My wife and I have been together 14 years. For the last 10 years I have desired her to be with other men. She, however is the perfect wife for a normal man, she is a good cook, mother and is very loyal. When I first asked her to do this she was hurt that I would want to share her and was not happy. We have been together some time and have had marrital problems and what not. We almost split up 3 years ago but worked passed it, largly in part to my fixasion on this cuckold thing with her. We are both in our early 30s and I think she is very sexy, however we have been together so long we dont quit have that "in love" spark. To be honest, we don't say ' I love you" anymore. Like an idiot, I stopped saying it years ago, although I still love her. After all this trying and convincing we have finaly come up with a plan for her to go visit her friend in Dallas who happens to be single and offten goes out. Although if it were up to me I would much rather have a situation where she and I are together or atleast in the same city when she does this, but the problem is, she says she will only feel comforatable by herself. This brings me to my dilima... She makes me feel like she doesent want me around when she does it, which makes me feel she no longer loves me, but she says...It is an uncomforatable situation for her and she needs to have her time to be comforatable. I am looking for some good advice from anyone piticularly women who may have shared my wifes persepective of things...