell in love with her and she relly tried to be faithful for a while but it was no use.
GordonPym said:
NYJOE said:
I concur. It doesn't matter whether the two are "officially" married.
What counts is the strength (and duration) of the relationship.
If she is a live-in GF (as NYJOE says), one that some would introduce as "my wife" to those who wouldn't understand such a long lasting relationship outside of marriage, she is de-facto (by fact) a wife, no matter of her de-jure (legal) status.
So - again - I say: "Wife" is a much greater turn on! (where "wife" has a broader meaning than just a woman officially married)
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Without a doubt, fucking another man's wife. The symbolism and power involved in doing such a thing is far more satisfying than if she were only his girlfriend. Marriage, at its heart, still implies both monogamy and a sort of ownership between both partners; sleep with no one else and we belong to each other. But, by forcing myself into this relationship, by defiling their marriage, I take control of both of them, I bend their marriage to my ends. Each time cock ends up inside her, each time he watches her submit to me, it signifies my power over both of them, my control of their marriage.
Getting a husband to beg you to fuck his wife, having a wife beg you to fuck her married pussy, doing many fun things with rings--a wife beats a girlfriend any day.
Getting a husband to beg you to fuck his wife, having a wife beg you to fuck her married pussy, doing many fun things with rings--a wife beats a girlfriend any day.
Semantics Semantics .... when my GF cheated on me, it was much sexier, wilder and emotionally explosive...when my wifey cucked me, she was just mean, bitchy, egotistical, inconsiderate and in the end kind of idiotic and boring....dictionary definitions change when people change the way they use language...a dictionary doesn't carry the meaning, people do...a 19th century definition of "gay" would be unrecognizable today and many of Shakespeare's words are just plain weird.
Since it is now legal for 2 women to marry, if one of them cheats (with a man?) is that cuckolding too?? Or if 2 guys are married, and one of them cheats (with a woman?) is that cuckolding??
Since it is now legal for 2 women to marry, if one of them cheats (with a man?) is that cuckolding too?? Or if 2 guys are married, and one of them cheats (with a woman?) is that cuckolding??
